Any 40 year olds trying to get pregnant for the first time?

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Hello,

i've been diagnosed with a bicornate uterus though i still don't know

exactly how it looks. i'm really looking forward to an MRI because i

want to SEE it. I had been told a long time ago that i had a septum

but no other doctors could find it. I just miscarried my first

pregnancy at 10 weeks (it was a missed miscarriage that probably

occurred at about 8 weeks) but it was shocking because i had seen the

heartbeat and convinced myself i was out of the woods. I had my d&c

yesterday 12 days after finding out about the heartbeat because i had

a bad cold and i needed general because of the bicornate etc. etc. so

that was hard, carrying the baby that long knowing he or she was gone

but that's another story.

My question is, i'm obviously too old for that surgery plus with a

bicornate it's a pretty major surgery I don't think i want anyway.

Are there any other women here who have had their first baby at or

after 40 with a bicornate? Also, what is it like being pregnant with

a bicornate. Do you really feel the baby on one side? We did

conceive once (took a while, i don't think we were having enough sex

at the right time but i figured that out ...hey we're older now!)

But is the combo of age AND bicornate a shared experience out there?

Would love to know. Thanks for having me! Gspeak777