Guest guest Posted June 12, 2007 Report Share Posted June 12, 2007 Dear - Thank you so much for your reply. Though your reply doesn't indicate I may have confused you, reading my post I found myself confusing. The baby boy in question is not but a darling boy at Children's Hospital here in Los Angeles. I happened to be visiting when the Neurologist, in all her diagnostician and clinician charm imparted the information, peppered with " we'll have to follow this up.... we're in no hurry to get him out of here....of course we don't know if he'll ever (fill in the blank).... " The MRI's show this baby has absent facial nerves on one side. The doctor did not refer to them as cranial nerves, but rather " facial nerves on one side are absent. " Right now both sides of his face are equally relaxed and appear mostly to be symmetrical. Asymmetry in expression is noticed in large expressions - such as crying or yawning. The most wonderful thing is your re-imparting of Meg's wisdom. The parents have been hearing plenty of " we don't know if he'll ever walk " and stuff like that. Why must these things be said so dour and stern? As though not knowing was as good as it never happening? Really. In the NICU the logic of a new sense of wholeness, the wisdom that physical capacity has little to do with actual value and meaning, and the tenderness of exploring a world in which things happen a little differently but happen wonderfully all the same would be kind....and more honest (barring critical life sustaining issues of course). My heart is with them- thank you so much- yuka Re: facial palsy - facial nerve Hi Yuka, My understanding is that the facial nerve and the palsy are variable and can change over time. I had emailed Meg asking about this, because I had always read that the palsy should either stay stable or improve. She wrote back and said yes, that's what they are supposed to do, but since when has anything with CHARGE ever been the way it was supposed to be. This is our experience with it: Evan went from not appearing to have a palsy at all at birth, to at 2 weeks a unilateral palsy on the right side that affected his eye (blinking, closing all the way), his midface (no tone around the nostril), and his mouth (no smile or frown on that side). When he would get angry and cry, the left side of his face would make an expression and he would squint his eye--the right was expressionless with an open eye. We used to call that look " the eye " ...as in, " Oh, Evan's upset and giving us " the eye " again. " As he got older (around 4 months, I think), the palsy changed. He now has a bilateral incomplete palsy--he can blink and close both his eyes reasonably well (sometimes they remain a bit open if he's in a deep sleep). He smiles with the right side of his mouth, and now the left doesn't move (the opposite of when he was a young infant). He had a CT of the temporal bone done at 1 year of age. The facial nerve was only commented on on one side, and it was smaller than normal. I'm sure he has one on both sides, since he has some function on both sides of his face. They just weren't able to see it. Evan also had an MRI done at 4 months, and it was unremarkable. (mom to Evan, 23 months) Yuka Persico yuka@...> wrote: Dear list- does not seem to have any facial palsy, and when he was a neonate MRIs were not the norm, so he does not have the extensive kind of diagnostic testing infants do today. I would greatly appreciate information to help fill in my gaps of understanding from what I have heard the doctor say versus what I have experienced in a five week old darling baby boy. I heard the doctor say that on the first MRI the facial nerve was not present. The second MRI either confirmed or disaffirmed that finding, so they will default to the findings of the first MRI with regard to the facial nerve. The doctor went on to explain that the nerves all on one side of the face would not innervate - which is to mean the forehead, the eyebrow, the eyelid, the cheek and the jaw. The face would be asymmetrical. It really sounded as though there should be no movement at all. Yet to watch this precious baby, certainly there is some asymmetry of expression when yawning, and the darling smiles that one lives for are stronger on one side or the other, but the eye on the affected side does close more often than not, and there does not feel as though there is a complete absence of innervations to one side of the infant's face. Is this a case of the diagnostic and clinical do not paint the whole picture? I would love to be able to provide a greater breadth and nuance of information to the family on this. Thank you so much in advance - in love, yuka Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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