Thanks to all

[Guest guest]

Thanks to all of you who responded, but I think I am going to tell her I

will give her a loan that has to be paid back as soon as she makes a commission

from one of her real estate listings or in small payment till she gets a

commission then it will be fully due. I have to think about how I am going to

structure the note. I am going to tell her she will have to sign an agreement

like any other note for a personal loan spelling out all the terms. That

way, it is not me just " giveng " her money, but she will have to pay it back and

perhaps take some of the presure off her. And she will not have to feel like

it is " Mom " taking care of things.

Jean

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 3/8/2006 9:32:56 AM Eastern Standard Time,

cascorsam@... writes:

That

way, it is not me just " giveng " her money, but she will have to pay it back

and

perhaps take some of the presure off her. And she will not have to feel like

it is " Mom " taking care of things.

Jean,

Just be sure you are writing the checks directly to the recipients, not to

her. She's too sick to juggle it and get it straight anyway. Make sure the

written deal is solid, maybe throw in " dont' screw w/me again or you lose your

built-in babysitter! Just joking.

DebbieL

[Guest guest]

I just want to say thanks for the prayers, my granddaughter made it

through the surgery with flying colors, and was home by noon, when my

son took her older sister home, he said she was running around like a

chicken with its head cut off!!!! lol as far as my day went, we never

made it to spread my moms ashes over her parents grave, I just

couldn't do it, I guess it is still to fresh and opening her urn would

be like opening a wound and pouring salt into it, as my sister said

just because the calender says it has been a year, doesn't mean our

hearts say that, and maybe I will be able to do it as time goes on,

but just not right now! thanks so much for listening to me vent and

for the prayers you guys are awsome people and I'm so glad that I

joined the group when i did!!!!!BIG HUGS to you all always, Leanne

[Guest guest]

Leanne,

I'm glad you granddaughter is doing fine

Don't feel bad about not spreading your mom's ashes yet. My mom died 3 1/2 yrs

ago and I can not bring myself to do it yet either. If you do it before YOU'RE

ready, it's just going to make your grieving process harder and flare up your

fibro. I'm sure your mom more than understands!

Jill

Thanks to all

I just want to say thanks for the prayers, my granddaughter made it

through the surgery with flying colors, and was home by noon, when my

son took her older sister home, he said she was running around like a

chicken with its head cut off!!!! lol as far as my day went, we never

made it to spread my moms ashes over her parents grave, I just

couldn't do it, I guess it is still to fresh and opening her urn would

be like opening a wound and pouring salt into it, as my sister said

just because the calender says it has been a year, doesn't mean our

hearts say that, and maybe I will be able to do it as time goes on,

but just not right now! thanks so much for listening to me vent and

for the prayers you guys are awsome people and I'm so glad that I

joined the group when i did!!!!!BIG HUGS to you all always, Leanne

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 4/14/2008 3:05:58 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time,

weachy_01@... writes:

BIG HUGS to you all always, Leanne

Big hugs right back at ya!!!! I am so happy that your granddaughter made it

safely through the surgery. When you are ready, you will do what you want

with the ashes. Unless it was her wishes to have them scattered, then why

don't you just keep them with you?

Love and gentle hugs,

Debi/Central Cal.-55

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