Re: Confusion in the threads here--- (about husband)....

[Guest guest]

I really don't know what happened in the threads here. But there seems to be

some confusion. I was not abused or did not have a gun to my head or anything.

I think you all got me confused with someone else. My husband and I are

together. He never beats me or anything. I would have to look back at some

emails to figure who wrote the original letter.

hugs,

Debra V.

jill larion jilllarion@...> wrote:

,

Thank you for your concern, but I think my email was misunderstood. My husband

and I have issues, but it has never resulted in physical violence. He was being

cold towards my pain and other typical husband/wife issues, but again, nothing

ever physical. On several occasions, I felt like our marriage was miserable and

have felt like leaving, but I feel trapped because of my inability to work and

the fact that my family is all dead, not because I'm afraid to leave because of

my safety. And I have ben brainstorming on jobs that I might be able to do other

than teaching. Still working on that one.......

Debra,

I'm so sorry for what you went thru!! I can't even imagine! You are one strong

woman for standing up for yourself and your children by leaving him! It was the

best thing you could have ever done for your children! I wish I was healthy

enough to work so that I had the option to leave if I decided it was definitely

time. It's terrifying being trapped. Plus, what if he decides he's had enough of

me being sick and leaves me? I really wish I still had my family..........

Jill

Re: I AM REALLY UPSET/JILL

>

> > Over 10 years ago I married a seemingly loving and understanding

man. He

> > knew that I had fibro and he went so far to educate himself on the

> > disease, but

> > when I worsened and couldn't perform sexually anymore, he began

to cheat

> > on

> > me. A year and a half after marrying, he left me for another

woman, but

> > neither of us filed for divorce. Well, he married a younger

woman, left

> > her and

> > them married a woman a little bit older than him and she was able

to

> > satisfy

> > his sex drive. Last year it all caught up on him and he was

ordered to

> > divorce me and his other wives and do time in jail. He had fooled

me

> > completely.

> > He made me believe that he loved me for me, so I was devastated

when he

> > left

> > me, just because sex became a lot like aerobic exercise and wasn't

> > enjoyable. I will never marry again, because he was my third and

last.

> >

> > I feel for you, because too many people expect too much from us

and they

> > don't understand what we are dealing with.

> >

> >

> > Love and gentle hugs,

> > Debi/Central Cal.-55

> >

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