Guest guest Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Hello, Rise. The quick answer is " no " . I never wake up feeling refreshed. I get 6 to 14 hours a night and try not to nap and I still feel groggy and " hungover " in the morning. I had a sleep study done last year and it found that I slept okay except that sometimes my oxygen level would drop really low and I would wake up. So, I used an oxygen machine for several months and it didn't helped. I actually think it made things worse because I kept getting upper respiratory infections from it. So, no luck there. I have gotten some of the pain under control now, so next item to tackle is the fatigue. Mine is exactly like yours, from what you write. As for how to ask your doctor how to help you, just say exactly what you said here. It's a good description. Just tell him how bad your life has become with your sleepiness. There are meds he can presribe and ways to modify your sleep habbits. He may have you do a sleep study. There are lots of ways to deal with sleep issues from what I've researched. Actually, I'm seeing a Nurse practioner on Wednesday to discuss the fatigue issue myself. So, I wish us both luck. Take care. J in East Northcentral Minnesota http://sisypheanranch.blogspot.com/ 'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.' DOes any one ever get enough sleep? Good morning my new buddies, I just got nearly 12 hours of sleep and am still so sleepy. Is there ever enough sleep? I think that one of the things that I hate the most of this disease monster is the total fatigue. IT isn't just a regular tired it is the most intent exhaustion. I know that I am still in the more beginning stages of this but have any of you found anything to help with the tired or the need to sleep? I know that last night I fell in the bed so exhausted because I haven't slept in 4 days and my body was making up for lost sleep, How do you talk to the Dr about this so that he will understand and actually do something to help? . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2008 Report Share Posted April 21, 2008 I don't wake up refreshed in the morning either. Have been on a high dose of a diuretic so have to get up often to use the bathroom. During the week I can doze off in my recliner while my husband is getting ready for work. My alram is set for 7am. On weekends though have to get up by 8am like my husband. He won't let me sleep in so I don't get more than 8hrs of sleep. Usually much less than that. Debbie L > > Hello, Rise. The quick answer is " no " . > > I never wake up feeling refreshed. I get 6 to 14 hours a night and try not to nap and I still feel groggy and " hungover " in the morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 22, 2008 Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 why won't he let you sleep in? Angie Harley Mama Double-D Carson City, NV; Single, five children (3 at home), 2 dogs, 4 cats, snow skiing, camping, Harley Rider, Lone Wolf, Blue Thong Society/High Sierra Thong Snappers member, LFA Advocate, independent, opinionated, outspoken, and open minded. " It's always something. " ~~~Gilda Radner " While we have the gift of life, it seems to me the only tragedy is to allow part of us to die - whether it is our spirit, our creativity, or our glorious uniqueness. " ~~~Gilda Radner http://angienv.multiply.com http://www.FamilyLifePharmacy.com Re: DOes any one ever get enough sleep? I don't wake up refreshed in the morning either. Have been on a high dose of a diuretic so have to get up often to use the bathroom. During the week I can doze off in my recliner while my husband is getting ready for work. My alram is set for 7am. On weekends though have to get up by 8am like my husband. He won't let me sleep in so I don't get more than 8hrs of sleep. Usually much less than that. Debbie L > > Hello, Rise. The quick answer is " no " . > > I never wake up feeling refreshed. I get 6 to 14 hours a night and try not to nap and I still feel groggy and " hungover " in the morning. ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile.yahoo.com/;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 22, 2008 Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 Debbie, WHY doesn't your DH let you sleep on the weekends? I know last weekend was our annual local garden sale. While I'm NOT a gardener (I write the checks...hehehehe), I love going and he and I have gone every year since we got the house ('05). Anyhow, I felt kind of crummy Friday and was very honest with him regarding Saturday and going (if it's raining, etc. I'm not going) because of my asthma. He understood. Well, he woke me up, I was still froggy and it was cold, damp and drizzly, so even though I didn't really want to, I didn't go. Instead I went back to sleep and " naturally " woke up around 9 am. By the time they got home, I was showered and somewhat functional. As for your diuretic, do you take multiple doses throughout the day? Or just in the morning? Because I was on 80 mgs of lasix at one point and didn't get up all night, although the daytime was lots of fun. It's possible, if you are waking multiple times at night that you could have a sleep disorder; have you ever been checked for sleep apnea? I was getting up lots during the night and ended up having obstructive sleep apnea. Now, I have a machine (think darth vader, only cuter) and I seldom get up in the middle of the night. I wake up somewhat refreshed, but depending on the day before, of course, my pain level varies. Today it's kind of bad, even though I don't recall doing much yesterday that would have caused it. Darlene > > > > Hello, Rise. The quick answer is " no " . > > > > I never wake up feeling refreshed. I get 6 to 14 hours a night and > try not to nap and I still feel groggy and " hungover " in the morning. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 22, 2008 Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 Debbie, That makes sense; I have to split some of my pills up as well because this can't be taken with that, but I noticed both times I was in the hospital, they gave them all to me at once (my a.m. pills). Go figure. I didn't think I had sleep apnea either until I had the test done. And I know I am getting " rested " sleep even on my fatigue days because I am dreaming - in color no less! I am looking for something for the inflammation.....I think that's what is bugging me the most. Darlene > > > > Debbie, > > WHY doesn't your DH let you sleep on the weekends? > > >> As for your diuretic, do you take multiple doses throughout the > day? > > Or just in the morning? Because I was on 80 mgs of lasix at one > point > > and didn't get up all night, although the daytime was lots of fun. > > It's possible, if you are waking multiple times at night that you > > could have a sleep disorder; have you ever been checked for sleep > > apnea? I was getting up lots during the night and ended up having > > obstructive sleep apnea. Now, I have a machine (think darth vader, > > only cuter) and I seldom get up in the middle of the night. > > > > I wake up somewhat refreshed, but depending on the day before, of > > course, my pain level varies. Today it's kind of bad, even though I > > don't recall doing much yesterday that would have caused it. > > > > Darlene > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 22, 2008 Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 Debbie, I don't remember if it's just you and DH or if there are kiddos too, but we start our laundry on Fridays....lol.....and DH has started running a lot of the errands that I used to take care of; partially because of my asthma/COPD and partially because of the blood clot. He also knows I don't feel well most days and his goal is to get me healthy again. I have to pace my stuff out these days.... Darlene > > Hi Angie and Darlene, > > On Saturdays my husband usually gets up after I shower and get the > laundery started. If I am not up when my husband gets up the laundry > and our errands get delayed. > > On Sundays often I let me DH sleep till 9am and I doze. We go to movies > on Sunday mornings so can't sleep in much anyway. My DH will let me > sleep longer when I am not feeling good. > > Debbie L > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 22, 2008 Report Share Posted April 22, 2008 My hubby lets me sleep as long as I need to on week-ends....even brings me breakfast in bed. But sometimes he gets so sick and tired of me being so sick and tired. The house is never company ready, meals are rarely on the table when he gets home (he cooks a lot of the time), and the laundry is often a mount washmore. But the worse thing is having to borrow money from his mom just to keep the lights on, because I don't bring in my share of the income anymore. It's all very stressful and there are times he loses it, throwing stuff (magazines, clothes...nothing hard or heavy though) across the room and arguing about everything I don't (read can't) do anymore. Of course afterwards he always apologizes. But hey, I'm frustrated and angry too! Not to mention in a heck of a lot of pain. But my psych. therapist said that because I grew up in an abusive home (physical, emotional, sexual), I tend to be a peacemaker and when he goes off on his frustrated rants, I always end up trying to do more and end up being in even more pain, and she that I have to stop doing that. But what I did was stop going to the therapist... Man, did I ever switch gears just now or what?! LOL BTW, I had a sleep study done a few months ago, and my new doc (a wonderful fibro doc! My reg doc of 13+ years is old school when it comes to fibro, CFS, etc) looked at the results and said, " Holy S...T! " No sleep apnea, but less than 3 minutes total REM, among other sleep phase deficits. And here I though it was a relatively " normal " night's sleep that night when compared to a lot of nights I've had. ~EarthDog~ -----Original Message----- On Saturdays my husband usually gets up after I shower and get the laundery started. If I am not up when my husband gets up the laundry and our errands get delayed. On Sundays often I let me DH sleep till 9am and I doze. We go to movies on Sunday mornings so can't sleep in much anyway. My DH will let me sleep longer when I am not feeling good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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