Re: Digest Number 2296 loss mentioned

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Jana, I just want to say how sorry I am for you. I've gone through 2 mc's, 1 in

10/02 and another 5/05. With both I felt very frustrated w/my dh b/c I didn't

think he was expressing any emotion about it. His way of handling things is to

be very clinical and try to be as logical as possible, and it wasn't until I

started expressing my guilt that he finally showed emotion. I suspect that he

just doesn't know what to do to show his emotions, and right now you're probably

not feeling like coaxing anything out of him. Let yourself go through whatever

you're feeling, and hopefully he'll follow suit. I'm glad to hear that you're

finding solace in this group, so keep expressing here.

I'll be thinking of you,

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