Guest guest Posted April 7, 2008 Report Share Posted April 7, 2008 My condolences on your miscarriage. You will be able to get pregnant again. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love and gentle hugs, Debi/Central Cal.-55 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Be a good e-mail buddy, and ALWAYS protect your friends from email address harvesters which can lead to more Spam, unwanted mail, and even viruses. Copy and paste forwards into a new email and place parenthesis around the addresses. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ **************Planning your summer road trip? Check out AOL Travel Guides. (http://travel.aol.com/travel-guide/united-states?ncid=aoltrv00030000000016) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 I am so sorry. If you need to talk, I'm here. I had 2 miscarriages in between my five kids. Even an unwanted pg you still suffer a loss. Angie Harley Mama Double-D Carson City, NV; Single, five children (3 at home), 2 dogs, 4 cats, snow skiing, camping, Harley Rider, Lone Wolf, Blue Thong Society/High Sierra Thong Snappers member, LFA Advocate, independent, opinionated, outspoken, and open minded. " It's always something. " ~~~Gilda Radner " While we have the gift of life, it seems to me the only tragedy is to allow part of us to die - whether it is our spirit,our creativity, or our glorious uniqueness. " ~~~Gilda Radner http://www.mybloglog.com/buzz/members/AGBlog/ http://360.yahoo.com/lovinglifeinnv http://www.myspace.com/amkg http://doripost.agrato.info/ http://wine-and-chocolate.blogspot.com/ http://weblog.xanga.com/purplepassionate http://www.revolutionhealth.com/blogs/angiemg http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=592316375 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/LupusSurvivorsU/ I just had a miscarriage 8( I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and getting my FM under control, if one can do that. ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. http://tc.deals.yahoo.com/tc/blockbuster/text5.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 Missy, I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I know what that feels like and I'm sure dealing with the fibro at the same time doesn't help. I will keep you in my prayers. > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > getting my FM under control, if one can do that. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 Missy, I am so sorry for your loss ~ as Debra said, vent here or let it out here and know that we are here for you. It doesn't matter how far along you were or anything, a loss is a loss.....you're in my prayers. (((((hugs)))) Darlene > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > getting my FM under control, if one can do that. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 I am so sorry hun. I know you were very happy about the baby until this happened. I have also had a miscarrage I was 11wks 4 days. I had to have an D & C and have my baby removed. It was very hard and still is. But since then I have had to wonderful boys. So now I have 3. Just remember it is hard now but the future will get better. I am 27 disabled with 3 boys. If you need someone to talk to please e-mail me or IM me. Hugs, your friend, Krystal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 Missy, I cannot tell you how sad I am when I read that you have had a miscarriage. I hope that you will allow yourself some time to grief over this loss, as it really was and is a very big loss. I had two about 2 years before I started having the pains that I now know are fibro and back then, a miscarriage was something that no one I knew knew what to say to me. One couple was afraid to tell me they were expecting, the first thing out of one of my sisters mouth when I call her, was to blurt out that our other sister was pregnant. I really had difficult even liking that nephew and later, I realized part of it had to do with the way I learned that he would possibly be born at the time I might have had a new baby. I guess I just want you to know that it's ok to share, feel pain of the loss --- the same way you feel when someone you care for dies. The wound may always been in your heart but you can recover from the pain difficult pain you feel now. You are in my thoughts and prayers, > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > getting my FM under control, if one can do that. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 > > > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > > getting my FM under control, if one can do that. > > >Missy: my prayers go out to you, sorry for your loss! big hugs to you,Leanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand exactly what you're going through honey. I lost my baby at 10 wks. and I was devestated. The only thing that made it better was time. Every now and then I'll sit and wonder about 'what if'. Something that really helped me was something I read in readers digest years ago: A mother had a miscarriage and was very upset about it and was crying when her three yr. old came into the room. He asked her why she was crying and she had to tell him that his little brother or sister had gone to heaven. He said " Don't worry Mommy. He'll be back. He just went back to the front of the line of babies that God will send you from heaven. " I now have a very hyper two yr. old and couldn't be happier. Britt In Fibromyalgia_Support_Group , " missy8632 " wrote: > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > getting my FM under control, if one can do that. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 Oh Missy, I am so very sorry about the baby. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Love, /Mi I just had a miscarriage 8( I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and getting my FM under control, if one can do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 Missy, You have my deepest sympathy. Please feel free to talk or not, if we can help you, we're here. girlsaylor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 Thank you everyone for your kind words. It really means a lot to me. I have my first appt with a pain mangement doctor on Monday. So, I am hoping to get my FM undercontrol and we will see about trying again for a baby. I have heard that many people feel better while pregnant. Thank you again, you are awesome for giving me all this support. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2008 Report Share Posted April 8, 2008 My Prayers are with you Mickey playa_chic04 playa_chic04@...> wrote: I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand exactly what you're going through honey. I lost my baby at 10 wks. and I was devestated. The only thing that made it better was time. Every now and then I'll sit and wonder about 'what if'. Something that really helped me was something I read in readers digest years ago: A mother had a miscarriage and was very upset about it and was crying when her three yr. old came into the room. He asked her why she was crying and she had to tell him that his little brother or sister had gone to heaven. He said " Don't worry Mommy. He'll be back. He just went back to the front of the line of babies that God will send you from heaven. " I now have a very hyper two yr. old and couldn't be happier. Britt In Fibromyalgia_Support_Group , " missy8632 " wrote: > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > getting my FM under control, if one can do that. > I'm not stuck,I'm just ancestorally challenged. --------------------------------- You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Missy - I'm so sorry. I've had three in my lifetime - I'm 49 now, so I understand what you're going through. We're all here for you. Teri (central Wisconsin) In Fibromyalgia_ Support_Group , " missy8632 " wrote: > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > getting my FM under control, if one can do that. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 9, 2008 Report Share Posted April 9, 2008 Missy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I would have wrote sooner but have been busy dealing with our own tragic event. I'm sorry I couldn't convey my sympthy sooner. Nothing I can say will help ease your lost so just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Tammi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2008 Report Share Posted April 10, 2008 It is 12 years ago today since I lost my son. Beleive it or not you do survive, damaged, worse for wear but none the less the sun does come up each day whether you like it or not. Re: I just had a miscarriage 8( Missy, I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I know what that feels like and I'm sure dealing with the fibro at the same time doesn't help. I will keep you in my prayers. > > I think I posted a few weeks ago that I found out I was pregnant. > Well, we just lost the baby. I got pregnant around the same time I > was officially Dx with Fibro, so the timing was not great. > At least now I can focus on getting some pain relief (thank God) and > getting my FM under control, if one can do that.. > ------------------------------------ 1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr. Some treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to certain health conditions or just dangerous in general. 2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation better. 3. To unsubscribe the e-mail is: Fibromyalgia_Support_Group-unsubscribe 4. Also, it is not uncommon for more than one member to be feeling bad at the same time when it comes to flares and b/c of that potentially take something another member says the wrong way. And that includes the things that one member may find funny (even if it's laughing at fibro itself) even though we who deal with illness whether one such as fibro or multiple illnesses try to keep a sense of humor. 5. Pls let's be gentle with each other, and if you are having a bad day pls let us know so that we can do our best to offer our support. Have a nice day everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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