if you were coming home now....

[Guest guest]

Dear CHARGE list-

I would greatly appreciate your input to help me be helpful...

When you came home with your precious baby - what things did people do for you

that really helped? What things do you wish someone (anyone) did? What things

did people do that drove you batty?

I think not only will this help me not overwhelm the family going home with my

good intentions and my seventeen years as a CHARGE parent, but some of the

unpleasant memories might help them have a prepared vantage point for the small

interpersonal bumps that are surely ahead....

thank you all AGAIN!!!

in love,

yuka

p.s. In this process I have become overwhelmed at what we so gratefully accept

in our lives - with gratitude and the will to make it all joy.