Guest guest Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 Honey, don't beat yourself up...there is nothing you can do about it. You will just make yourself more ill worrying over it. You do what you can when you can. You didn't choose to have this. You take care. Hugs, /Mi Re: To Debra B.-- disability//Judy I feel that I am not doing my share of our marriage. I can't do (don't) any of the housework unless someone brings me the clothes to fold then my arms get so tired that I have to stop. My husband works hard. He is an electrician at an Oil Refinery here in Tyler so his work is very demanding, long hours and very dangerous. I pray for his safety everyday and night. They push them really hard to get stuff done and it's scary to think of him being in that place. It is an old refinery and they are trying to bring it up to automation.....it's just scary. But anyways, I just never feel that I am doing my part anymore and that is very depressing for me. I have worked since I was 15 years old and up until last year was pulling my part. Debra B __________________________________________________________ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile.yahoo.com/;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 Thanks ! My husband tells me that all the time but when you have worked for many years and worked hard it's just not easy to just stop!!!! I know I still have a lot of adjusting to do and that will come with time. Debra B Re: To Debra B.-- disability// Judy I feel that I am not doing my share of our marriage. I can't do (don't) any of the housework unless someone brings me the clothes to fold then my arms get so tired that I have to stop. My husband works hard. He is an electrician at an Oil Refinery here in Tyler so his work is very demanding, long hours and very dangerous. I pray for his safety everyday and night. They push them really hard to get stuff done and it's scary to think of him being in that place. It is an old refinery and they are trying to bring it up to automation.. ...it's just scary. But anyways, I just never feel that I am doing my part anymore and that is very depressing for me. I have worked since I was 15 years old and up until last year was pulling my part. Debra B ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile. yahoo.com/ ;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR 8HDtDypao8Wcj9tA cJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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