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Dear Gretchen,

I wish someone would have noticed my

condition as a child. Nothing was ever done about my

condition as a child, the DR.s didn't know what it

was, so my family accepted that and went on with life.

How nice it would have been for someone to have

approached me and said " I know something you may not

know. " When we asked my dad why his hands were like

that and his legs, he'd make up a new story every

time. Now that we all know he won't talk about it at

all. I'm not into self pitty and my dad will drive you

crazy with it. Anyway, I wanted to comment on the

statement you made about whether people with CMT look

similiar-I think there are tell-tale signs for sure. I

have stork legs, and there just seems to be a certain

way I walk-its the same way my dad and son walk. I

can't really discribe it. My hands have not drawn up

yet, but my dads and my sons have. It's different then

arthritis( the look). The best thing thats ever

happened to me in relation with CMT is finding others

who share my experiences.

--- Gretchen Glick liliwigg@...> wrote:

> I was just thinking...I grew up learning NOT to ask

> people what was

> 'wrong' and was taught not to 'stare' also. Then,

> being diagnosed with

> CMT when I was 10, I discovered others didn't learn

> this and were so

> blunt in asking me what was 'wrong'. For years I

> really believed

> something WAS 'wrong' - with me, because I had CMT.

> As I grew up,

> matured and accepted that I had CMT and got on with

> my life I gradually

> realized nothing, absolutely nothing is 'wrong' with

> me! What freedom

> that realization has given me. I don't mind when

> people ask me what I

> have, since I know I am not a freak, and they are

> curious, or perhaps

> they know someone who 'looks' similiar. (but tell

> me, just what does

> someone with CMT really 'look' like? I wonder if we

> got all 200+ of us

> together for a group photo if we would 'look

> alike'). And as for the

> whole idea of people with disabilities having

> something 'wrong' with

> them, well, somewhere, somehow there's an attitude

> needing adjustment.

> Personally I know 200+ of the neatest, most heroic

> and courageous people

> the world has to give! (yeah, US!) :) Stepping off

> my soapbox

> now....lol

>

> Gretchen

>

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Dear Gretchen,

I wish someone would have noticed my

condition as a child. Nothing was ever done about my

condition as a child, the DR.s didn't know what it

was, so my family accepted that and went on with life.

How nice it would have been for someone to have

approached me and said " I know something you may not

know. " When we asked my dad why his hands were like

that and his legs, he'd make up a new story every

time. Now that we all know he won't talk about it at

all. I'm not into self pitty and my dad will drive you

crazy with it. Anyway, I wanted to comment on the

statement you made about whether people with CMT look

similiar-I think there are tell-tale signs for sure. I

have stork legs, and there just seems to be a certain

way I walk-its the same way my dad and son walk. I

can't really discribe it. My hands have not drawn up

yet, but my dads and my sons have. It's different then

arthritis( the look). The best thing thats ever

happened to me in relation with CMT is finding others

who share my experiences.

--- Gretchen Glick liliwigg@...> wrote:

> I was just thinking...I grew up learning NOT to ask

> people what was

> 'wrong' and was taught not to 'stare' also. Then,

> being diagnosed with

> CMT when I was 10, I discovered others didn't learn

> this and were so

> blunt in asking me what was 'wrong'. For years I

> really believed

> something WAS 'wrong' - with me, because I had CMT.

> As I grew up,

> matured and accepted that I had CMT and got on with

> my life I gradually

> realized nothing, absolutely nothing is 'wrong' with

> me! What freedom

> that realization has given me. I don't mind when

> people ask me what I

> have, since I know I am not a freak, and they are

> curious, or perhaps

> they know someone who 'looks' similiar. (but tell

> me, just what does

> someone with CMT really 'look' like? I wonder if we

> got all 200+ of us

> together for a group photo if we would 'look

> alike'). And as for the

> whole idea of people with disabilities having

> something 'wrong' with

> them, well, somewhere, somehow there's an attitude

> needing adjustment.

> Personally I know 200+ of the neatest, most heroic

> and courageous people

> the world has to give! (yeah, US!) :) Stepping off

> my soapbox

> now....lol

>

> Gretchen

>

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Dear Gretchen,

I wish someone would have noticed my

condition as a child. Nothing was ever done about my

condition as a child, the DR.s didn't know what it

was, so my family accepted that and went on with life.

How nice it would have been for someone to have

approached me and said " I know something you may not

know. " When we asked my dad why his hands were like

that and his legs, he'd make up a new story every

time. Now that we all know he won't talk about it at

all. I'm not into self pitty and my dad will drive you

crazy with it. Anyway, I wanted to comment on the

statement you made about whether people with CMT look

similiar-I think there are tell-tale signs for sure. I

have stork legs, and there just seems to be a certain

way I walk-its the same way my dad and son walk. I

can't really discribe it. My hands have not drawn up

yet, but my dads and my sons have. It's different then

arthritis( the look). The best thing thats ever

happened to me in relation with CMT is finding others

who share my experiences.

--- Gretchen Glick liliwigg@...> wrote:

> I was just thinking...I grew up learning NOT to ask

> people what was

> 'wrong' and was taught not to 'stare' also. Then,

> being diagnosed with

> CMT when I was 10, I discovered others didn't learn

> this and were so

> blunt in asking me what was 'wrong'. For years I

> really believed

> something WAS 'wrong' - with me, because I had CMT.

> As I grew up,

> matured and accepted that I had CMT and got on with

> my life I gradually

> realized nothing, absolutely nothing is 'wrong' with

> me! What freedom

> that realization has given me. I don't mind when

> people ask me what I

> have, since I know I am not a freak, and they are

> curious, or perhaps

> they know someone who 'looks' similiar. (but tell

> me, just what does

> someone with CMT really 'look' like? I wonder if we

> got all 200+ of us

> together for a group photo if we would 'look

> alike'). And as for the

> whole idea of people with disabilities having

> something 'wrong' with

> them, well, somewhere, somehow there's an attitude

> needing adjustment.

> Personally I know 200+ of the neatest, most heroic

> and courageous people

> the world has to give! (yeah, US!) :) Stepping off

> my soapbox

> now....lol

>

> Gretchen

>

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Hi Kathy,

I know what you went through as a child...I had the same experience. But I

was the only person in my family with CMT...no one in my family ever

understood what my problem was, and I went to the same doctor for many

years...not even being diagnosed. As a child it would have been so much

easier if I could explain why I " walked and wrote funny " . It was such a

relief when I was finally diagnosed at the age of eighteen, and it wasn't

until I was 27 years old that I was diagnosed with the Roussy-Levy type. I

actually thought the tremors that I had were caused by panic

attacks...everyone in my family always said that I was a very nervous person

and that I was crazy. Was I happy to know the truth, finally!

Kathleen from Brooklyn

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