Guest guest Posted April 29, 2008 Report Share Posted April 29, 2008 I was just on another forum, one for survivors of childhood abuse, and I accidentily offended someone- got totally slammed. I was called a 'spammer' for posting three times on the same subject. I asked for some advice or help and was told to call the cops and go see my minister a doctor and a shrink! Actualy I already tried all those things and it didn't help. So I think I'll just stay away from those particular traumatized people for a while. Yikes. The fear I felt reading that writetn attack was so bad, I had to hold one hand still with the other to type my humble (not TOO humble) reply. Adrenalin surge has lowered my pain sensation, with the exception of sudden pounding headache. I will be okay, even if no one feels sorry for me and my ignorant mistake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2008 Report Share Posted April 29, 2008 that is ridiculous. people make mistakes and if you weren't trying to enlarge their penis, sell them a fake rollex, convince them they won a dell laptop, or get them to watch your booty shake on cam for only 19.97 then you are not a spammer in any way shape or form and they can cheese off (never used that phrase but could not think of another one to use that was acceptable!) people in pain, or anguish, do often attack others but it is still not acceptable. calling the police, your minister, a therapist are all valid suggestions but the manner in which they are suggested should not be delivered with the finesse of a sledgehammer! i am sorry you had to go through this, Cassandra. to heck with them, talk to us, e love you and accept you and are more than willing to talk. i am also a survivor of abuse and so i can sympathize. -angela OUCHIE! I was just on another forum, one for survivors of childhood abuse, and I accidentily offended someone- got totally slammed. I was called a 'spammer' for posting three times on the same subject. I asked for some advice or help and was told to call the cops and go see my minister a doctor and a shrink! Actualy I already tried all those things and it didn't help. So I think I'll just stay away from those particular traumatized people for a while. Yikes. The fear I felt reading that writetn attack was so bad, I had to hold one hand still with the other to type my humble (not TOO humble) reply. Adrenalin surge has lowered my pain sensation, with the exception of sudden pounding headache. I will be okay, even if no one feels sorry for me and my ignorant mistake ------------------------------------ 1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr. Some treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to certain health conditions or just dangerous in general. 2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation better. 3. To unsubscribe the e-mail is: Fibromyalgia_Support_Group-unsubscribe 4. Also, it is not uncommon for more than one member to be feeling bad at the same time when it comes to flares and b/c of that potentially take something another member says the wrong way. And that includes the things that one member may find funny (even if it's laughing at fibro itself) even though we who deal with illness whether one such as fibro or multiple illnesses try to keep a sense of humor. 5. Pls let's be gentle with each other, and if you are having a bad day pls let us know so that we can do our best to offer our support. Have a nice day everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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