Jodi

[Guest guest]

Dear Jodi

Thank you for having this Support group and I can surely understand you

needing to let go of the stress of it all. There does seem to be alot of

extra crap going on between a few folks. Some enjoy stirring it up.Maybe

they don't have enough to do in their lives. Some people enjoy a

constant conflict with others and will use groups like this to give them

the rush they seek for every day confrontation with another. And it may

be easier to do this on the computor because you can turn it off and

walk away when you have another angry.

I will try to not add to your stress and and be respectful of the work

you put in to this group.

I could add to your stress about how I have received some nasty comments

from another in the group right from the start before giving me a change

to even get real aquainted with the group.This person is with us and is

a very strong enfluence in the group. Even though this person has much

usefull knowledge that is very helpfull as the others who were

unsubcribed also did.

But I think we are working through the conflict he had started from

one of my very first post. He came on very strong like he was part of

the administration. At least I hope the two of us worked through his

misunderstanding. But I feel that maybe I should of unsubcribed right

from the start but I needed some support and encouragement and was

seeking it out. And this may be was what this person wanted me to do

was be forced to unsubscribe for some reason. And I have left him

personally know my feelings.And I will not have any more private

confrontations with him again. Or welcome his private post to my private

E-mail address.They will not be read.

But I wonder how many others have had difficult experance with him?

I think their maybe others over stepping their bounds and may be

gloating about the ones who recently have become unsubscribed. I think

we all need to remember to be tollerant of others.

Jeanie Stout