Guest guest Posted January 16, 2009 Report Share Posted January 16, 2009 > When I told a few friends and my son that I had an illness that was > terminal some of them and my son responded with:Well, we all have to go > sometime. Has anyone had someone say this to them and if so what do you > say when they say that? It hurt me deeply when my son said that to me. > And, it is such a cold thing to say.....it also hurt when my friends > say it to me or as one said well, you are getting old you didn't expect > to live to be 90 did you? (actually I did! LOL ). Joyce R. Prescott AZ > PF Nov o8 > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- ----No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG - http://www.avg.comhttp://www.avg.com/> > Version: 8.0.176 / Virus Database: 270.10.7/1895 - Release Date: 1/15/2009 7:46 AM > You are going to love National Jewish...I went after being diagnosed in Houston for a second opinion. They were consistenly on time with appointments and tests, so helpful and very considerate. I found them to be one of the best facilities I've been to. I can see why they are rated the number one respiratory center in the US. Their responses were very cold and like someone else suggested, maybe they just couldn't handle it at time, but only you were there to be able to read the body language etc. I am sorry people responded that way. I know it did hurt. I've been back on Pred. since August....each time I keep my manicure appointment the oriental technicians consistently say this: 1) 'Hello' and 2)'You not skinny anymore....got fat, yes?' ...it always catches me off guard but then I think at least they are honest! Everyone else says they can't see a change to be nice! I take my last dose Sunday....then the work begins again to lose it again! One hard thing I've learned recently is that I have to use the energy I do have, to concentrate on being as well as I can be, I can't use it to worry about what others may say or do...it works for me, maybe it will for others. I hope you have a good weekend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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