Guest guest Posted April 18, 2008 Report Share Posted April 18, 2008 Shari, Welcome to the group! That's great you found a great dr. That is so difficult for all of us, but must be an even bigger challenge to get one to listen to you and treat you with what you need despite your past addiction. I'm sure being a counselor now helps them realize you can handle it. I can't imagine going thru this with no pain meds..... Take Care, Jill Something good to post Hi everyone, I'm new to the group. I was diagnosed with fibro last month and have been having all those baffling symptoms for nearly 3 years. I got so frustrated many times, with dr's...with myself...just couldn't figure out what was up with me and somehow figured it was my fault or " all in my head " . The diagnosis was a bit of a relief, but I was still having trouble finding a doctor who would treat my pain aggressively. Ironically, I am a recovering drug addict and addictions counselor. So I understand to a point why they might be vigilent about prescribing narcotics. However, I know from personal experience that chronic pain is a huge trigger for relapse. Anyway, I had a horrible flare day on Wednesday. I showed up at my PCPs office twice for pain shots from the NP. First shot was torodol and it did nothing, 2nd shot was nubain, and it only relieved the pain for 3 hrs, so I had to call the dr. on call who put me on a schedule of percocet for the night. It was a rough night. So for the good news...I followed up w/ my PCP on Thursday as the pain was abating. I was able to talk to him and he listened. He was compassionate in prescribing pain medication for the days of acute pain, and listened to me and complied when I suggested lidocaine patches for my neck pain. For the first time in 3 yrs, I felt heard, I felt compassion, and I felt as though I had a medical dr. who will work WITH me. I need that kind of positive support to learn to live and be at peace with having this syndrome/ailment that most likely will be with me for a long time. It's hard to remember on the days the pain is bad that I am determined to live the best life I can, regardless of having fibro. So maybe it's a message to slow down some Thanks to all who participate in this group. Shari Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 Shari, First of all, welcome to the group. Secondly, I am glad you have found a group of doctors/PCP who will take your past into consideration, but also realize that you CANNOT live with pain the rest of your life, or like you said, you will relapse into a lifestyle you have worked very hard to get beyond. And that was a challenge (my brother is a recovered addict/alcoholic as well) for you. Keep up the fight, my friend, one day at a time. Today, despite waking up froggy (probably the weather, I'll do a breathing treatment to make sure my asthma and COPD aren't acting up), I do not hurt. Anywhere. BUT....having read of so many who " did too much " , I will not do too much. The weather is crummy today. I think part of it was my DH let me sleep until I " naturally " woke up. I think that is some of our problem - we don't get sufficient sleep! Darlene > Something good to post > > > Hi everyone, I'm new to the group. I was diagnosed with fibro last > month and have been having all those baffling symptoms for nearly 3 > years. I got so frustrated many times, with dr's...with > myself...just > couldn't figure out what was up with me and somehow figured it was my > fault or " all in my head " . The diagnosis was a bit of a relief, but > I was still having trouble finding a doctor who would treat my pain > aggressively. Ironically, I am a recovering drug addict and > addictions counselor. So I understand to a point why they might be > vigilent about prescribing narcotics. However, I know from personal > experience that chronic pain is a huge trigger for relapse. > > Anyway, I had a horrible flare day on Wednesday. I showed up at my > PCPs office twice for pain shots from the NP. First shot was torodol > and it did nothing, 2nd shot was nubain, and it only relieved the > pain for 3 hrs, so I had to call the dr. on call who put me on a > schedule of percocet for the night. It was a rough night. > > So for the good news...I followed up w/ my PCP on Thursday as the > pain was abating. I was able to talk to him and he listened. He was > compassionate in prescribing pain medication for the days of acute > pain, and listened to me and complied when I suggested lidocaine > patches for my neck pain. For the first time in 3 yrs, I felt heard, > I felt compassion, and I felt as though I had a medical dr. who will > work WITH me. I need that kind of positive support to learn to live > and be at peace with having this syndrome/ailment that most likely > will be with me for a long time. It's hard to remember on the days > the pain is bad that I am determined to live the best life I can, > regardless of having fibro. So maybe it's a message to slow down > some > > Thanks to all who participate in this group. > Shari > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 Hi Shari, I'm so glad you are here. I am also thrilled that you have a wonderful doctor. I am fortunate too in that my pcp is willing to work with me and she takes my suggestions pretty well too. We seem to be a team in this which is what you sure do need. Looking forward to getting to know you. /Mi Something good to post Hi everyone, I'm new to the group. I was diagnosed with fibro last month and have been having all those baffling symptoms for nearly 3 years. I got so frustrated many times, with dr's...with myself...just couldn't figure out what was up with me and somehow figured it was my fault or " all in my head " . The diagnosis was a bit of a relief, but I was still having trouble finding a doctor who would treat my pain aggressively. Ironically, I am a recovering drug addict and addictions counselor. So I understand to a point why they might be vigilent about prescribing narcotics. However, I know from personal experience that chronic pain is a huge trigger for relapse. Anyway, I had a horrible flare day on Wednesday. I showed up at my PCPs office twice for pain shots from the NP. First shot was torodol and it did nothing, 2nd shot was nubain, and it only relieved the pain for 3 hrs, so I had to call the dr. on call who put me on a schedule of percocet for the night. It was a rough night. So for the good news...I followed up w/ my PCP on Thursday as the pain was abating. I was able to talk to him and he listened. He was compassionate in prescribing pain medication for the days of acute pain, and listened to me and complied when I suggested lidocaine patches for my neck pain. For the first time in 3 yrs, I felt heard, I felt compassion, and I felt as though I had a medical dr. who will work WITH me. I need that kind of positive support to learn to live and be at peace with having this syndrome/ailment that most likely will be with me for a long time. It's hard to remember on the days the pain is bad that I am determined to live the best life I can, regardless of having fibro. So maybe it's a message to slow down some Thanks to all who participate in this group. Shari Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 Welcome to you, Shari. Nice to have you with us. Jeanne in WI Hi everyone, I'm new to the group. I was diagnosed with fibro last month and have been having all those baffling symptoms for nearly 3 years. I got so frustrated many times, with dr's...with myself...just couldn't figure out what was up with me and somehow figured it was my fault or " all in my head " . The diagnosis was a bit of a relief, but I was still having trouble finding a doctor who would treat my pain aggressively. Ironically, I am a recovering drug addict and addictions counselor. So I understand to a point why they might be vigilent about prescribing narcotics. However, I know from personal experience that chronic pain is a huge trigger for relapse. Anyway, I had a horrible flare day on Wednesday. I showed up at my PCPs office twice for pain shots from the NP. First shot was torodol and it did nothing, 2nd shot was nubain, and it only relieved the pain for 3 hrs, so I had to call the dr. on call who put me on a schedule of percocet for the night. It was a rough night. So for the good news...I followed up w/ my PCP on Thursday as the pain was abating. I was able to talk to him and he listened. He was compassionate in prescribing pain medication for the days of acute pain, and listened to me and complied when I suggested lidocaine patches for my neck pain. For the first time in 3 yrs, I felt heard, I felt compassion, and I felt as though I had a medical dr. who will work WITH me. I need that kind of positive support to learn to live and be at peace with having this syndrome/ailment that most likely will be with me for a long time. It's hard to remember on the days the pain is bad that I am determined to live the best life I can, regardless of having fibro. So maybe it's a message to slow down some Thanks to all who participate in this group. Shari Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2008 Report Share Posted April 19, 2008 Hi Shari, Welcome to the group. With your new dx your head must really be spinning. It took me and most of us a long time for doctors to eliminate just about every other disease before settling on the fibro dx. But at least we know we don't have the others. I'm sorry for your past troubles and hope that a pain solution can be found. I'm sure that is hard to deal with and that chronic pain would be a relapse trigger. I'm also sorry you had to have such a rough night and tough time with everything. I'm so glad you have found a PCP you can talk to and who will listen. I finally found one last June who is like that. It helps immensely to have someone try to understand. It probably would be good to slow down some, but maybe it won't require you to stop too much. You can still live the best life you can. A positive attitude like yours is the best medicine - after the pain is controlled. Take care and make yourself at home. Just jump in anywhere. Marti shari_79_2000 saring@...> wrote: Hi everyone, I'm new to the group. I was diagnosed with fibro last month and have been having all those baffling symptoms for nearly 3 years. I got so frustrated many times, with dr's...with myself...just couldn't figure out what was up with me and somehow figured it was my fault or " all in my head " . The diagnosis was a bit of a relief, but I was still having trouble finding a doctor who would treat my pain aggressively. Ironically, I am a recovering drug addict and addictions counselor. So I understand to a point why they might be vigilent about prescribing narcotics. However, I know from personal experience that chronic pain is a huge trigger for relapse. Anyway, I had a horrible flare day on Wednesday. I showed up at my PCPs office twice for pain shots from the NP. First shot was torodol and it did nothing, 2nd shot was nubain, and it only relieved the pain for 3 hrs, so I had to call the dr. on call who put me on a schedule of percocet for the night. It was a rough night. So for the good news...I followed up w/ my PCP on Thursday as the pain was abating. I was able to talk to him and he listened. He was compassionate in prescribing pain medication for the days of acute pain, and listened to me and complied when I suggested lidocaine patches for my neck pain. For the first time in 3 yrs, I felt heard, I felt compassion, and I felt as though I had a medical dr. who will work WITH me. I need that kind of positive support to learn to live and be at peace with having this syndrome/ailment that most likely will be with me for a long time. It's hard to remember on the days the pain is bad that I am determined to live the best life I can, regardless of having fibro. So maybe it's a message to slow down some Thanks to all who participate in this group. Shari --------------------------------- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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