Guest guest Posted April 10, 2006 Report Share Posted April 10, 2006 In a message dated 4/10/2006 1:17:32 PM Eastern Standard Time, helpbpdmom@... writes: sorry to ramble, I am just venting.....thank you for listening Elaine It's ok to vent, Elaine, anytime! We sure do need to do that once in a while. I'm sorry your daughter just can't get it together, feel worse for your grand and her dad. At least she has you and now her dad in her life to give her some stability. Hugs, DebbieL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2006 Report Share Posted April 10, 2006 Sorry to hear about this crisis, Elaine! May God give you strength as you deal with this! Helen _____ From: WTOParentsOfBPs [mailto:WTOParentsOfBPs ] On Behalf Of A Friend Sent: Monday, April 10, 2006 1:12 PM To: BPD Parents Subject: slip up Hi, we were doing quite well until Friday when she started drinking again. called me Friday to babysit, I said only if she picked her up by 9:00 am Sat, never heard back. Sunday she called around noon, clearly already had been drinking, grand was with her DAd thank goodness. short as I wouldn't buy into anything. Called again sunday around 4 could I pick up grand at 8 from her Dad and put her to bed. OK but be hoem by 10 pm fine. 8:30 she calls grand, go to grandma's to sleep over, grand cries no, I said no way. Fine, now slurring, asks for alter, no. she shows up at 11:25 after I called ehr at 11:00 wondering where she was, she was drunk, rude, arrived home fighting with boyfriend, threw me $20, here sorry, crying, anyway I left went home knowing I am back to the beginning, grand is so ahppy now to go to DAd's dgter is jealous, bpd kicks in she starts to drink and watch out SO I am writing to ask you all to keep me in your prayers as I will have to be really strong in the next few weeks. Crisis alwasy spills over into her behaviour. She called this morning all apologetic, asked if she gave me $20, couldn't even remember doing that, had passed out, grandw as late for school, I told her I was to busy at work to talk, I think she knows she blew it. Told me she amde a scene in a restaurant becasue they don't know how to cook a steak, extra well done so she got ehr meal for free and boyfriend told her she was a bitich.....at elast someone can tell ehr the truth sorry to ramble, I am just venting.....thank you for listening Elaine May there be peace on earth and may it begin with me and with each one of us Elaine --------------------------------- 7 bucks a month. This is Huge Yahoo! Music Unlimited Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2006 Report Share Posted April 10, 2006 Elaine If she keeps up this behavior, grand's Dad may end up with custody. My daughter's dirtbag husband who left her 3 weeks ago, according to the 42 yr old woman he is shacking up with, he is going to go after custody of the baby Emerson and not sure about the one is pregnant with. I doubt with his history, he would even get visitation, let alone custody, but of all the gaul !!!!!!!!!!! Been incarcerated for most of the past 11 years, since he was 15. Has numerous domestic assault charges against him, is a heavy drug user, this is the first time he has ever held a job for more than 2 weeks, and he has no legal residence. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2006 Report Share Posted April 10, 2006 Jean -- That's just b/s -- I wouldn't even waste the energy it takes to type the words! He'll never do it. It would cost money to hire the attorney and none of that group is going to take away from the drug pot. Don't waste energy on that scum. Kelley cascorsam@... wrote: Elaine If she keeps up this behavior, grand's Dad may end up with custody. My daughter's dirtbag husband who left her 3 weeks ago, according to the 42 yr old woman he is shacking up with, he is going to go after custody of the baby Emerson and not sure about the one is pregnant with. I doubt with his history, he would even get visitation, let alone custody, but of all the gaul !!!!!!!!!!! Been incarcerated for most of the past 11 years, since he was 15. Has numerous domestic assault charges against him, is a heavy drug user, this is the first time he has ever held a job for more than 2 weeks, and he has no legal residence. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2006 Report Share Posted April 11, 2006 Elaine, So sorry to hear. Poor grand (and you -- what to do?) You are in our prayers, Carol --------- slip up > > > Hi, we were doing quite well until Friday when she started drinking again. > called me Friday to babysit, I said only if she picked her up by 9:00 am > Sat, never heard back. Sunday she called around noon, clearly already had > been drinking, grand was with her DAd thank goodness. short as I wouldn't > buy into anything. Called again sunday around 4 could I pick up grand at 8 > from her Dad and put her to bed. OK but be hoem by 10 pm fine. > 8:30 she calls grand, go to grandma's to sleep over, grand cries no, I > said no way. Fine, now slurring, asks for alter, no. > she shows up at 11:25 after I called ehr at 11:00 wondering where she was, > she was drunk, rude, arrived home fighting with boyfriend, threw me $20, > here sorry, crying, anyway I left went home knowing I am back to the > beginning, grand is so ahppy now to go to DAd's dgter is jealous, bpd kicks > in she starts to drink and watch out SO I am writing to ask you all to keep > me in your prayers as I will have to be really strong in the next few weeks. > Crisis alwasy spills over into her behaviour. > > She called this morning all apologetic, asked if she gave me $20, couldn't > even remember doing that, had passed out, grandw as late for school, I told > her I was to busy at work to talk, I think she knows she blew it. > > Told me she amde a scene in a restaurant becasue they don't know how to > cook a steak, extra well done so she got ehr meal for free and boyfriend > told her she was a bitich.....at elast someone can tell ehr the truth > > sorry to ramble, I am just venting.....thank you for listening > > Elaine > > > May there be peace on earth and may it begin with me and with each one of us > Elaine > > --------------------------------- > 7 bucks a month. This is Huge Yahoo! Music Unlimited > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2006 Report Share Posted April 11, 2006 I'm sorry to hear all this Elaine, I will keep you in my thoughts. You will get through it, you are so much stronger and have great skills to deal with your daughter's blow ups. Hang in there, A Friend helpbpdmom@...> wrote: Hi, we were doing quite well until Friday when she started drinking again. called me Friday to babysit, I said only if she picked her up by 9:00 am Sat, never heard back. Sunday she called around noon, clearly already had been drinking, grand was with her DAd thank goodness. short as I wouldn't buy into anything. Called again sunday around 4 could I pick up grand at 8 from her Dad and put her to bed. OK but be hoem by 10 pm fine. 8:30 she calls grand, go to grandma's to sleep over, grand cries no, I said no way. Fine, now slurring, asks for alter, no. she shows up at 11:25 after I called ehr at 11:00 wondering where she was, she was drunk, rude, arrived home fighting with boyfriend, threw me $20, here sorry, crying, anyway I left went home knowing I am back to the beginning, grand is so ahppy now to go to DAd's dgter is jealous, bpd kicks in she starts to drink and watch out SO I am writing to ask you all to keep me in your prayers as I will have to be really strong in the next few weeks. Crisis alwasy spills over into her behaviour. She called this morning all apologetic, asked if she gave me $20, couldn't even remember doing that, had passed out, grandw as late for school, I told her I was to busy at work to talk, I think she knows she blew it. Told me she amde a scene in a restaurant becasue they don't know how to cook a steak, extra well done so she got ehr meal for free and boyfriend told her she was a bitich.....at elast someone can tell ehr the truth sorry to ramble, I am just venting.....thank you for listening Elaine May there be peace on earth and may it begin with me and with each one of us Elaine --------------------------------- 7 bucks a month. This is Huge Yahoo! Music Unlimited Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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