Re: Why I am angry/stressed at work

May 4, 2008

Yeah, anger is our enemy. I am realizing now that if I have to put up with an

abusive resident who is very alert, young, and oriented... then I need to change

jobs. He abuses all the staff. He knows what he is doing and tries his best to

cause chaos everday no matter how nice you are to him. It is killing me and is

stressing the whole staff. He is not the typical little confused precious

resident and he lives everyday to make our lives hell in that facility. The

last facility gave him a 30 day notice of eviction because of the trouble he

makes everyday. He is evil. I love my residents with all my heart. I don't

mind the ones that pinch me, hit at me, cuss me, or anything because they are

confused and don't know better. I never get angry with them. I just love them

no matter what. But this man has moved in and acts as if we are his servants

and should do what he says NOW. It is horrible. They won't get rid of him for

some reason. He has

money stashed away and won't pay his bill and cannot qualify for medicaid

because he has assets stashed somewhere. The facility is footing the whole bill

for all his care and supplies.

Don't ask me if the administrator has lost his mind. He must have.

Enough of that. I am going to try to get over the anger of what happened

yesterday.

love and hugs,

Debra V.

Subject: Re: Question, Does your fibro flare when angry????

Date: Sunday, May 4, 2008, 11:39 AM

My fibro is always worse when I am angry. I think that is one of hte

things that helped trigger it to where it has been with me 24/7 for the

last 8 years. About the time it started full blown was when I was

fighting so hard with my ex husband over his not paying child support

and isnurance and the kids fighting over having to visit him, etc.

N.

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