RE: Word of wisdom needed

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

That is truly awful. You need to get to the family courthouse I believe, or

call

and tell them you need to speak to the " lawyer of the day " , or call and tell

them you need a court appointed lawyer and how do you proceed.

In this state it's iffy to call DSS (department of social services) or

Children's

protective services. (especially if you are staying with friends as opposed

to

relatives.)

Another place that might be able to help is an abuse hotline.

I'm imagining the fact that he threw the kids out of their house is not going

to make him look like a caring, providing Dad for the kids. And what

were you supposed to do? Walk out and leave the children? Besides that,

he walked out on you all; that's abandonment.

Dear, dear. Please be careful. I don't know what's in his mind, or how far

he

might think of pushing things. The world's understanding of the situation

isn't

the same as his. That could make him angry when he realizes that.

Have your lawyer check out chargesyndrome.org to set the record straight.

And of course, 's docs will also tell how it is.

Stress to the lawyer that the children are very well protected and provided

for

where you are, but that you are concerned about your husband's goals.

I don't know if you have any agencies on board that have been to the house,

and could speak favorably on your behalf as well.

Please get to a lawyer as quickly as possible, so they can guide you.

It could turn out that if he can't provide sufficient support for the

children, you would

be able to leave the state at some point.

Do you feel safe with everything that's going on?

Take care , let us know how you are as much as you can.

in Ma.

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[Guest guest]

Hang in there you know as well as we know you did nothing to

make have CHARGE other then your genes and his genes. I

wouldnt worry to much about him getting full custody and I know a

lawyer is not cheap but if he has one you will need one also. You

know your record and its clean so don't stress no court is going to

give him full custody knowing a child needs a mom and a dad. Joint

is hard but its sometimes has to be that way.

Hugs,

Crystal and Eva

>

> hi everybody,

>

> i need some help.if you remember me and my husband are going

through

> a divorce now before it was a seperation but he has since

requested

> me file divorce papers so i guess this is getting final.he has

also

> decided to fight me for custody of the kids he has kicked me and

the

> kids out of our trailer i have been staying with family im about

to

> go out of my mind.the first day i was gone with the kids he tried

to

> have me arrested for kidnapping{i know crazy}he is calling me an

> unfit mother and telling everybody that nathans CHARGE Syndrome

was

> caused by something i did wrong while i was pregnant.its getting

> nasty.im trying to be strong for the kids but its really hard at

> times so i am turning to youguys for some words of support.im

hoping

> to get through this in one piece other than than nathan has been

very

> healthy im hoping to be able to move with the kids but he doesnt

want

> me to be able to take them out of new york well see what the court

> say i guess i wish things didnt have to go this far but he doesnt

> want to try to work things out and ive come to realize i need to

> honor that and give him the divorce i will be back to catch up on

my

> emails as soon as i can i hope everybody stays happy and healthy

big

> hugs and kisses to everrybody

>

> mommy to {20 month old CHARGEr}

>

[Guest guest]

OH ,

I am so sorry to hear about all your troubles. It is so hard, I am sure, to be

dealing with all of this and trying to do the right things for your children and

take care of yourself as well.

I am sure others with more empathy for the situation (those who have gone

through this themselves) will chime in with more words of wisdom. But, from my,

just know I am thinking of you and the children and give you big cyber hugs and

kisses.

pam

Word of wisdom needed

hi everybody,

i need some help.if you remember me and my husband are going through

a divorce now before it was a seperation but he has since requested

me file divorce papers so i guess this is getting final.he has also

decided to fight me for custody of the kids he has kicked me and the

kids out of our trailer i have been staying with family im about to

go out of my mind.the first day i was gone with the kids he tried to

have me arrested for kidnapping{i know crazy}he is calling me an

unfit mother and telling everybody that nathans CHARGE Syndrome was

caused by something i did wrong while i was pregnant.its getting

nasty.im trying to be strong for the kids but its really hard at

times so i am turning to youguys for some words of support.im hoping

to get through this in one piece other than than nathan has been very

healthy im hoping to be able to move with the kids but he doesnt want

me to be able to take them out of new york well see what the court

say i guess i wish things didnt have to go this far but he doesnt

want to try to work things out and ive come to realize i need to

honor that and give him the divorce i will be back to catch up on my

emails as soon as i can i hope everybody stays happy and healthy big

hugs and kisses to everrybody

mommy to {20 month old CHARGEr}

[Guest guest]

u cant of done anything to course charge unless you have the gene it is

proven and i think u should write to meg and ask for some papers to give to

him and thecourt to help you i know its stupid but maybe he doesnt know

charge and doesnt want to know but i can say theres a gene mutation

somewhere not any human thing hugs ellen

>

> Dear ,

>

> That is truly awful. You need to get to the family courthouse I believe,

> or

> call

> and tell them you need to speak to the " lawyer of the day " , or call and

> tell

> them you need a court appointed lawyer and how do you proceed.

> In this state it's iffy to call DSS (department of social services) or

> Children's

> protective services. (especially if you are staying with friends as

> opposed

> to

> relatives.)

> Another place that might be able to help is an abuse hotline.

> I'm imagining the fact that he threw the kids out of their house is not

> going

> to make him look like a caring, providing Dad for the kids. And what

> were you supposed to do? Walk out and leave the children? Besides that,

> he walked out on you all; that's abandonment.

> Dear, dear. Please be careful. I don't know what's in his mind, or how far

>

> he

> might think of pushing things. The world's understanding of the situation

> isn't

> the same as his. That could make him angry when he realizes that.

> Have your lawyer check out chargesyndrome.org to set the record straight.

> And of course, 's docs will also tell how it is.

> Stress to the lawyer that the children are very well protected and

> provided

> for

> where you are, but that you are concerned about your husband's goals.

> I don't know if you have any agencies on board that have been to the

> house,

> and could speak favorably on your behalf as well.

> Please get to a lawyer as quickly as possible, so they can guide you.

> It could turn out that if he can't provide sufficient support for the

> children, you would

> be able to leave the state at some point.

> Do you feel safe with everything that's going on?

>

> Take care , let us know how you are as much as you can.

> in Ma.

>

> ************************************** See what's free at

> http://www.aol.com.

>

>