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I have a good friend with a 5 year old daughter who has CHARGE. She doesn't

have access to the internet very often, so I am writing for her. The school

thinks that she also has autism. I was wondering if there are ways to find

out if this is autism or what is going on. Do other children with CHARGE

have autism?

The little girl's language is very delayed and she has a lot of behavior

issues. She also has 'stims' like flapping her hands and flicking her hands

in front of lights. She has problems focusing on any activities for any

length of time at all. My friend wonders if it is ADD or something like

that. Any change in their plans seems to be really upsetting, so

transitions are a big issue.

Is there any resource or information that could help my friend sort out how

to address the issues at home and at school? She's worried about frustration

and the fact that her daughter doesn't communicate with words but always

pulls her hand to the video or toy that she wants.

Her preschool group of teachers doesn't seem to know how to address her

behaviors, frustration, and difficulty with language. It seems like they

want to help but really don't know how. The little girl is deaf and goes to

a preschool class for kids with hearing impairment.

Otherwise, she is doing pretty well with health issues. She had heart

surgery when she was a baby and recovered very nicely.

Thanks for any ideas, resource suggestions... betsy

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what other aspects of charge has she got thats allways one to consider

theres lots of aspects to look at im a charger ive got ocd have they looked

into that where r u all from hugs ellen inaus

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> I have a good friend with a 5 year old daughter who has CHARGE. She

> doesn't

> have access to the internet very often, so I am writing for her. The

> school

> thinks that she also has autism. I was wondering if there are ways to find

> out if this is autism or what is going on. Do other children with CHARGE

> have autism?

>

> The little girl's language is very delayed and she has a lot of behavior

> issues. She also has 'stims' like flapping her hands and flicking her

> hands

> in front of lights. She has problems focusing on any activities for any

> length of time at all. My friend wonders if it is ADD or something like

> that. Any change in their plans seems to be really upsetting, so

> transitions are a big issue.

>

> Is there any resource or information that could help my friend sort out

> how

> to address the issues at home and at school? She's worried about

> frustration

> and the fact that her daughter doesn't communicate with words but always

> pulls her hand to the video or toy that she wants.

>

> Her preschool group of teachers doesn't seem to know how to address her

> behaviors, frustration, and difficulty with language. It seems like they

> want to help but really don't know how. The little girl is deaf and goes

> to

> a preschool class for kids with hearing impairment.

>

> Otherwise, she is doing pretty well with health issues. She had heart

> surgery when she was a baby and recovered very nicely.

>

> Thanks for any ideas, resource suggestions... betsy

>

>

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Hi Betsy,

Many children with sensory deficits exhibit autistic-like behavior like you

have described. However, they don't necessarily have autism--a lot of these

behaviors are driven by the lack of hearing, vision, vestibular system, etc.,

coupled with language challenges. There are at least a couple kids with CHARGE

that I know of that DO have autism also, though. Those parents may be able to

tell you more about how their children were diagnosed.

We have a 5-year-old daughter who sometimes exhibits the types of behaviors

and activities you describe. I had questioned a couple years ago whether she

might also have autism, too. These mannerisms were more present in her then,

although she didn't exhibit some of the personality traits of autism. But after

talking in depth with her developmental pediatrician and having her observed by

a couple of pediatric psychologists who were familiar with deafblind behaviors,

it was decided that she didn't have true autism, but just some autistic-like

tendencies brought on by sensory deficits and lack of a formal communication

system.

What type of communication system does the family and school use with your

friend's daughter? Our daughter uses a total communication system (pictures,

sign, gestures, voice). Pictures made a big difference for her, particularly at

school. She grasped this concept quickly, and it's given her a way to know

what's expected of her, to request things, etc. She also began using a calendar

system this past year at school, which helped her tremendously with transitions.

She still has problems adjusting when something happens out of the normal

routine, but it's much better than it used to be. We've signed with her since

she was a baby, but she really just started taking off with receptive sign in

the past six months. I believe she's been taking it in the whole time, but it

just took a long time for it to " click " with her and for her to assign meaning

to the signs. She uses very little sign expressively, though--she still mostly

gestures and pulls/pushes you to show what

she wants. Still, she does pretty good at communicating her wants and needs,

even with very little " formal " communication at this point.

does get easily frustrated, though, when you don't understand her, or

she doesn't get what she wants, or her routine gets disrupted. She often acts

out in these types of situations--hitting, jumping up and down, clenching her

fist and jaws, etc. Again, this is related to a limited communication system,

and can be sometimes be very challenging to deal with. We sign " no " to her in

these instances and try to gently restrain her in some way (give her a bear hug,

or deep massage her shoulders, etc.) to try and relax her body. It can be tough

to deal with, though--probably the biggest challenge we are dealing with right

now.

I hope your friend can get some help for her daughter through the school. I

think the first place to start might be a total communication system

(particularly pictures, as a starting point), if one isn't already being used,

and a calendar system.

Good luck!

, mom to (5)

http://kauffmanlak.blogspot.com/

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We have questioned autism for a long time with Luke. How do you rule

out autism in CHARGE kids? Luke does not have major problems with

his vision and hearing (at least that we're aware of) but he does

have vestibular problems. He struggles with behaviors and

communication problems too. Luke does the hand flapping and finger

flicking that's been talked about by other parents and has very poor

eye contact and is resistant to change, but the biggest behavior

challenge lately has been his need to cover and sometimes push on his

eyes. He mostly holds the back of his hand over his right eye, but

lately he's added in pushing on his left eye at the same time. He's

definitely stressed out when he does this but I can't figure out

what's causing the stress. We really need major help in figuring

this out because he can't learn anything this way and some days he

does this a lot. Does anyone know what type of expert would help us

with this problem? Luke sees a lot of doctors but nobody seems to

know what to do about it. We've had his eyes checked and the

opthalmologist doesn't see anything causing it so we're assuming it's

all behavioral. Luke has a trach so he can't really even cry when he

wants to either. Luke can be such a fun happy boy and it makes me so

sad when something is causing him pain or stress but he can't tell me

what and there's nothing I can do about it.

, Luke's mom, 2 1/2 w/CHARGE

http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/lukejoseph

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > Hi Betsy,

> >

> > Many children with sensory deficits exhibit autistic-like

behavior like you

> > have described. However, they don't necessarily have autism--a

lot of these

> > behaviors are driven by the lack of hearing, vision, vestibular

system,

> > etc., coupled with language challenges. There are at least a

couple kids

> > with CHARGE that I know of that DO have autism also, though.

Those parents

> > may be able to tell you more about how their children were

diagnosed.

> >

> > We have a 5-year-old daughter who sometimes exhibits the types

of behaviors

> > and activities you describe. I had questioned a couple years ago

whether she

> > might also have autism, too. These mannerisms were more present

in her then,

> > although she didn't exhibit some of the personality traits of

autism. But

> > after talking in depth with her developmental pediatrician and

having her

> > observed by a couple of pediatric psychologists who were familiar

with

> > deafblind behaviors, it was decided that she didn't have true

autism, but

> > just some autistic-like tendencies brought on by sensory deficits

and lack

> > of a formal communication system.

> >

> > What type of communication system does the family and school use

with your

> > friend's daughter? Our daughter uses a total communication system

(pictures,

> > sign, gestures, voice). Pictures made a big difference for her,

particularly

> > at school. She grasped this concept quickly, and it's given her a

way to

> > know what's expected of her, to request things, etc. She also

began using a

> > calendar system this past year at school, which helped her

tremendously with

> > transitions. She still has problems adjusting when something

happens out of

> > the normal routine, but it's much better than it used to be.

We've signed

> > with her since she was a baby, but she really just started taking

off with

> > receptive sign in the past six months. I believe she's been

taking it in the

> > whole time, but it just took a long time for it to " click " with

her and for

> > her to assign meaning to the signs. She uses very little sign

expressively,

> > though--she still mostly gestures and pulls/pushes you to show

what

> > she wants. Still, she does pretty good at communicating her

wants and

> > needs, even with very little " formal " communication at this point.

> >

> > does get easily frustrated, though, when you don't

understand her, or

> > she doesn't get what she wants, or her routine gets disrupted.

She often

> > acts out in these types of situations--hitting, jumping up and

down,

> > clenching her fist and jaws, etc. Again, this is related to a

limited

> > communication system, and can be sometimes be very challenging to

deal with.

> > We sign " no " to her in these instances and try to gently restrain

her in

> > some way (give her a bear hug, or deep massage her shoulders,

etc.) to try

> > and relax her body. It can be tough to deal with, though--

probably the

> > biggest challenge we are dealing with right now.

> >

> > I hope your friend can get some help for her daughter through

the school. I

> > think the first place to start might be a total communication

system

> > (particularly pictures, as a starting point), if one isn't

already being

> > used, and a calendar system.

> >

> > Good luck!

> >

> > , mom to (5)

> > http://kauffmanlak.blogspot.com/

> >

> > ---------------------------------

> > Ready for the edge of your seat? Check out tonight's top picks

on Yahoo!

> > TV.

> >

> >

> >

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