Guest guest Posted June 18, 2007 Report Share Posted June 18, 2007 That is so great, awsome job Aubrie!! And wow a nap in the afternoon, who ever heard of a mother doing that??? LOL! I am sure she is having a great time at camp and will be home before you know it with many stories. Hugs, Crystal mom to Eva 2 years old > > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. > > > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2007 Report Share Posted June 18, 2007 That is wonderful Michele - I'd love to see a picture or a video of her using it! > > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on > her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how > poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and > saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is > not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is > able. > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become > and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music > needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of > having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Michele, I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow as molasses. The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " Congrats on the progress!!!! LOL, , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin ---- Michele Westmaas momonamission@...> wrote: ============= Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or stumble. I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to touch everything along the way. The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for the experience of Patty and others before us. This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how she's doing. I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when she comes home. Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) Michele W Aubrie's mom 9 yrs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Michele, I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow as molasses. The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " Congrats on the progress!!!! LOL, , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin ---- Michele Westmaas momonamission@...> wrote: ============= Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or stumble. I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to touch everything along the way. The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for the experience of Patty and others before us. This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how she's doing. I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when she comes home. Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) Michele W Aubrie's mom 9 yrs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Michele, I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow as molasses. The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " Congrats on the progress!!!! LOL, , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin ---- Michele Westmaas momonamission@...> wrote: ============= Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or stumble. I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to touch everything along the way. The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for the experience of Patty and others before us. This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how she's doing. I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when she comes home. Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) Michele W Aubrie's mom 9 yrs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 woweeeeeeeeeee all oru chargers r so great > > Michele, > > I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. > Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the > cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he > will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold > hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow > as molasses. > > The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted > guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it > is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not > leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from > him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him > wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free > hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! > Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " > > Congrats on the progress!!!! > > LOL, > , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin > > ---- Michele Westmaas momonamission@...> > wrote: > > ============= > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on > her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how > poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and > saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is > not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is > able. > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become > and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music > needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of > having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 woweeeeeeeeeee all oru chargers r so great > > Michele, > > I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. > Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the > cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he > will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold > hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow > as molasses. > > The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted > guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it > is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not > leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from > him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him > wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free > hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! > Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " > > Congrats on the progress!!!! > > LOL, > , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin > > ---- Michele Westmaas momonamission@...> > wrote: > > ============= > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on > her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how > poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and > saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is > not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is > able. > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become > and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music > needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of > having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 woweeeeeeeeeee all oru chargers r so great > > Michele, > > I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. > Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the > cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he > will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold > hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow > as molasses. > > The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted > guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it > is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not > leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from > him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him > wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free > hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! > Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " > > Congrats on the progress!!!! > > LOL, > , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin > > ---- Michele Westmaas momonamission@...> > wrote: > > ============= > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on > her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how > poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and > saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is > not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is > able. > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become > and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music > needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of > having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Michele, I didn't realize that Aubrie only has sight in one eye. She has very good functional vision, doesn't she. We've been talking about canes for MacKenzie,but worried that it may become a weapon. I also thought that it may actually make her balance worse. It's interesting to know that it hasn't had that effect on Aubrie. MacKenzie hangs on me all the time. She naturally takes my elbow, much the same way a blind person would. I'm glad that she realizes the need for this support but I think it's become a crutch. She refuses to walk up the stairs in our home without me, although she's perfectly capable of doing so. I think I may need to bring up the cane issue again, simply for her independance. Will Aubrie use her cane at the conference? Jeanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 - I'll work on that when she gets back. Michele _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of Weir Sent: Monday, June 18, 2007 10:19 PM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane That is wonderful Michele - I'd love to see a picture or a video of her using it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 - I can totally imagine your mixed emotions - wanting to have your space but realizing that there will be a time when you'll want his hand. Aubrie's vision is good enough that she can find me in the store. But it's funny because it takes her forever to find me by my voice if we've gotten separated by racks of stuff. I would think that Garland will eventually prefer the cane so that he can let go of you when he's older and values his independence more. But I guess that's not a given since many people prefer a sighted guide. Hmmm. we'll see! Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of & Randy Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 6:34 AM To: CHARGE Cc: Michele Westmaas Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane Michele, I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow as molasses. The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " Congrats on the progress!!!! LOL, , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 - I can totally imagine your mixed emotions - wanting to have your space but realizing that there will be a time when you'll want his hand. Aubrie's vision is good enough that she can find me in the store. But it's funny because it takes her forever to find me by my voice if we've gotten separated by racks of stuff. I would think that Garland will eventually prefer the cane so that he can let go of you when he's older and values his independence more. But I guess that's not a given since many people prefer a sighted guide. Hmmm. we'll see! Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of & Randy Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 6:34 AM To: CHARGE Cc: Michele Westmaas Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane Michele, I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow as molasses. The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " Congrats on the progress!!!! LOL, , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 - I can totally imagine your mixed emotions - wanting to have your space but realizing that there will be a time when you'll want his hand. Aubrie's vision is good enough that she can find me in the store. But it's funny because it takes her forever to find me by my voice if we've gotten separated by racks of stuff. I would think that Garland will eventually prefer the cane so that he can let go of you when he's older and values his independence more. But I guess that's not a given since many people prefer a sighted guide. Hmmm. we'll see! Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of & Randy Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 6:34 AM To: CHARGE Cc: Michele Westmaas Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane Michele, I am so glad to hear that Aubrie is using the cane outside of school. Garland has been working with the O&M for the last three years with the cane. The first summer he used it at home and when we went places. Now he will not use it except at school. Just like you when we go places we hold hands, I make him aware of the obstacles he is coming up on and he is slow as molasses. The O&M has taught him sighted guide. In turn he has taught me sighted guide. This is the method he prefers over the cane at this point. I guess it is due to the vision loss and the fact that he what's to know I am not leaving? I know he gets real upset if I take two or three steps away from him in the store and he doesn't have my hand. I am looking forward to him wanting to use the cane when we go places. I feel like I never have a free hand and I will probably become saddened when he no longer wants my hand! Yes, I know this is being a mom. " My baby is growing up! " Congrats on the progress!!!! LOL, , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs.) Goodwin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Jeanie- Yes, Aubrie has good functional vision and she makes very good use of it. I expect that Aubrie will use her cane at the conference. That's the plan. I think it helps Aubrie's balance and sort of centers her. Without it, she walks with a half-skip - very bouncy and all over the place. All that sideways movement gets in the way of making forward progress. With the cane, she is straighter and steadier. Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of Jeanie Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 8:45 AM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane Michele, I didn't realize that Aubrie only has sight in one eye. She has very good functional vision, doesn't she. We've been talking about canes for MacKenzie,but worried that it may become a weapon. I also thought that it may actually make her balance worse. It's interesting to know that it hasn't had that effect on Aubrie. MacKenzie hangs on me all the time. She naturally takes my elbow, much the same way a blind person would. I'm glad that she realizes the need for this support but I think it's become a crutch. She refuses to walk up the stairs in our home without me, although she's perfectly capable of doing so. I think I may need to bring up the cane issue again, simply for her independance. Will Aubrie use her cane at the conference? Jeanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Jeanie- Yes, Aubrie has good functional vision and she makes very good use of it. I expect that Aubrie will use her cane at the conference. That's the plan. I think it helps Aubrie's balance and sort of centers her. Without it, she walks with a half-skip - very bouncy and all over the place. All that sideways movement gets in the way of making forward progress. With the cane, she is straighter and steadier. Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of Jeanie Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 8:45 AM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane Michele, I didn't realize that Aubrie only has sight in one eye. She has very good functional vision, doesn't she. We've been talking about canes for MacKenzie,but worried that it may become a weapon. I also thought that it may actually make her balance worse. It's interesting to know that it hasn't had that effect on Aubrie. MacKenzie hangs on me all the time. She naturally takes my elbow, much the same way a blind person would. I'm glad that she realizes the need for this support but I think it's become a crutch. She refuses to walk up the stairs in our home without me, although she's perfectly capable of doing so. I think I may need to bring up the cane issue again, simply for her independance. Will Aubrie use her cane at the conference? Jeanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Jeanie- Yes, Aubrie has good functional vision and she makes very good use of it. I expect that Aubrie will use her cane at the conference. That's the plan. I think it helps Aubrie's balance and sort of centers her. Without it, she walks with a half-skip - very bouncy and all over the place. All that sideways movement gets in the way of making forward progress. With the cane, she is straighter and steadier. Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of Jeanie Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 8:45 AM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane Michele, I didn't realize that Aubrie only has sight in one eye. She has very good functional vision, doesn't she. We've been talking about canes for MacKenzie,but worried that it may become a weapon. I also thought that it may actually make her balance worse. It's interesting to know that it hasn't had that effect on Aubrie. MacKenzie hangs on me all the time. She naturally takes my elbow, much the same way a blind person would. I'm glad that she realizes the need for this support but I think it's become a crutch. She refuses to walk up the stairs in our home without me, although she's perfectly capable of doing so. I think I may need to bring up the cane issue again, simply for her independance. Will Aubrie use her cane at the conference? Jeanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Jeanie, Garland started using his cane as a weapon only when he was not being challenged with it. He only uses it at this time when O&M is working with him. His balance is poor but the cane actually helps. He has learned to use it to go up and down the stairs and off curbs (without any help). He is still young and that may be part of the problem with him at this point. My two cents worth is that if we have the opportunity to teach our children something that may open doors for them down the road, go for it! Good luck! , Randy & Garland (5.5yrs) Goodwin ---- Jeanie jeaniecolp@...> wrote: ============= Michele, I didn't realize that Aubrie only has sight in one eye. She has very good functional vision, doesn't she. We've been talking about canes for MacKenzie,but worried that it may become a weapon. I also thought that it may actually make her balance worse. It's interesting to know that it hasn't had that effect on Aubrie. MacKenzie hangs on me all the time. She naturally takes my elbow, much the same way a blind person would. I'm glad that she realizes the need for this support but I think it's become a crutch. She refuses to walk up the stairs in our home without me, although she's perfectly capable of doing so. I think I may need to bring up the cane issue again, simply for her independance. Will Aubrie use her cane at the conference? Jeanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 , Amita has vision in one eye also.Her functional vision is good but she does like to hold hands (almost pulling me or her friend down) when walking in unfamiliar places and always holds the rails while using the staircase. Her O and M discharged her last year saying that her functional vision is good enough to get around school and in recess without help. She said that we could revisit the idea of a cane when she is a bit older and has to get around more. I wanted her to learn to use a cane but she was insistent about that issue. So I signed off on that ARD last year even though I was doubtful. Was there anything particular issue that helped your O and M decide on teaching her cane skills? Deepta > > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. > > > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 , Amita has vision in one eye also.Her functional vision is good but she does like to hold hands (almost pulling me or her friend down) when walking in unfamiliar places and always holds the rails while using the staircase. Her O and M discharged her last year saying that her functional vision is good enough to get around school and in recess without help. She said that we could revisit the idea of a cane when she is a bit older and has to get around more. I wanted her to learn to use a cane but she was insistent about that issue. So I signed off on that ARD last year even though I was doubtful. Was there anything particular issue that helped your O and M decide on teaching her cane skills? Deepta > > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. > > > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 , Amita has vision in one eye also.Her functional vision is good but she does like to hold hands (almost pulling me or her friend down) when walking in unfamiliar places and always holds the rails while using the staircase. Her O and M discharged her last year saying that her functional vision is good enough to get around school and in recess without help. She said that we could revisit the idea of a cane when she is a bit older and has to get around more. I wanted her to learn to use a cane but she was insistent about that issue. So I signed off on that ARD last year even though I was doubtful. Was there anything particular issue that helped your O and M decide on teaching her cane skills? Deepta > > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. > > > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 tim only has sight in one eye--I never thought of him using a cane--am I being stupid or hopeful? maria Re: Aubrie's cane , Amita has vision in one eye also.Her functional vision is good but she does like to hold hands (almost pulling me or her friend down) when walking in unfamiliar places and always holds the rails while using the staircase. Her O and M discharged her last year saying that her functional vision is good enough to get around school and in recess without help. She said that we could revisit the idea of a cane when she is a bit older and has to get around more. I wanted her to learn to use a cane but she was insistent about that issue. So I signed off on that ARD last year even though I was doubtful. Was there anything particular issue that helped your O and M decide on teaching her cane skills? Deepta > > Did I tell you guys that Aubrie is now using her long white cane? I knew > she was getting instruction through the school year, but I had no idea how > far she'd come! The O&M instructor called at the end of the year to say > that she should use it over the summer in unfamiliar surroundings. We've > only had it about a week and have used it in familiar and new places. What > I have seen is that it increases her independence and confidence. > > > > We just naturally hold hands when we're out. It helps me to know she's > right there. I watch for any obstacles she may not see and let her know > about them - and since she's right with me, I know that she's approaching > the same things I am. With the cane, she doesn't hold my hand, walks on her > own confidently, and neither of us worries that she'll miss anything or > stumble. > > > > I've also noticed another benefit. When we go somewhere, she has the need > to touch everything - and I mean everything. It's aggravating in a store > cuz it slows her down, things fall off the shelves, I worry about breaking > fragile things, etc. With the cane, she is occupied and doesn't need to > touch everything along the way. > > > > The funny thing is that people who know her are surprised to see her with > it. Many people don't realize that she can't see out of one eye or how poor > her hearing can be. Besides her hearing and vision, there are the balance > issues. The cane is as much for other people to watch out for her as it is > to help her watch out for them. She likes to tell the story of Patty > looking straight at people who stare at her when using the cane and saying, > " What? Haven't you ever seen a blind person before? " > > > > We're working on cane etiquette. I don't know anything about it - but I'm > sure that carrying it in a way that may poke someone or cause someone to > trip must be a bad thing. :-) She is oblivious to the way the seas part > when she approaches. I think she needs to develop awareness that she is not > such a princess that the world should part and make way for her highness - > she needs to watch out for others and pay attention as much as she is able. > > > > It's been an interesting and fun week seeing how competent she's become and > how much she's learned about cane skills. This is another example of > something I'd never have expected her to benefit from had it not been for > the experience of Patty and others before us. > > > > This week she is at camp at the School for the Visually Impaired. Perfect > place to learn more about using the cane. We dropped her off yesterday > afternoon. She is so excited! Not a bit of anxiety saying goodbye to us. > She was concerned that her roommate would not be happy with her music needs > at night, but her roommate seemed fine with it. Earlier in the week, she > said that she might have to call during the week. I guess DJ and I > are chopped liver compared to the big brother. I wish I could be a fly on > the wall to see how she's doing. > > > > I got to take a nap this afternoon, clean up the living room and know it > will stay clean, and watch an R-rated movie before her bedtime! It's quiet > - but rather than miss her, I am trying to enjoy all the benefits of having > this time to myself. And I look forward to hearing all about her week when > she comes home. > > > > Th-th-th-that's all folks! Thanks for listening :-) > > > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 9 yrs > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Deepta- You know, I think the biggest support was a story I shared about Patty using her cane. I will give my version of it and hope that Patty or Bonnie will find that I am close enough to accurate. You know how stories take on new details with each retelling! As I recall - Patty was introduced to cane use at Helen Keller National Center late in her teen years. She didn't use the cane regularly though. One day, she was off to NYC with her dad. Bonnie told her to take the cane. But Patty didn't want to because she didn't feel the need. Bonnie finally convinced her to tuck it in her purse just in case-with the assurance that she didn't have to use it but at least it would be there. When Patty returned from NYC, she was thrilled with the independence she'd had with the cane. She could walk around the unfamiliar and crowded city without holding onto her dad. She didn't trip on curbs. The crowds moved out of her way. Later when we saw Patty and Bonnie on our visit to Perkins, Aubrie was able to see Patty using her cane. We call Patty and Aubrie " twins thirteen years removed " because their diagnoses are very similar. I use her as an example to Aubrie's IEP team all the time. When I have a concrete example of how a person very similar to Aubrie has benefited from something, how can someone argue that just based on theory? It's challenging because there are many people out there with vision in only one eye. Many of them drive and do every other " normal " thing. But our kids have more than just one blind eye. Aubrie can't compensate for her vision loss by using her hearing. She can't hear a car approach. She can't tell how far away something is, how fast it is approaching, or which direction a sound comes from. Sure, her hearing is very good in many ways. But distinguishing environmental sounds is another story. Seeing distances and depth is a problem. Take an unsteady gait, poor balance, poor righting reflexes when you stumble and add those to the hearing and vision issues -- you get challenging mobility. Could Aubrie do it without the cane? Yes. But she does it a lot better with it. At age 9 (and up), it's time to let go of Mom's hand and go down stairs on your feet instead of your bottom. I'll bet Betsy McGinnity could help with articles to support O&M for a kid like Amita. Maybe just sharing Aubrie and Patty's experiences will be enough. Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of deepta_69 Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 10:05 AM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Aubrie's cane , Amita has vision in one eye also.Her functional vision is good but she does like to hold hands (almost pulling me or her friend down) when walking in unfamiliar places and always holds the rails while using the staircase. Her O and M discharged her last year saying that her functional vision is good enough to get around school and in recess without help. She said that we could revisit the idea of a cane when she is a bit older and has to get around more. I wanted her to learn to use a cane but she was insistent about that issue. So I signed off on that ARD last year even though I was doubtful. Was there anything particular issue that helped your O and M decide on teaching her cane skills? Deepta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 - I think it's the combination of everything that needs to be considered. How does he get around? Is he competent on his own or could he use a tool to help? Truly, I don't know how to make the decision. I just felt it was the right thing for Aubrie based on what I knew of Patty's experience. And her O&M instructor was supportive so there was no 2nd guessing. Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of PATRICK HALLORAN Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 10:51 AM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Re: Aubrie's cane tim only has sight in one eye--I never thought of him using a cane--am I being stupid or hopeful? maria Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 - Yes, each person's functioning level and comfort level is unique. There are many tools and techniques available for our kids and making choices of which to use will always be a personal decision. As with all the medical, educational, and communication choices and decisions, using a cane or not is one of those that can be challenging with so many factors involved. I would love to see Aubrie using a service dog someday. I can think of many ways it would be beneficial - but I'm not ready to even begin checking into it yet. Michele W _____ From: CHARGE [mailto:CHARGE ] On Behalf Of Keedy Sent: Tuesday, June 19, 2007 11:41 AM To: CHARGE Subject: Re: Re: Aubrie's cane Michele, what you said about other people with vision in only one eye is so true. I fit that profile, but there are other factors that make driving easy for me. First, I have good peripheral vision in my 'not-so-good' eye. This helps tremendously with driving. Next, when I am in complex driving circumstances, I always turn the radio way down low so I can focus all attention to my driving. Because I hear well, I call upon this source for extra help. As you mentioned, if hearing is not a help in certain circumstances, that particular assistance is gone. Each set of circumstances for each individual is truly unique. Each child or adult will best determine their needs related to all the factors considered together. I am so pleased that Aubrie is finding positive benefits to using her white cane. :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 19, 2007 Report Share Posted June 19, 2007 Michele, That is sooooooo exciting. You must be very proud. Did you ever think that day would come? I cant wait for the day will walk, even if its just while holding my hands. Cathie ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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