Guest guest Posted August 7, 2008 Report Share Posted August 7, 2008 and Chaim, I think about this issue a lot, both as a parent and as a daughter. It makes me sick to my stomach as well to think of my kids getting either PSC or UC. And I know that mom has guilt about having passed on some defective genes, because all three of us kids have serious chronic ailments. It's a terrible feeling of unease. I try to stay optimistic with the fact that genetics are a only a predisposition, and the chances really are low. Though I carry the unease around with me. Ruth UC - 2000, Colectomy - 2007, PSC - 2008 Mother of Tamar (3) and Erez (9 months) > If I understand this right there is an 11.5 fold chance that first degree > family members get IBD. The chance according to the CCFA (IBD association) > is 149 per 100.000. An 11.5 fold increase makes the probability 1.7%. This > is high, but there is still a 98.3% chance your kids will not get it. I like > those odds. > > Regards, > > Chaim Boermeester, Israel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 7, 2008 Report Share Posted August 7, 2008 and Chaim, I think about this issue a lot, both as a parent and as a daughter. It makes me sick to my stomach as well to think of my kids getting either PSC or UC. And I know that mom has guilt about having passed on some defective genes, because all three of us kids have serious chronic ailments. It's a terrible feeling of unease. I try to stay optimistic with the fact that genetics are a only a predisposition, and the chances really are low. Though I carry the unease around with me. Ruth UC - 2000, Colectomy - 2007, PSC - 2008 Mother of Tamar (3) and Erez (9 months) > If I understand this right there is an 11.5 fold chance that first degree > family members get IBD. The chance according to the CCFA (IBD association) > is 149 per 100.000. An 11.5 fold increase makes the probability 1.7%. This > is high, but there is still a 98.3% chance your kids will not get it. I like > those odds. > > Regards, > > Chaim Boermeester, Israel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 7, 2008 Report Share Posted August 7, 2008 I agree too Arne, I'm sure happy I was born and I do hope the circumstances will allow me to have at least one more child. I still feel this dread though about these vulnerable little human beings who I love so much having to go through what I've been through... But I have to say there is positive in the experience - there has been incredible growth and connectness and appreciation of life and loved ones that has resulted from my diagnosis. Ruth I'm very glad I was born (and so is my wife, usually:). Do I wish my parents had made a different decision? ABSOLUTELY NOT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 7, 2008 Report Share Posted August 7, 2008 I agree too Arne, I'm sure happy I was born and I do hope the circumstances will allow me to have at least one more child. I still feel this dread though about these vulnerable little human beings who I love so much having to go through what I've been through... But I have to say there is positive in the experience - there has been incredible growth and connectness and appreciation of life and loved ones that has resulted from my diagnosis. Ruth I'm very glad I was born (and so is my wife, usually:). Do I wish my parents had made a different decision? ABSOLUTELY NOT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 7, 2008 Report Share Posted August 7, 2008 I agree too Arne, I'm sure happy I was born and I do hope the circumstances will allow me to have at least one more child. I still feel this dread though about these vulnerable little human beings who I love so much having to go through what I've been through... But I have to say there is positive in the experience - there has been incredible growth and connectness and appreciation of life and loved ones that has resulted from my diagnosis. Ruth I'm very glad I was born (and so is my wife, usually:). Do I wish my parents had made a different decision? ABSOLUTELY NOT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2008 Report Share Posted August 15, 2008 After reading these posts my Dad who is 85, who knows lots of both my Mother's and his families history, sat down with the family trees on both sides of my family for 4 generations, (Mum and Dad's parents, his generation, my generation and my children's generation) there appears to be no family history of IBD or PSC that we know of on either side, expect for my older sister and younger brother having UC and me with PSC and my youngest son (aged 27) has proctitis. So there may be a genetic component from my Dad and Mum combination! So thats the odds! Best wishes --- In , Chaim Boermeester > If I understand this right there is an 11.5 fold chance that first degree > family members get IBD. The chance according to the CCFA (IBD association) > is 149 per 100.000. An 11.5 fold increase makes the probability 1.7%. This > is high, but there is still a 98.3% chance your kids will not get it. I like > those odds. > Regards, > Chaim Boermeester, Israel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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