Re: Diane/ex's

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Diane,

You're right, they are the one's that lost out, not us. I know with

my ex's that I am happy and I know my second one of miserable. He

got married and the marriage didn't even last a year and now he is

making comments about wanting me back....NOT EVER GOING TO HAPPEN!!

I can forgive but I CAN'T forget and I also have an awesome husband.

Granted he doesn't give me much support with this fibro but he

finally got a wake up call last weekend and things have changed. He

doesn't beat me or talk to me like I'm trash so he's a keeper....:-)

Like you said, had to run to 3rd base to get home, I like that

saying, have never heard that one before, I'll have to remember that

one.

Take care,

>

> Hey , I too am on the third, I always say I had to run to the

third base to get home. That is what I have in my now hubby.

>  I am the one now feeling like the pits lately because of this

fibro being the worse since my fall and shoulder reconstruction 10

years ago.

> funny how we let some men make us feel ugly, when in fact we have

always been fantastic.

> Diane

> GA Diane

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> Re: Jeanne - Sorry I bugged out

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> Marti,

>

> I know how you feel.  I have been married twice before and both of

my

> ex's used to tell me that I was fat and ugly.  My first husband

used

> to tell me that the only reason people " acted " like my friends was

> because they felt sorry for me because I was so stupid and fat. 

When

> I was 3 months pregnant with my oldest son I weighed 112 pounds, at

5

> months pregnant I weighed 117, that was not healthy for me or my

> son.  I started gaining weight when my doctor told me to not listen

> to my husband (ex) and then I started eating to save my baby and

> myself.  My second husband would tell me I was getting fat so I

would

> lose a bunch of weight and then he would tell me that I was getting

> to skinny so my weight fluctuated so much that I was so unhealthy. 

I

> was physically and mentally abused for 16 years and finally got

away

> from it and met someone that I know will never hurt me like that. 

> The man I am with now has always been there right in front of my

face

> but I just never seen it because I thought I was a horrible person,

> that I was fat and ugly.  I could never understand why anybody

would

> want to love me and then I left my second husband by putting him in

> jail.  When I finally opened my eyes and realized that there has

> always been someone right in front of me I had a hard

time " letting "

> him love me because of all the mental abuse I had went through. 

Now

> I look back and know that all the horrible things they said to me

was

> all wrong, there loss not mine.  I am such a better person now and

I

> don't need either one of them.  The only reason I still talk to

them

> is because my 3 oldest kids are from my first 2 marriages, my two

> youngest are actually my step sons but I look at them as my own

> sons.  If you ever need to talk just let me know, I know how mental

> abuse can affect a person.

>

> Take care,

>

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