Re: Depression (mc, baby/child ment)

[Guest guest]

Don't ever feel like a jerk about it. Just keep getting through each

day, one day at a time. There's no right or wrong length of time to

mourn such a traumatic loss. You're not just mourning the loss of a

pregnancy, but the loss of your baby, and the hopes and dreams that

you already had for him. It's ok to be depressed, but you do need to

talk to someone about it, and try and get help. I know for me, what

was the hardest was comprehending how everyone I knew, could just go

on with their lives...didn't they know I was still hurting behind the

smiles?? I had a SU that was discovered 4 years after I had my 1st

DS...I proceeded to have 2 m/c's that basically my ob, never really

did too much about...just " unlucky roll of the dice " those words will

forever haunt me. BUT because of these totally awesome ladies, I

found an RE, and RE who before he even looked at me knew I was SU.

And I'm happy to say that I now have a very happy and healthy 7 mo

old. I think back to those sad days and I think about the 2 babies I

lost, I'll never forget them -but time does make it easier to deal

with the pain of losing them. Lots of hugs!

carol