Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 wow, just wow ~~~ Imagine all the people, living life in peace - Lennon ~~~ ------------------------- gina, 31, ny single mom to - kailey, 8, autism, hyperlexia, depression, anxiety, OCD, DSI trevor, 3, multiple developmental delays, no " official " dx yet parker jade, due 7-25-03 :-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 wow, just wow ~~~ Imagine all the people, living life in peace - Lennon ~~~ ------------------------- gina, 31, ny single mom to - kailey, 8, autism, hyperlexia, depression, anxiety, OCD, DSI trevor, 3, multiple developmental delays, no " official " dx yet parker jade, due 7-25-03 :-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 > wow, just wow > Oh, yes, as Putter would say. Made me want to smack him one. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 > wow, just wow > Oh, yes, as Putter would say. Made me want to smack him one. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 > Made me want to smack him one < i think i'd do more than smack him. i hope your lawyer will be seeing this letter ~~~ Imagine all the people, living life in peace - Lennon ~~~ ------------------------- gina, 31, ny single mom to - kailey, 8, autism, hyperlexia, depression, anxiety, OCD, DSI trevor, 3, multiple developmental delays, no " official " dx yet parker jade, due 7-25-03 :-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 > Made me want to smack him one < i think i'd do more than smack him. i hope your lawyer will be seeing this letter ~~~ Imagine all the people, living life in peace - Lennon ~~~ ------------------------- gina, 31, ny single mom to - kailey, 8, autism, hyperlexia, depression, anxiety, OCD, DSI trevor, 3, multiple developmental delays, no " official " dx yet parker jade, due 7-25-03 :-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 I say we take up a collection and hire a hitman and put Lou out of Salli's misery. Leigh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 I say we take up a collection and hire a hitman and put Lou out of Salli's misery. Leigh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Well, he could really mean it, that he misses the kids (but doesn't change the fact that his people skills suck and he isn't the best parent (or person) in the word. You can have both). He might have actually been using his prison time constructivly and looked back on everything he has done wrong and feels some bit of regret. Or he could just be an asshole. But what gets me, is how he is making it seem like everyone else should feel guilty for his mistakes. I don't get that one. I mean, he is allowed to miss his family, he is allowed to ask to be prayed for, but he does not have the right to make any one else feel guilty because he screwed up, especially his children. I don't even know the man and he gets under my skin. Georga Hackworth Men, can't live with them, can't trade them in for their weight in chocolate. April is Autism Awareness Month! Enter to win $50 in free books at www.ubah.com/F1549 Letter from Lou > The kids received a long letter from Lou. Sophie got tired trying to read his awful (Aspie!) handwriting and so she had me read it to her. This paragraph struck my attention particularly. > > " I so hate being apart from you. Bu tlet me tell you something now. I have felt this sadness and depression for quite a while now, in fact, ever since i was forced from your house and forced to live in a little apartment away from my children, I have felt as if I were in prison. So actually, this is not all that difficult for me because it feels so familiar. At least here there are people to talk to and play chess with and laugh with. I am so tired of living alone, waiting for the next time I can see my children. So if you want to pray for me, pray that God will continue to give me strength to be apart from my beautiful children, as He has for the past three and a half years. " > > Salli > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Well, he could really mean it, that he misses the kids (but doesn't change the fact that his people skills suck and he isn't the best parent (or person) in the word. You can have both). He might have actually been using his prison time constructivly and looked back on everything he has done wrong and feels some bit of regret. Or he could just be an asshole. But what gets me, is how he is making it seem like everyone else should feel guilty for his mistakes. I don't get that one. I mean, he is allowed to miss his family, he is allowed to ask to be prayed for, but he does not have the right to make any one else feel guilty because he screwed up, especially his children. I don't even know the man and he gets under my skin. Georga Hackworth Men, can't live with them, can't trade them in for their weight in chocolate. April is Autism Awareness Month! Enter to win $50 in free books at www.ubah.com/F1549 Letter from Lou > The kids received a long letter from Lou. Sophie got tired trying to read his awful (Aspie!) handwriting and so she had me read it to her. This paragraph struck my attention particularly. > > " I so hate being apart from you. Bu tlet me tell you something now. I have felt this sadness and depression for quite a while now, in fact, ever since i was forced from your house and forced to live in a little apartment away from my children, I have felt as if I were in prison. So actually, this is not all that difficult for me because it feels so familiar. At least here there are people to talk to and play chess with and laugh with. I am so tired of living alone, waiting for the next time I can see my children. So if you want to pray for me, pray that God will continue to give me strength to be apart from my beautiful children, as He has for the past three and a half years. " > > Salli > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 > But what gets me, is how he is making it seem like everyone else should feel > guilty for his mistakes. Oh, I think he does miss his children and I do feel that he loves them. My objection was just what you wrote up here. He was " forced from his house. " Sigh. He assaulted me. He was arrested and sentenced according the laws of the land which were fairly administered in his case. He is clueless. This is why no amount of counselling will ever help. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Well, look at it this way. He was forced from the house. Just not how he thinks he was. If he could have behaved like a responsible, reasonable adult and treated you with the respect due another human being then he would not have been " forced " to leave. He brought it on himself. The bottom line is that he pushed things as far as he could (maybe to see what he could get away with, sort of like a little kid) to see what happened. He was punished for it. He forced you (and the court system) to punish him. Lou really has some issues, and none of them are good. Georga Hackworth Men, can't live with them, can't trade them in for their weight in chocolate. April is Autism Awareness Month! Enter to win $50 in free books at www.ubah.com/F1549 Re: Letter from Lou > > But what gets me, is how he is making it seem like everyone else should > feel > > guilty for his mistakes. > > Oh, I think he does miss his children and I do feel that he loves them. My > objection was just what you wrote up here. He was " forced from his house. " > > Sigh. He assaulted me. He was arrested and sentenced according the laws of > the land which were fairly administered in his case. He is clueless. > > This is why no amount of counselling will ever help. > > Salli > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Well, look at it this way. He was forced from the house. Just not how he thinks he was. If he could have behaved like a responsible, reasonable adult and treated you with the respect due another human being then he would not have been " forced " to leave. He brought it on himself. The bottom line is that he pushed things as far as he could (maybe to see what he could get away with, sort of like a little kid) to see what happened. He was punished for it. He forced you (and the court system) to punish him. Lou really has some issues, and none of them are good. Georga Hackworth Men, can't live with them, can't trade them in for their weight in chocolate. April is Autism Awareness Month! Enter to win $50 in free books at www.ubah.com/F1549 Re: Letter from Lou > > But what gets me, is how he is making it seem like everyone else should > feel > > guilty for his mistakes. > > Oh, I think he does miss his children and I do feel that he loves them. My > objection was just what you wrote up here. He was " forced from his house. " > > Sigh. He assaulted me. He was arrested and sentenced according the laws of > the land which were fairly administered in his case. He is clueless. > > This is why no amount of counselling will ever help. > > Salli > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Well, look at it this way. He was forced from the house. Just not how he thinks he was. If he could have behaved like a responsible, reasonable adult and treated you with the respect due another human being then he would not have been " forced " to leave. He brought it on himself. The bottom line is that he pushed things as far as he could (maybe to see what he could get away with, sort of like a little kid) to see what happened. He was punished for it. He forced you (and the court system) to punish him. Lou really has some issues, and none of them are good. Georga Hackworth Men, can't live with them, can't trade them in for their weight in chocolate. April is Autism Awareness Month! Enter to win $50 in free books at www.ubah.com/F1549 Re: Letter from Lou > > But what gets me, is how he is making it seem like everyone else should > feel > > guilty for his mistakes. > > Oh, I think he does miss his children and I do feel that he loves them. My > objection was just what you wrote up here. He was " forced from his house. " > > Sigh. He assaulted me. He was arrested and sentenced according the laws of > the land which were fairly administered in his case. He is clueless. > > This is why no amount of counselling will ever help. > > Salli > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Good grief! This sounds like some of the letters my father had written to me in the past. The whole " poor me, I did nothing wrong, the world is against me, I am the victim, pity me " thing. I'm so sorry you and the kids have to put up with this Salli. Debbie with twins - Jordan (ASD) 2.5yo - (NT) 2.5yo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Good grief! This sounds like some of the letters my father had written to me in the past. The whole " poor me, I did nothing wrong, the world is against me, I am the victim, pity me " thing. I'm so sorry you and the kids have to put up with this Salli. Debbie with twins - Jordan (ASD) 2.5yo - (NT) 2.5yo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 what was their reaction anyway? ~~~ Imagine all the people, living life in peace - Lennon ~~~ ------------------------- gina, 31, ny single mom to - kailey, 8, autism, hyperlexia, depression, anxiety, OCD, DSI trevor, 3, multiple developmental delays, no " official " dx yet parker jade, due 7-25-03 :-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 what was their reaction anyway? ~~~ Imagine all the people, living life in peace - Lennon ~~~ ------------------------- gina, 31, ny single mom to - kailey, 8, autism, hyperlexia, depression, anxiety, OCD, DSI trevor, 3, multiple developmental delays, no " official " dx yet parker jade, due 7-25-03 :-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 We're not suppose to feel sorry for him, are we? I hope not. Sorry Salli, Letter from Lou The kids received a long letter from Lou. Sophie got tired trying to read his awful (Aspie!) handwriting and so she had me read it to her. This paragraph struck my attention particularly. " I so hate being apart from you. Bu tlet me tell you something now. I have felt this sadness and depression for quite a while now, in fact, ever since i was forced from your house and forced to live in a little apartment away from my children, I have felt as if I were in prison. So actually, this is not all that difficult for me because it feels so familiar. At least here there are people to talk to and play chess with and laugh with. I am so tired of living alone, waiting for the next time I can see my children. So if you want to pray for me, pray that God will continue to give me strength to be apart from my beautiful children, as He has for the past three and a half years. " Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 We're not suppose to feel sorry for him, are we? I hope not. Sorry Salli, Letter from Lou The kids received a long letter from Lou. Sophie got tired trying to read his awful (Aspie!) handwriting and so she had me read it to her. This paragraph struck my attention particularly. " I so hate being apart from you. Bu tlet me tell you something now. I have felt this sadness and depression for quite a while now, in fact, ever since i was forced from your house and forced to live in a little apartment away from my children, I have felt as if I were in prison. So actually, this is not all that difficult for me because it feels so familiar. At least here there are people to talk to and play chess with and laugh with. I am so tired of living alone, waiting for the next time I can see my children. So if you want to pray for me, pray that God will continue to give me strength to be apart from my beautiful children, as He has for the past three and a half years. " Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 We're not suppose to feel sorry for him, are we? I hope not. Sorry Salli, Letter from Lou The kids received a long letter from Lou. Sophie got tired trying to read his awful (Aspie!) handwriting and so she had me read it to her. This paragraph struck my attention particularly. " I so hate being apart from you. Bu tlet me tell you something now. I have felt this sadness and depression for quite a while now, in fact, ever since i was forced from your house and forced to live in a little apartment away from my children, I have felt as if I were in prison. So actually, this is not all that difficult for me because it feels so familiar. At least here there are people to talk to and play chess with and laugh with. I am so tired of living alone, waiting for the next time I can see my children. So if you want to pray for me, pray that God will continue to give me strength to be apart from my beautiful children, as He has for the past three and a half years. " Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 OMG. (WANTING TO SMACK HIM UPSIDE THE HEAD) You don't fucking write crap like this to children. (*I know everyone here knows this) Guess Prison isn't doing much for him. Letter from Lou The kids received a long letter from Lou. Sophie got tired trying to read his awful (Aspie!) handwriting and so she had me read it to her. This paragraph struck my attention particularly. " I so hate being apart from you. Bu tlet me tell you something now. I have felt this sadness and depression for quite a while now, in fact, ever since i was forced from your house and forced to live in a little apartment away from my children, I have felt as if I were in prison. So actually, this is not all that difficult for me because it feels so familiar. At least here there are people to talk to and play chess with and laugh with. I am so tired of living alone, waiting for the next time I can see my children. So if you want to pray for me, pray that God will continue to give me strength to be apart from my beautiful children, as He has for the past three and a half years. " Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Oh, I think he does miss his children and I do feel that he loves them. My objection was just what you wrote up here. He was " forced from his house. " {{He shouldn't be writing this to them anyway. No amount of a guilt trip should be laid on the children. }} This is why no amount of counselling will ever help. {{ This is so true. I don't think anything ever is going to get through to LOU}} {{Honest, I'd still like to give him a good swift Kick)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 Lou has always been a jerk. Now he's an unrepetant jerk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2003 Report Share Posted April 5, 2003 prick! that man needs to stop emotionally torturing those poor children. they have been through enough! M.G.mum to Sebastian, 11 kinda quirky(NT) Rowan, 6 extra quirky (ASD) married to and living in Northern Ontario Letter from Lou The kids received a long letter from Lou. Sophie got tired trying to read his awful (Aspie!) handwriting and so she had me read it to her. This paragraph struck my attention particularly. " I so hate being apart from you. Bu tlet me tell you something now. I have felt this sadness and depression for quite a while now, in fact, ever since i was forced from your house and forced to live in a little apartment away from my children, I have felt as if I were in prison. So actually, this is not all that difficult for me because it feels so familiar. At least here there are people to talk to and play chess with and laugh with. I am so tired of living alone, waiting for the next time I can see my children. So if you want to pray for me, pray that God will continue to give me strength to be apart from my beautiful children, as He has for the past three and a half years. " Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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