Guest guest Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Congratulations !! That gives the rest of us hope too! One question...what's a "PFD"? Hugs- Ivy -- Fear free sex Hi all! Two days ago I experienced something I have never felt before and was worried would never happen. My husband and I had fear free sex. According to Rhonda, I was supposed to wait longer, but I was wanting to try it since so much of my pain was gone and I have so much more control with the PFDs. My husband wasn't planning on us going through with it, so it was all in my hands. I put lidocaine on the skin that was still tender, did my PFDs and it went beautifully! I had no pain, actually, I had pleasure. And the best part of all, there was no fear of pain or guilt. I could just enjoy it. I've never had that...I've always had pain and fear and this shows me that things can get better and will get better and that mentally I will not be frozen in this pain cycle even though it's always been there. I wish that we all can get there someday. Have a great day ladies. in IL **IF REPLYING TO THIS POST, PLEASE REMOVE ORIGINAL POST, Thanks for your cooperation! ** *** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Ivy,PFD is pelvic floor dysfunction--related to the pelvic floor muscles.>> Congratulations !! That gives the rest of us hope too! > > One question...what's a "PFD"? > > Hugs- > Ivy > > -- Fear free sex > > Hi all! > > Two days ago I experienced something I have never felt before and was > worried would never happen. My husband and I had fear free sex. > According to Rhonda, I was supposed to wait longer, but I was wanting > to try it since so much of my pain was gone and I have so much more > control with the PFDs. My husband wasn't planning on us going through > with it, so it was all in my hands. I put lidocaine on the skin that > was still tender, did my PFDs and it went beautifully! I had no pain, > actually, I had pleasure. And the best part of all, there was no > fear of pain or guilt. I could just enjoy it. I've never had > that...I've always had pain and fear and this shows me that things can > get better and will get better and that mentally I will not be frozen > in this pain cycle even though it's always been there. I wish that we > all can get there someday. Have a great day ladies. > > in IL > > > > > **IF REPLYING TO THIS POST, PLEASE REMOVE ORIGINAL POST, > Thanks for your cooperation! ** > > *** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Ivy,PFD is pelvic floor dysfunction--related to the pelvic floor muscles.>> Congratulations !! That gives the rest of us hope too! > > One question...what's a "PFD"? > > Hugs- > Ivy > > -- Fear free sex > > Hi all! > > Two days ago I experienced something I have never felt before and was > worried would never happen. My husband and I had fear free sex. > According to Rhonda, I was supposed to wait longer, but I was wanting > to try it since so much of my pain was gone and I have so much more > control with the PFDs. My husband wasn't planning on us going through > with it, so it was all in my hands. I put lidocaine on the skin that > was still tender, did my PFDs and it went beautifully! I had no pain, > actually, I had pleasure. And the best part of all, there was no > fear of pain or guilt. I could just enjoy it. I've never had > that...I've always had pain and fear and this shows me that things can > get better and will get better and that mentally I will not be frozen > in this pain cycle even though it's always been there. I wish that we > all can get there someday. Have a great day ladies. > > in IL > > > > > **IF REPLYING TO THIS POST, PLEASE REMOVE ORIGINAL POST, > Thanks for your cooperation! ** > > *** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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