Guest guest Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 My husband started a new job last year and we were given the worst insurance I've EVER heard of. They changed it shortly after he started or I don't think he would have taken the job. I have been beating my head against the wall because he HAS NOT changed jobs.....he hates change. But he also hates being broke and we are so stressed out, I don't get why it wouldn't be less stressful to change jobs. Luckily, we are moving back to Phoenix in June so he will have to find a new job. So, are you guys ready to hear what our MONTHLY RX BILL IS........................................ $1,500 to $1,600 HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!! I think I'm having a nervous breakdown as I write this.....breathe.....That doesn't include co-pays for dr. visits....and some they won't cover at all. I can't figure out how the differentiate and it's killing us! The tension in this house gets crazy sometimes. Jill Re: Re: Need Fibro Help ASAP! Hi Deb, The grocery store has become one of my worst experiences. I have finally had to start having them delivered and only go to the store to get the extra few items that were not on the order list or get something special. Stop and Shop has what they call Peapod that lets you order your groceries over the Internet and pick a delivery time. The delivery people put the bags in my kitchen and all I have to do is put them away (which takes me a couple of days). The site uses the same flyer that the store uses for sales. It costs $6,50 to have an order delivered and if you pick certain delivery times they take $1.50 off and they give you coupons for free deliveries if you use if once every month or two months. I particularly like using it for the heavy things and awkward things. If you don't have Peapod in you area there are other sites that deliver groceries from orders over the Internet. I think most of us try not to complain. That is what this site is for though, so we don't have to complain to others in our lives. And to give the support where needed also. And of course to pass along any info that might be helpful. Or just to chat. Going to bed earlier might help a lot. If you went to bed just a hour earlier you would get 8 hours and that might be enough to make you feel better. Hope all goes well, Marti Debra #402430 tlcsassyscrapper@...> wrote: Thanks so much for the replies. I know that I'm not alone here. About 80% of the time or so, people wouldn't even know that I was in pain. I try not to complain about things and make the best of the situation I've been given. There is so much that I need to work on, it's just so difficult to figure out where to start. Insomnia is a huge issue. I NEED and enjoy my alone time at night. So I generally don't get to bed until 2 am. I get up around 9 am most days. I know this isn't enough sleep, it's so hard to break the cycle. The fibro fog is a huge issue also. I've been thinking that I might also have ADD, but have never been diagnosed. There are many times that I get to the grocery store only to be barely making it to the cashier and then to the car. I've called my hubby a couple of times to come rescue me, because I was in so much pain and exhausted. It's like I just need to sit and can't continue. I am about 80 lbs over weight and know that I need to lose that, but the pain, depression, lack of sleep, etc and it all becomes too much. I am going to try very hard to work on journaling. I know that it will help to pinpoint when I'm having a flare up and areas that I need help or to work on. I am looking forward to getting to know more of you here. Blessings, Deb in MN --------------------------------- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2008 Report Share Posted April 16, 2008 WOW! That's more than my mortgage payment, which I will get rid of when I sell this place. I can barely get by paying the co-pays of $2500./year. And mine too does not include anything but prescriptions. My insurance is $797.00/month - which will be gone soon too when I can't pay for it any anymore and have to go on Medicaid. I don't think my doctors will take Medicaid so I don't know what I will do. Of course if I have to move to Boston to live with my son I will have to change my wonderful doctors anyway. I will lose so much in that move. I just keep hoping something miraculous will happen and I can find a place around here with housing vouchers - but they are 3 - 5 years behind, depending on the town so that would mean public housing until them. I guess I would rather move to Boston than do that. Anyway, I don't know how you do it. That is over $18,000/year. I will only be making $11,000/year. Does your insurance plan not cover drugs? I'm really sorry you have to pay that much. It must be terribly hard. I hope things get better after your move to Phoenix. Marti jill larion jilllarion@...> wrote: My husband started a new job last year and we were given the worst insurance I've EVER heard of. They changed it shortly after he started or I don't think he would have taken the job. I have been beating my head against the wall because he HAS NOT changed jobs.....he hates change. But he also hates being broke and we are so stressed out, I don't get why it wouldn't be less stressful to change jobs. Luckily, we are moving back to Phoenix in June so he will have to find a new job. So, are you guys ready to hear what our MONTHLY RX BILL IS........................................ $1,500 to $1,600 HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!! I think I'm having a nervous breakdown as I write this.....breathe.....That doesn't include co-pays for dr. visits....and some they won't cover at all. I can't figure out how the differentiate and it's killing us! The tension in this house gets crazy sometimes. Jill Re: Re: Need Fibro Help ASAP! Hi Deb, The grocery store has become one of my worst experiences. I have finally had to start having them delivered and only go to the store to get the extra few items that were not on the order list or get something special. Stop and Shop has what they call Peapod that lets you order your groceries over the Internet and pick a delivery time. The delivery people put the bags in my kitchen and all I have to do is put them away (which takes me a couple of days). The site uses the same flyer that the store uses for sales. It costs $6,50 to have an order delivered and if you pick certain delivery times they take $1.50 off and they give you coupons for free deliveries if you use if once every month or two months. I particularly like using it for the heavy things and awkward things. If you don't have Peapod in you area there are other sites that deliver groceries from orders over the Internet. I think most of us try not to complain. That is what this site is for though, so we don't have to complain to others in our lives. And to give the support where needed also. And of course to pass along any info that might be helpful. Or just to chat. Going to bed earlier might help a lot. If you went to bed just a hour earlier you would get 8 hours and that might be enough to make you feel better. Hope all goes well, Marti Debra #402430 tlcsassyscrapper@...> wrote: Thanks so much for the replies. I know that I'm not alone here. About 80% of the time or so, people wouldn't even know that I was in pain. I try not to complain about things and make the best of the situation I've been given. There is so much that I need to work on, it's just so difficult to figure out where to start. Insomnia is a huge issue. I NEED and enjoy my alone time at night. So I generally don't get to bed until 2 am. I get up around 9 am most days. I know this isn't enough sleep, it's so hard to break the cycle. The fibro fog is a huge issue also. I've been thinking that I might also have ADD, but have never been diagnosed. There are many times that I get to the grocery store only to be barely making it to the cashier and then to the car. I've called my hubby a couple of times to come rescue me, because I was in so much pain and exhausted. It's like I just need to sit and can't continue. I am about 80 lbs over weight and know that I need to lose that, but the pain, depression, lack of sleep, etc and it all becomes too much. I am going to try very hard to work on journaling. I know that it will help to pinpoint when I'm having a flare up and areas that I need help or to work on. I am looking forward to getting to know more of you here. Blessings, Deb in MN --------------------------------- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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