Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Hi, i think i answered this before: it wasnt a choice for me- doc insisted we start this way b/c i dont have miscarriage history (i had never had conceived in my life despiet maassive efforts) and he said the surgery carries some risks of damaging the uterus (so bc their wasnt a clear rationale for why those risks should be taken (miscarriage history) it wasnt the way to go). best heidi --- loveuriley loveuriley@...> wrote: > I asked this in another post, but it may have been > missed. > > I've noticed that some of you have a SU, but have > chosen (with the > advice of your doctors, I'm sure) to not have the > surgery to remove > the septum. Do you mind me asking why? > > I have one DD who went full term, and now have > discovered I have a SU, > after having an MRI following a subsequent m/c. I'm > wondering if > there is any reason why I may be able to avoid > surgery. > > Just grasping at straws, I guess. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Hello Heidi, I apologize if you answred that already, I guess I missed it. Thanks so much for coming in and answering it again. :-) Hmmm...now I am still wondering b/c I did have one successful pregnancy if it is worth it to have the surgery. I know I " can " carry a baby to full term, so I wonder if the risk is worth it. Of course, without it, there is a risk of having another m/c right? Anyone else have any thoughts? What do you think you would do in my case? > > > I asked this in another post, but it may have been > > missed. > > > > I've noticed that some of you have a SU, but have > > chosen (with the > > advice of your doctors, I'm sure) to not have the > > surgery to remove > > the septum. Do you mind me asking why? > > > > I have one DD who went full term, and now have > > discovered I have a SU, > > after having an MRI following a subsequent m/c. I'm > > wondering if > > there is any reason why I may be able to avoid > > surgery. > > > > Just grasping at straws, I guess. > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 hi again, it seems to me ive now heard of a handful of SU women - either in the medical literature or on this site- who had totally normal first pregnancies and then had trouble after that w/ multiple m/c -- even cases where the SU wasnt even diagnosed until after the first preg (when the trouble started). so this may be a pattern in some of the SU population (altho im generalizing wildly from so few women, its not really sensible). remember, miscarriage is quite common in pregnancy IN THE NORMAL POPULATION- i have ***TONS*** of " NORMAL " friends, pregnant at a wide span of the maternal age range, who have miscarried once or twice, (and also have the desired # of children by the end of it all). So if you have had 1 m/c, the conservative approach would be to keep TTC -- if you continue to have m/cs- then the septum removal would be clearly indicated. Best Heidi --- loveuriley loveuriley@...> wrote: > Hello Heidi, > > I apologize if you answred that already, I guess I > missed it. > Thanks so much for coming in and answering it again. > :-) > > Hmmm...now I am still wondering b/c I did have one > successful > pregnancy if it is worth it to have the surgery. I > know I " can " > carry a baby to full term, so I wonder if the risk > is worth it. Of > course, without it, there is a risk of having > another m/c right? > > Anyone else have any thoughts? What do you think > you would do in my > case? > > > > > > > > > > > I asked this in another post, but it may have > been > > > missed. > > > > > > I've noticed that some of you have a SU, but > have > > > chosen (with the > > > advice of your doctors, I'm sure) to not have > the > > > surgery to remove > > > the septum. Do you mind me asking why? > > > > > > I have one DD who went full term, and now have > > > discovered I have a SU, > > > after having an MRI following a subsequent m/c. > I'm > > > wondering if > > > there is any reason why I may be able to avoid > > > surgery. > > > > > > Just grasping at straws, I guess. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 hi i had my son in 2001 with my septum intact - at the time drs thought i had a BU - last 6/04 i mc my 2nd pg (6 or 7 weeks - no tests done on the baby) and last 1/05 i mc my third (10 weeks - chromosomally normal boy). i'm still angry that the obs i saw never asked for further testing after my 1st mc - i would have found out i was SU and had had the lap/hyst/resection i ended up having only after my 2nd mc .... and maybe i would have my baby with me now ..... i know surgery can be risky and i'm afraid to death of general anethesia but i'd choose that small risk over another mc ANYTIME i think it's fundamental, though, to get a VERY good RE/surgeon who is experienced with MAs - where do you live? i trust my RE and ended up having the lap/hyst/resection 3/05 and a 2nd hyst last 8/05 - i'm now TTC ..... gabi, 38 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 I think it becomes a personal decision whether or not to resect when you know what the possibilities are. I think that if I had gone on without the resection and had another m/c, I would have regretted the decision. I also have incompetent cervix, so the septum was only making that condition worse. I would have been on strict bedrest and had a cerclage during pregnancy if I hadn't done the resection, and though there's no way to know right now what the future holds, there is a much better chance that I will have a more " normal " pregnancy - still with a cerclage, bi-weekly ultrasounds, maybe modified bedrest (I can't believe how much things have changed that I now consider all of that close to normal!) My dh made a good point before my resection. What if my pregnancy with Fletcher was a " fluke " ? Meaning, what if that was a one-in-a- hundred occurence, that he didn't implant in the septum and his placenta didn't grow onto it? Not that it necessarily supports our decision to do the resection. It was just another thing to consider. Heidi, I have been meaning to ask you about your pregnancy, and it relates to this thread... I was laying in bed the other night, unable to sleep, so I was going through my mental list of people to pray for, and of course my MA board friends. :-) That got me thinking about you and the endurance test this pregnancy has got to have been for you so far. Do you feel that you will do it again without a resection? You've written before that you would have needed to have a m/c before your docs would have done surgery (which seems so unfair to have to suffer a loss in order to fix things...) but it seems like a high-risk, high-stress pg like yours would be enough for some to opt for a resection/septoplasty without experiencing a miscarriage. What do you think? To be honest, as soon as we found out that I had a septum, we didn't truly think about NOT doing the resection. But I had already had a m/c. Anyway, sorry to pry. I've been thinking of you and praying for your little boy...almost full term!!! Wahoo! Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Heidi, Sorry to keep bothering you again...but you and I have a lot of similarities, considering we are both SU and have experienced (or are experiencing) carrying a baby to term. (And you will, no doubt!) So, you really think ttc again with the septum would be the " conservative " approach? Interesting. I was sort of thinking the opposite, that having the surgery would be the conservative approach. My OB told me that without the surgery, I have a 50-60% chance of m/c, while with it, I go back to what it is for ALL pregnancies, which as you know is 20%. She told me I could ttc again without it, it all depended on how I felt about the possibility of going through another m/c. > > > > > > > I asked this in another post, but it may have > > been > > > > missed. > > > > > > > > I've noticed that some of you have a SU, but > > have > > > > chosen (with the > > > > advice of your doctors, I'm sure) to not have > > the > > > > surgery to remove > > > > the septum. Do you mind me asking why? > > > > > > > > I have one DD who went full term, and now have > > > > discovered I have a SU, > > > > after having an MRI following a subsequent m/c. > > I'm > > > > wondering if > > > > there is any reason why I may be able to avoid > > > > surgery. > > > > > > > > Just grasping at straws, I guess. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Hi Gabi - I think the surgery just sounds like a huge deal to me right now. The more I read about it, the less I want it. My OB recommended hormones for 21 days, possible balloon catheder, antibiotics, then an hsg, then 2-3 months to wait to ttc, etc. She also told me to plan on missing a week from work. It is making my head spin thinking of the huge process I am about to embark upon. The whole process is just overwhelming to me, to be quite honest. I'm just trying to weigh the risks in my head and figure out if I want to go through this. Of course, the thought of going through another m/c is even more frightening, but there is a chance I won't m/c again too. The OB told me that I have a 50-60% chance of m/c again w/o the surgery. With it, I go back to the normal 20%. That is a difference, but it doesn't look all that substantial when I stare at the numbers. I know for some women, having the surgery was a no-brainer. For me, the decision has not been as simple. > > hi > > i had my son in 2001 with my septum intact - at the time drs thought > i had a BU - last 6/04 i mc my 2nd pg (6 or 7 weeks - no tests done > on the baby) and last 1/05 i mc my third (10 weeks - chromosomally > normal boy). > > i'm still angry that the obs i saw never asked for further testing > after my 1st mc - i would have found out i was SU and had had the > lap/hyst/resection i ended up having only after my 2nd mc .... and > maybe i would have my baby with me now ..... > > i know surgery can be risky and i'm afraid to death of general > anethesia but i'd choose that small risk over another mc ANYTIME > > i think it's fundamental, though, to get a VERY good RE/surgeon who > is experienced with MAs - where do you live? > > i trust my RE and ended up having the lap/hyst/resection 3/05 and a > 2nd hyst last 8/05 - i'm now TTC ..... > > gabi, 38 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 > The OB told me that I have a 50-60% > chance of m/c > again w/o the surgery. YOURE OB DOESNT KNOW THIS- NO ONE DOES. THE STATISTICS FOR OUR CONDITINOS ARE NOT VERY GOOD AT ALL AND ID LIKE TO GIVE HIM A LITTLE PIECE OF MY MIND FOR TELLING YOU THAT > > > > > > > > hi > > > > i had my son in 2001 with my septum intact - at > the time drs > thought > > i had a BU - last 6/04 i mc my 2nd pg (6 or 7 > weeks - no tests > done > > on the baby) and last 1/05 i mc my third (10 weeks > - chromosomally > > normal boy). > > > > i'm still angry that the obs i saw never asked for > further testing > > after my 1st mc - i would have found out i was SU > and had had the > > lap/hyst/resection i ended up having only after my > 2nd mc .... and > > maybe i would have my baby with me now ..... > > > > i know surgery can be risky and i'm afraid to > death of general > > anethesia but i'd choose that small risk over > another mc ANYTIME > > > > i think it's fundamental, though, to get a VERY > good RE/surgeon > who > > is experienced with MAs - where do you live? > > > > i trust my RE and ended up having the > lap/hyst/resection 3/05 and > a > > 2nd hyst last 8/05 - i'm now TTC ..... > > > > gabi, 38 > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Hi, many prayers and wishes to you in making this very difficult decision. if it feelsl like too much pressure to make the decision without more guidance, it might help you to talk to another doctor(s) who are highly acclaimed in the MA field to help you make and informed decision. which path is more conservative (surgery vs. not) really depends on how you consider " risk. " consider psychological vs. physical risk: 1) huge psychological risks of having another miscarriage or going on indefinitely not being able to get or stay pregnant- this really depends on who you are and how you react to miscarraige. In our (MA) situation, there is alot of pressure on every pregnancy and worry about not being able to get or stay pregnant EVER... we are stuck with the sense of having no control over our own bodies which makes the experience of miscarriage much much worse (compared to miscarriage occuring in normal women who experience miscarriage at a rate of 20% and also know they can easily get pregnant again). women w/ MAs are also at higher risk to think (falsely or not) that the embryo was perfectly fine, and if it werent for their uterus being abnormal, the pregnancy wouldve continued.... even if this isnt acutally true in their case, or in the case of a particular pregnancy theyve had. in addition, there is the risk of enduring a pregnancy with a non-resected MA. i got pregnant by IVF in a non-resected MA so that the doctors " could see if i miscarried " this was really terrifying to me, to make both me and my baby a guinea pig like that. The pregnancy has been hard psychologically knowing i might have put my baby in a not very good situation and that i might loose him in 1st or 2nd tri- theoretically " because " i didnt have the surgery first. i still worry that he is somehow deformed by my uterus, all packed over to one side, even tho im pretty sure this is totally irrational. 2) the physical risks of surgery: while anesthesia is always a risk, it is likely at an absolute minimum, at least in the US, due to relatively good quality control in hospitals and pre-screening of patients prior to surgery. however, the risk of causing more harm than good to the uterus in an MA surgery is always there- even if small. my doctor emphasized alot of this with me. the boundaries between fibrous and healthy tissue are not always clear, major blood vasculature to the uterus could be compromised. the way a woman scars is also an issue- i think there are alot of individual differences in this domain - and scar tissue could present a problem in TTC later. if a mistake is made, it is unreversible. finally, there is the issue of diagnosis- what if your diagnosis is wrong, and they go in and cut a septum that is actually primarily healthy tissue? while i would hope that could never happen, i think it is possible at least in theory. we know that women with non-resected MAs can have babies at or near term. what we dont know is any of the who, why or when, which sucks. i think women with MAs are probably a very genetically and morphologically heterogenous population and this has alot to do with why some can get or stay pregnant non-resected and some cant. you sound scared of having surgery. i was ready to dive into surgery and cried and cried when the doc said no. now i am thanking my lucky stars that my doctor didnt respond to my urgency about the surgery, bc, God willing, i am still pregnant at 35 wks. many prayers, and dont rush into anything until you feel ok about it. best heidi > > > > > > > > > > I asked this in another post, but it may > have > > > been > > > > > missed. > > > > > > > > > > I've noticed that some of you have a SU, but > > > have > > > > > chosen (with the > > > > > advice of your doctors, I'm sure) to not > have > > > the > > > > > surgery to remove > > > > > the septum. Do you mind me asking why? > > > > > > > > > > I have one DD who went full term, and now > have > > > > > discovered I have a SU, > > > > > after having an MRI following a subsequent > m/c. > > > I'm > > > > > wondering if > > > > > there is any reason why I may be able to > avoid > > > > > surgery. > > > > > > > > > > Just grasping at straws, I guess. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Heidi, Thank you for taking the time to write all that out. It does help to sort it out that way. I just wished I had a crystal ball (don't we all???) that would tell me what would happen if I got pg again with my SU. I have a consult scheduled with an RE as well, mostly to get a second opinion, but also because I am thinking of getting the surgery done there instead of my regular OB. I am secretly hoping she will say something like " Wow, your septum is so small and insignnficant, surgery wouldn't even be worth it. " Of course, a girl can dream, right? All the best to you in the remaining month. Can't wait to hear news of your new baby born and safely in your arms! Sheryl > > > > > > > > > > > I asked this in another post, but it may > > have > > > > been > > > > > > missed. > > > > > > > > > > > > I've noticed that some of you have a SU, but > > > > have > > > > > > chosen (with the > > > > > > advice of your doctors, I'm sure) to not > > have > > > > the > > > > > > surgery to remove > > > > > > the septum. Do you mind me asking why? > > > > > > > > > > > > I have one DD who went full term, and now > > have > > > > > > discovered I have a SU, > > > > > > after having an MRI following a subsequent > > m/c. > > > > I'm > > > > > > wondering if > > > > > > there is any reason why I may be able to > > avoid > > > > > > surgery. > > > > > > > > > > > > Just grasping at straws, I guess. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Hi! I don't have an SU, but I could really relate to your feelings about the ambivalence of having surgery. I was feeling exactly that way about a year and a half ago. I have a t-shaped uterus and the surgery to reconstruct it is done by very few doctors in the country, and even then it's success rates are not well-documented. So, I kept pushing off having the surgery for various reasons (I'll wait til next year when Flex & the new insurance plan kicks in..., etc.). Well, I ended up having to have surgery anyway because my uterus was almost totally scarred from a D&C (95%) and there was no way I was going to get pregnant like that. Sometimes things that seem horrible end up forcing us into the solution we need to reach our dreams. I was so angry about having to have the surgery after the D&C. But if I hadn't had the surgery I really, truly believe that I would not have gotten pregnant again, nor would I still be pregnant. It is truly awesome how these things turn out. To make a long story short, my advice would be wait as long as you don't feel convinced of the surgery, but pray for the best. Hopefully, you can avoid the surgery and have a healthly pregnancy. Many women are blessed this way! But, if you don't choose to have it now you can always change your mind later. Waiting will give you more time to learn about and evaluate your options. Lastly, I did have to have the 21 days of hormones, balloon catheter, antibiotics, the dreaded HSG (my doctor had to prescribe vallium for me to get me through a second one!), the 2-3 month wait and missing 3 days from work. To be quite honest, it was not that bad! The only thing that was terrible was the shoulder pain due to the gas, but it does eventually go away. It really is all a distant memory now. But, each person's recovery time is different based on the severity of the MA and the amount of cutting done. The cutting to my uterus was pretty significant, but it might be worse for someone who has a vascular septum (can't remember what yours is). If you can sleep as much as you can right after the surgery and have someone else take care of you, that will help tremendously! Wishing the best for you! Whatever you decide, hoping you have a little baby soon! Mikell, 34 27 wks, 6 days t-shape 1 m/c 2/04 @ 7 wks Re: Those of you who are SU and NOT Resected - child/mc mentioned Hi Gabi - I think the surgery just sounds like a huge deal to me right now. The more I read about it, the less I want it. My OB recommended hormones for 21 days, possible balloon catheder, antibiotics, then an hsg, then 2-3 months to wait to ttc, etc. She also told me to plan on missing a week from work. It is making my head spin thinking of the huge process I am about to embark upon. The whole process is just overwhelming to me, to be quite honest. I'm just trying to weigh the risks in my head and figure out if I want to go through this. Of course, the thought of going through another m/c is even more frightening, but there is a chance I won't m/c again too. The OB told me that I have a 50-60% chance of m/c again w/o the surgery. With it, I go back to the normal 20%. That is a difference, but it doesn't look all that substantial when I stare at the numbers. I know for some women, having the surgery was a no-brainer. For me, the decision has not been as simple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Mikell, Thank you for sharing your story. Maybe it actually DOES sound worse than it will be. I suspect that in this case, the anticipation will be worse than it is. You have really been through quite a lot. It is good to hear from people who came out on the other side, and lived to tell about it, so to speak. I talked to my OB's office again (they just LOVE me by now...)I was wrong about the balloon catheter, turns out my OB doesn't normally use it. (I had thought she said she did..) I guess the other thing that weighs heavily on my mind is my age. I hate having to put off ttc for several *more* months. I just completed a 2 month waiting period after my d&c, now 3 more months - UGH. I don't have years to play with at this point. But, if I don't have the surgery, I could end up with another m/c and ANOHTER d&c, delaying ttc even further (and needing surgery anyway.) Its a no win over here. Can you say Rock and Hard place????? I've scheduled the pre-op, so I am going to that at a minimum, and go from there. I just wish I could press a fast-forward button through all this!! > > Hi! > > I don't have an SU, but I could really relate to your feelings about the ambivalence of having surgery. I was feeling exactly that way about a year and a half ago. I have a t-shaped uterus and the surgery to reconstruct it is done by very few doctors in the country, and even then it's success rates are not well-documented. > > So, I kept pushing off having the surgery for various reasons (I'll wait til next year when Flex & the new insurance plan kicks in..., etc.). Well, I ended up having to have surgery anyway because my uterus was almost totally scarred from a D&C (95%) and there was no way I was going to get pregnant like that. Sometimes things that seem horrible end up forcing us into the solution we need to reach our dreams. I was so angry about having to have the surgery after the D&C. But if I hadn't had the surgery I really, truly believe that I would not have gotten pregnant again, nor would I still be pregnant. It is truly awesome how these things turn out. > > To make a long story short, my advice would be wait as long as you don't feel convinced of the surgery, but pray for the best. Hopefully, you can avoid the surgery and have a healthly pregnancy. Many women are blessed this way! But, if you don't choose to have it now you can always change your mind later. Waiting will give you more time to learn about and evaluate your options. > > Lastly, I did have to have the 21 days of hormones, balloon catheter, antibiotics, the dreaded HSG (my doctor had to prescribe vallium for me to get me through a second one!), the 2-3 month wait and missing 3 days from work. To be quite honest, it was not that bad! The only thing that was terrible was the shoulder pain due to the gas, but it does eventually go away. It really is all a distant memory now. But, each person's recovery time is different based on the severity of the MA and the amount of cutting done. The cutting to my uterus was pretty significant, but it might be worse for someone who has a vascular septum (can't remember what yours is). If you can sleep as much as you can right after the surgery and have someone else take care of you, that will help tremendously! > > Wishing the best for you! Whatever you decide, hoping you have a little baby soon! > > Mikell, 34 > 27 wks, 6 days > t-shape > 1 m/c 2/04 @ 7 wks > Re: Those of you who are SU and NOT Resected - child/mc mentioned > > > Hi Gabi - > > I think the surgery just sounds like a huge deal to me right now. > The more I read about it, the less I want it. My OB recommended > hormones for 21 days, possible balloon catheder, antibiotics, then > an hsg, then 2-3 months to wait to ttc, etc. She also told me to > plan on missing a week from work. It is making my head spin thinking > of the huge process I am about to embark upon. > > The whole process is just overwhelming to me, to be quite honest. > I'm just trying to weigh the risks in my head and figure out if I > want to go through this. Of course, the thought of going through > another m/c is even more frightening, but there is a chance I won't > m/c again too. The OB told me that I have a 50-60% chance of m/c > again w/o the surgery. With it, I go back to the normal 20%. That > is a difference, but it doesn't look all that substantial when I > stare at the numbers. > > I know for some women, having the surgery was a no-brainer. For me, > the decision has not been as simple. > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 Hi - I have a complete septum extending to my cervix (definitively dx via lap/hyst), and I have had one dd safety, vaginal birth at 40 weeks. I am currently ttc number 2. I have not had my septum resected, and almost certainly will not for two connected reasons: firstly, I do not have a normal SU (I like to say that even my anomaly is anomalous). My septum is muscular and well vascularised I could not have it resected through simple day surgery (i.e, via lap/hyst) as is normally the case with the typical fibrous septum. I would need to undergo a metroplasty, major abdominal surgery. Secondly, I have no history of m/c - I have only ever had one pregnancy and it ended happily at 40 weeks with a more or less normal vaginal delivery. As I do not have a history of 1st trimester loss, nor of serious pre-term labour, my doctors advised me not to have the metroplasty. If, however, my septum was the typical fibrous septum, I would have had it removed. If I had had even one unexplained m/c, I would have seriouslly considered the metroplasty. Hope this helps. Best of luck with your decision, I know it isn't an easy one. Many women with SU have successful full term or nearly full term pregnancies - thousands of women probably have had several babies without significant problems without ever knowing they have SUs. And sadly miscarriages happen frequently to women without MAs. Having said that, however, many, many women with SUs have recurrent 1st trimester m/c. Given that the surgery is normally low-risk, quick recovery, etc., most choose to have the surgery whether or not they have had a loss. a 36 Complete SU, unresected DD 15 months old Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 hi i know it's not a simple decision - i struggled myself also b/c of my fear of something going wrong during surgery and ending up in an even worse situation - after i had the hsg which showed a huge septum i opted for a diagnostic lap/hyst to accurate determine if i had a BU or a SU - if the dr found a septum and if he considered it was the right kind of 'operable' septum then he would resect - that's what he did - i went in thinking i most probably was BU but i was happily surprised when i woke up and the dr told me i was SU and i was fixed .... you also have to consider your personal preference with regards to being pg and knowing you have a septum that can mean no problem at all, just a few minor issues or huge problems - personally i'm a very pessimistic kind of person so i knew i couldn't even think of getting pg knowing the septum was in there - after 2 mc i would already be VEY aware of EVERY tiny 'symptom' - with the septum intact i would be completely freaked out the whole 30/40 weeks ... so i factored that in my decision too .... i'm also living proof that you still can carry quite close to term with no major issues (son born at 33 weeks, turned 4 and doing great) - but at the time i didn't even thought about my 'BU' cause drs always told me not to worry and luckily his pg was completely normal right until the day he was born ... at last, i'm 38 - if i were 24 or even 30 maybe i would have tried once more without surgery but now i don't feel i have that much time as to try again with a big risk of mc compounded by septum and age so that also made my decision a little bit easier ..... i wish you can make the decision that you feel is better for you - we'll be here to try to help and support you no matter what best of luck! gabi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2005 Report Share Posted October 28, 2005 Sheryl, After reading all the dialogue about resecting or not, I'm starting to rethink my own decision. I'm in a similar boat to you...I lost twins due to twin-twin transfusion. Supposedly it wasn't related to my MA. In fact, the doc who was treating me with the twins noticed the septum during laser surgery and suggested I have it checked before getting pregnant again. After losing the twins, I had it checked by 3D U/S and they diagnosed a wide, vascular septum. I'm having an MRI to confirm that it actually is a septum and not BU, as there is a flat fundus, but it might really be a BU with a septum. Anyway, I've struggled a lot with the decision about resection. On one hand, I carried twins to 20 & 27 weeks (one was lost at 20 but remained inside), although clearly they were on either side of the septum and didn't have a ton of room. Obviously my uterus stretched almost enough then. On the other, I don't think I can deal with another loss, especially if it is later in the pregnancy. I, too, am pretty nervous about the risks on the resection side, especially since my SU is vascular. But...thus far I still have an appointment to do it in early December. The thought that gets me is how I'll feel if I have a 2nd trimester loss, knowing that I could have done the resection. Not sure if I could forgive myself in that case, even though we've all learned that there are many aspects to pregnancy out of our control. As well, I think I would be SO stressed until I reached 37 weeks, knowing that I already lost two and have an imperfect uterus. All the best to you in making a decision that you are peaceful with. It is really hard...I found it helpful to get a 2nd RE opinion, even though it is a pain to work with more doctors' schedules. A question for those of you who have had a resection with the balloon catheter - how long does the balloon stay in? And can you fly with it in? Just wondering if there is a problem with pressure(even though plane cabins are pressurized). Thanks. Laurie SU lost twin sons at 20 and 27 wks (at birth), 6/26/05 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2005 Report Share Posted October 28, 2005 Hi, Have a resection doesn't offer complete protection against having another m/c - since m/c is such a common experience and often nothing to do with MA. Similarly, not having a resection doesn't mean you will have another m/c. You have had one sucessful pregnancy, and that's the very best indication that you can have another one. Resection is serious surgery - so the question is whether your septum is causing any serious problems. Unless there is some reason to think that the septum caused your m/c, it's probably too early to conclude that your first pregnancy was a 'fluke'. If you feel you would like to proceed with a resection, but are worried about the clock ticking - you could take a middle way: book the op, and ttc while waiting for it (I don't know how long your doc's surgery lists are). If you become pregnant in the meantime, cancel the op - if not, then you decide when your surgery date comes up whether you still want to go ahead. All the best, Judith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2005 Report Share Posted October 28, 2005 Sheryl, I am sorry for your loss. I thought I would chime in on the resection vs. Not thread. I am planning to have resection surgery early next year. I'm not sure where you are located, but I found in Boston that there is one doctor who is considered the expert at surgery for special cases (I am an SU with a septum down through the cervix). I have a consult with this dr in January and fully plan to have him do the surgery. It is outpatient surgery, and I have had one laparscopic surgery to remove endo and a vaginal septum, so I have a sense of what I am in for and for me, the benefits outweigh the risks for me. There is plenty of literature on MC rates with SUs, and each of us has to make our own decision, based on what we are told by are docs, and what we think is best for us mentally and physically, but for me it is a no brainer. My recovery from my last surgery was a full week, of just lying low, and a month before I felt back to myself. I am an IVF patient and there are studies which show a higher rate of failed implantation too, so this was another factor for me. Every dr. is different but the one doing my surgery does not use a balloon...he rarely does as he used scissors for the cutting and apparently scissors cause less scarring than other means of removal. Good luck with making your decision. > > Sheryl, > > After reading all the dialogue about resecting or not, I'm starting > to rethink my own decision. I'm in a similar boat to you...I lost > twins due to twin-twin transfusion. Supposedly it wasn't related to > my MA. In fact, the doc who was treating me with the twins noticed > the septum during laser surgery and suggested I have it checked > before getting pregnant again. After losing the twins, I had it > checked by 3D U/S and they diagnosed a wide, vascular septum. I'm > having an MRI to confirm that it actually is a septum and not BU, as > there is a flat fundus, but it might really be a BU with a septum. > Anyway, I've struggled a lot with the decision about resection. On > one hand, I carried twins to 20 & 27 weeks (one was lost at 20 but > remained inside), although clearly they were on either side of the > septum and didn't have a ton of room. Obviously my uterus stretched > almost enough then. On the other, I don't think I can deal with > another loss, especially if it is later in the pregnancy. > > I, too, am pretty nervous about the risks on the resection side, > especially since my SU is vascular. But...thus far I still have an > appointment to do it in early December. The thought that gets me is > how I'll feel if I have a 2nd trimester loss, knowing that I could > have done the resection. Not sure if I could forgive myself in that > case, even though we've all learned that there are many aspects to > pregnancy out of our control. As well, I think I would be SO stressed > until I reached 37 weeks, knowing that I already lost two and have an > imperfect uterus. > > All the best to you in making a decision that you are peaceful with. > It is really hard...I found it helpful to get a 2nd RE opinion, even > though it is a pain to work with more doctors' schedules. > > A question for those of you who have had a resection with the balloon > catheter - how long does the balloon stay in? And can you fly with > it in? Just wondering if there is a problem with pressure(even though > plane cabins are pressurized). Thanks. > > Laurie > SU > lost twin sons at 20 and 27 wks (at birth), 6/26/05 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2005 Report Share Posted October 28, 2005 Sheryl, I am sorry for your loss. I thought I would chime in on the resection vs. Not thread. I am planning to have resection surgery early next year. I'm not sure where you are located, but I found in Boston that there is one doctor who is considered the expert at surgery for special cases (I am an SU with a septum down through the cervix). I have a consult with this dr in January and fully plan to have him do the surgery. It is outpatient surgery, and I have had one laparscopic surgery to remove endo and a vaginal septum, so I have a sense of what I am in for and for me, the benefits outweigh the risks for me. There is plenty of literature on MC rates with SUs, and each of us has to make our own decision, based on what we are told by are docs, and what we think is best for us mentally and physically, but for me it is a no brainer. My recovery from my last surgery was a full week, of just lying low, and a month before I felt back to myself. I am an IVF patient and there are studies which show a higher rate of failed implantation too, so this was another factor for me. Every dr. is different but the one doing my surgery does not use a balloon...he rarely does as he used scissors for the cutting and apparently scissors cause less scarring than other means of removal. Good luck with making your decision. > > Sheryl, > > After reading all the dialogue about resecting or not, I'm starting > to rethink my own decision. I'm in a similar boat to you...I lost > twins due to twin-twin transfusion. Supposedly it wasn't related to > my MA. In fact, the doc who was treating me with the twins noticed > the septum during laser surgery and suggested I have it checked > before getting pregnant again. After losing the twins, I had it > checked by 3D U/S and they diagnosed a wide, vascular septum. I'm > having an MRI to confirm that it actually is a septum and not BU, as > there is a flat fundus, but it might really be a BU with a septum. > Anyway, I've struggled a lot with the decision about resection. On > one hand, I carried twins to 20 & 27 weeks (one was lost at 20 but > remained inside), although clearly they were on either side of the > septum and didn't have a ton of room. Obviously my uterus stretched > almost enough then. On the other, I don't think I can deal with > another loss, especially if it is later in the pregnancy. > > I, too, am pretty nervous about the risks on the resection side, > especially since my SU is vascular. But...thus far I still have an > appointment to do it in early December. The thought that gets me is > how I'll feel if I have a 2nd trimester loss, knowing that I could > have done the resection. Not sure if I could forgive myself in that > case, even though we've all learned that there are many aspects to > pregnancy out of our control. As well, I think I would be SO stressed > until I reached 37 weeks, knowing that I already lost two and have an > imperfect uterus. > > All the best to you in making a decision that you are peaceful with. > It is really hard...I found it helpful to get a 2nd RE opinion, even > though it is a pain to work with more doctors' schedules. > > A question for those of you who have had a resection with the balloon > catheter - how long does the balloon stay in? And can you fly with > it in? Just wondering if there is a problem with pressure(even though > plane cabins are pressurized). Thanks. > > Laurie > SU > lost twin sons at 20 and 27 wks (at birth), 6/26/05 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2005 Report Share Posted October 28, 2005 Sheryl, I am sorry for your loss. I thought I would chime in on the resection vs. Not thread. I am planning to have resection surgery early next year. I'm not sure where you are located, but I found in Boston that there is one doctor who is considered the expert at surgery for special cases (I am an SU with a septum down through the cervix). I have a consult with this dr in January and fully plan to have him do the surgery. It is outpatient surgery, and I have had one laparscopic surgery to remove endo and a vaginal septum, so I have a sense of what I am in for and for me, the benefits outweigh the risks for me. There is plenty of literature on MC rates with SUs, and each of us has to make our own decision, based on what we are told by are docs, and what we think is best for us mentally and physically, but for me it is a no brainer. My recovery from my last surgery was a full week, of just lying low, and a month before I felt back to myself. I am an IVF patient and there are studies which show a higher rate of failed implantation too, so this was another factor for me. Every dr. is different but the one doing my surgery does not use a balloon...he rarely does as he used scissors for the cutting and apparently scissors cause less scarring than other means of removal. Good luck with making your decision. > > Sheryl, > > After reading all the dialogue about resecting or not, I'm starting > to rethink my own decision. I'm in a similar boat to you...I lost > twins due to twin-twin transfusion. Supposedly it wasn't related to > my MA. In fact, the doc who was treating me with the twins noticed > the septum during laser surgery and suggested I have it checked > before getting pregnant again. After losing the twins, I had it > checked by 3D U/S and they diagnosed a wide, vascular septum. I'm > having an MRI to confirm that it actually is a septum and not BU, as > there is a flat fundus, but it might really be a BU with a septum. > Anyway, I've struggled a lot with the decision about resection. On > one hand, I carried twins to 20 & 27 weeks (one was lost at 20 but > remained inside), although clearly they were on either side of the > septum and didn't have a ton of room. Obviously my uterus stretched > almost enough then. On the other, I don't think I can deal with > another loss, especially if it is later in the pregnancy. > > I, too, am pretty nervous about the risks on the resection side, > especially since my SU is vascular. But...thus far I still have an > appointment to do it in early December. The thought that gets me is > how I'll feel if I have a 2nd trimester loss, knowing that I could > have done the resection. Not sure if I could forgive myself in that > case, even though we've all learned that there are many aspects to > pregnancy out of our control. As well, I think I would be SO stressed > until I reached 37 weeks, knowing that I already lost two and have an > imperfect uterus. > > All the best to you in making a decision that you are peaceful with. > It is really hard...I found it helpful to get a 2nd RE opinion, even > though it is a pain to work with more doctors' schedules. > > A question for those of you who have had a resection with the balloon > catheter - how long does the balloon stay in? And can you fly with > it in? Just wondering if there is a problem with pressure(even though > plane cabins are pressurized). Thanks. > > Laurie > SU > lost twin sons at 20 and 27 wks (at birth), 6/26/05 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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