UU - deciding whether ttc again

September 6, 2005

Hi,

It's been a long time since I've posted and have been on the

website. I have a uu and have had 5mc's since 2000. The last one

was Nov. 2004. After that I decided I couldn't go through anymore

mc's and didn't want to try again.

My dh and I were approved for adoption in Feb. 2005. We are

patiently waiting for that call one day saying a birthmother has

picked us. I have been thinking about ttc again. Maybe because

everyone keeps asking how the adoption process is going. I know

everyone cares about us, but I wish people would stop asking

sometimes. Then they say you know if you're trying to adopt, you'll

get pg. Well, what they don't understand is that's not the problem,

its keeping the baby.

If we do decide to ttc again, we would wait until next year. We

have a couple of trips planned and I know being pg I wouldn't want

to travel much. The one good thing is if we do, I usually get pg in

approx. 3 months.

I'm going to see a new ob this month. Not sure he'll have any

answers, but you never know. He's not a specialist though. I know

a few of you have said you've had an MRI and an HSG. I've had the

HSG, what is the difference between the two? I might ask if he can

possibly request one.

It's hard trying to decide what to do. I want to try again, but at

the same time I don't. I just think what if the next pg works and

everything turns out great. Am I the only one that feels this way?

Thanks everyone for listening to me. It really helps to know that

there are others out there with the same condition.

Sheryl

mc x5 uu

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