Guest guest Posted September 28, 2005 Report Share Posted September 28, 2005 Hello, I am new to Yahoo groups so don't know all the lingo but wanted to share a positive UD story with you. When I first started researching UD online I did not find a lot of uplifting information but wanted to share some hope. I found out I had UD about 7 years ago. I was told that I may not ever be able to have children. But after 2 years of marriage, my husband and I started trying to conceive. I became pregnant after about 5 months of trying but miscarried at 12 weeks. After a while we started trying again and tried for about 3 years with no success at getting pregnant again. We desperately wanted children so began considering infertility or adoption options. In April 2003 we settled on adoption and in December 2003 we brought home our wonderful adopted daughter from Kazakhstan. We were thrilled to be parents! We were hopeful to someday have more children so just did not take any birth control measures at this point, knowing that if God wanted us to conceive again then it would happen. About 4 months after bringing our daughter home we found out I was pregnant. And a few weeks after that at my first ultrasound we found out it was twins! I was filled with a mix of emotions - excitement at being pregnant finally, overwhelmed at the thought of twins, and really scared at the thought of greater chance for miscarriage. I was considered a high risk pregnancy so had very frequent doctor visits throughout the pregnancy. Each appointment I was terrified that they wouldn't find one or both heartbeats but each time everything checked out fine. At 32 weeks I went to the hospital with pre-term contractions that were just about 3 minutes apart. They got the contractions stopped and I went home the next day on Nifedipine and bedrest for the rest of the pregnancy. I as scheduled for a c-section at 36 weeks but my water broke about 24 hours before that so we went to the hospital and ended up having the babies one day earlier than planned. My twin daughters were born this past December weighing 5lb 2oz and 5lb 6 oz. They are now nearly 10 months old and beautiful very healthy little girls. I think it is important to remember that God has a plan for each of our lives. In hindsight I see that it would have been very difficult to go through the adoption process if I had other children at home - we had to stay 4 weeks in Kazakhstan before we could finalize the adoption and I can't imagine life without my older daughter. If you have UD and are trying to have a child, please know that there is hope and trust that God always has perfect timing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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