Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Okay Guys, DUHH I know why she was told no now. I have a very short term memory and it just clicked that she could not talk and had quit smoking three days before. I hope you feel better soon Janet. Let me know how you are. LOL {{{{HUGS}}}} Lara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Oh, Janet. I'm so sorry. I know it's for the best, but I also know how much you were counting on this!!! I too had originally planned today as my surgery date, but moved it back because the clinic had been cancelled and other scheduling issues. Thank God I did! My mother would have been with me in NC, and would have had her heart attack there, rather than here with her familiar doctors, family and many friends. God knows best, and although we would not agree with His timing always, He is always there, taking care of us. Maybe we can be littermates on May 22? I hope you will feel MUCH better by then. Do all the whining you need - we're here for you! Blessings, ~Amy. _____________________________________________ Amy S. Poe MGB 5/22/2000 280/140 United Healthcare Select Plus POS approved Re: Help! I need prayers. I have been turned away. I was there and ready to go. I filled out all my papers and Dr. R said " NO " . Now I have to get back to my PCP for more antibiotics and get another date. I know it was for the best even though i told Dr.R he was being mean to me. I just had my hopes up and time off work scheduled. Now I have to start over again. I really don't feel good so I know it was for the best but I'm still upset. I guess I will go cry some more and take a nap. When my pity party is over I will be back. Thanks for listening to me whine. Still waiting Janet Armour Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Oh, Janet. I'm so sorry. I know it's for the best, but I also know how much you were counting on this!!! I too had originally planned today as my surgery date, but moved it back because the clinic had been cancelled and other scheduling issues. Thank God I did! My mother would have been with me in NC, and would have had her heart attack there, rather than here with her familiar doctors, family and many friends. God knows best, and although we would not agree with His timing always, He is always there, taking care of us. Maybe we can be littermates on May 22? I hope you will feel MUCH better by then. Do all the whining you need - we're here for you! Blessings, ~Amy. _____________________________________________ Amy S. Poe MGB 5/22/2000 280/140 United Healthcare Select Plus POS approved Re: Help! I need prayers. I have been turned away. I was there and ready to go. I filled out all my papers and Dr. R said " NO " . Now I have to get back to my PCP for more antibiotics and get another date. I know it was for the best even though i told Dr.R he was being mean to me. I just had my hopes up and time off work scheduled. Now I have to start over again. I really don't feel good so I know it was for the best but I'm still upset. I guess I will go cry some more and take a nap. When my pity party is over I will be back. Thanks for listening to me whine. Still waiting Janet Armour Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Oh, Janet. I'm so sorry. I know it's for the best, but I also know how much you were counting on this!!! I too had originally planned today as my surgery date, but moved it back because the clinic had been cancelled and other scheduling issues. Thank God I did! My mother would have been with me in NC, and would have had her heart attack there, rather than here with her familiar doctors, family and many friends. God knows best, and although we would not agree with His timing always, He is always there, taking care of us. Maybe we can be littermates on May 22? I hope you will feel MUCH better by then. Do all the whining you need - we're here for you! Blessings, ~Amy. _____________________________________________ Amy S. Poe MGB 5/22/2000 280/140 United Healthcare Select Plus POS approved Re: Help! I need prayers. I have been turned away. I was there and ready to go. I filled out all my papers and Dr. R said " NO " . Now I have to get back to my PCP for more antibiotics and get another date. I know it was for the best even though i told Dr.R he was being mean to me. I just had my hopes up and time off work scheduled. Now I have to start over again. I really don't feel good so I know it was for the best but I'm still upset. I guess I will go cry some more and take a nap. When my pity party is over I will be back. Thanks for listening to me whine. Still waiting Janet Armour Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Dr. R is being careful because I had a cold that turned into Laringitus (I'm sure I didn't spell it right). I just spent the last two hours with my PCP and she did a chest X Ray and made me breath this medicine for ten minutes. My oxygen level was low. No problems showed with the x ray. Dr. R did the right thing, and I knew when I went in this morning that I might get turned away. I wouldn't operate on me. Of course I'm not a doctor either. LOL I talked to Debbie and she says that I have to wait two weeks after taking antibiotics. So I have a new date of May 29th. The hardest part of all this is my job. I spent the last two weeks working overtime to be able to take the time off. Now I have to do it all over again. I'm a scheduler by trade and I can't get my own schedule together. I still haven't stopped crying. My poor husband doesn't know how to help me get over this set back. He will get his MGB next week. I wanted to be first. Anybody have any cheese to go with my whine? Thanks everyone for your support. It means sooooooo much to me. I love you all! Janet Armour Waiting some more! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 AH Janet my girl. Cry a little today for you'll have much to celebrate at another date. You want to be healthy so you can start your new life out healthy. The good Dr. is never mean. Just very caring and compassionate. Get out there, get those meds and call up and get your new date. We're rooting for you. Janie > Re: Help! I need prayers. > > I have been turned away. I was there and ready to go. I filled out all my > papers and Dr. R said " NO " . Now I have to get back to my PCP for more > antibiotics and get another date. I know it was for the best even though i > > told Dr.R he was being mean to me. I just had my hopes up and time off > work > scheduled. Now I have to start over again. I really don't feel good so I > know > it was for the best but I'm still upset. I guess I will go cry some more > and > take a nap. When my pity party is over I will be back. > Thanks for listening to me whine. > > Still waiting > Janet Armour > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Bids starting at $7 for thousands of products - uBid.com > http://click.egroups.com/1/3027/2/_/453517/_/957976976/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com > Please visit our web site at http://clos.net > Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Janet, Be grateful that you will still be able to have the surgery. It would be a travesty to not be able to have the MGB. I know it is hard for you. We have all been there and have felt helpless and angry. Trust in the Lord and he will guide you. Your husband loves you I am sure unconditionally. He is hurting for you just as much as you yourself are hurting. He truly want to help and wants you to be happy. He will understand why you are upset and in a true loving relationship you will never have to apologize for how you feel. Keep your chin up Gal. We will all be here for you {{{{{HUGS}}}}} Lara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Janet, Dang it get better will ya! I want to go to your pity party, I really need someone to be nice to me today...well more people .lol I went to pick up my med records to send in and the Doc was gone his new office Manager would not give them to me for 5 days. You know IM am normally not like this, however I lost it, My entire family parents, siblings, cousins, aunts,,everyone in my family has gone to Doc Brown forever. so i thru a fit i was so mad i had to sit down, when i got up to leave the Manager had my file in his hands and said just call your surgeon and have him fax a request over, then he handed me my copies. then I went to my endocrinologist office, I was talking the front girl and he said is that Trish he flew open the door and body slammed me..I was like wow did you win the lottery he said no I am so happy you are having the surgery (he is the one that ask me consider it). HUH? The only bummer he said is you wont be my patient anymore.(he feels i will get rid on my dibetes) Then Tina his nurse yelled yea she will, she has Hypothyriodism, he hugged me and said oh darn can't get rid of me.. He is so cute. He is my Aunts DR. too and he has an on going message game he plays with us. I am truly blessed with all my Doctors they are all so sweet. Now I just need DR,R. To keep the cycle going. Sorry rambling.. DOC ITS GOOD TO SEE YOU ON THE MAIN LIST AGAIN! p. s IM sending out my package today please look for it..hehe Trisha Lanman praying Dr. R. will help me to the other side soon!!! Las Vegas NV bmi 40 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 In a message dated 5/10/2000 2:49:46 PM Eastern Daylight Time, LaraAkin033100@... writes: << If I may be so nosey, Why Did he tell you no? I am praying for you and hope that since God closed one door he opened another one for you. Lara {{{{HUGS}}}} >> Our sweet Janet has a cold, And that is not the ideal ilness to have for surgery. We love you J now your honey will probably have it first..guys how do they do it Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Janet, Why were you denied from Dr. R I am now getting my packet ready and I don't want to half to reschedule so If there is something that you did or did'nt do if you would let me know that would help. Thanks, Genny armr69@... wrote: > I have been turned away. I was there and ready to go. I filled out all my > papers and Dr. R said " NO " . Now I have to get back to my PCP for more > antibiotics and get another date. I know it was for the best even though i > told Dr.R he was being mean to me. I just had my hopes up and time off work > scheduled. Now I have to start over again. I really don't feel good so I know > it was for the best but I'm still upset. I guess I will go cry some more and > take a nap. When my pity party is over I will be back. > Thanks for listening to me whine. > > Still waiting > Janet Armour > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Bids starting at $7 for thousands of products - uBid.com > http://click.egroups.com/1/3027/2/_/453517/_/957976976/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com > Please visit our web site at http://clos.net > Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2000 Report Share Posted May 10, 2000 Trish, Rick would probably be teasing me about going first except now is not a good time. He would gladly give up his date for me. He offered that yesterday. He is such a good man. However the choice belongs in other hands so I will just get on with life as it is and wait for my turn again. Thanks for the prayers. {{{BIG HUGS}}} Janet Still waiting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2000 Report Share Posted May 11, 2000 Oh Janet, I am so sorry. I know it's disappointing even when you know that it's for the best. I pray that you get another date soon. fg At 12:41 PM 05/10/2000 EDT, you wrote: >I have been turned away. I was there and ready to go. I filled out all my >papers and Dr. R said " NO " . Now I have to get back to my PCP for more >antibiotics and get another date. I know it was for the best even though i >told Dr.R he was being mean to me. I just had my hopes up and time off work >scheduled. Now I have to start over again. I really don't feel good so I know >it was for the best but I'm still upset. I guess I will go cry some more and >take a nap. When my pity party is over I will be back. >Thanks for listening to me whine. > >Still waiting >Janet Armour > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Bids starting at $7 for thousands of products - uBid.com >http://click.egroups.com/1/3027/2/_/453517/_/957976976/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > >This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com >Please visit our web site at http://clos.net >Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2000 Report Share Posted May 11, 2000 Oh Janet, I am so sorry. I know it's disappointing even when you know that it's for the best. I pray that you get another date soon. fg At 12:41 PM 05/10/2000 EDT, you wrote: >I have been turned away. I was there and ready to go. I filled out all my >papers and Dr. R said " NO " . Now I have to get back to my PCP for more >antibiotics and get another date. I know it was for the best even though i >told Dr.R he was being mean to me. I just had my hopes up and time off work >scheduled. Now I have to start over again. I really don't feel good so I know >it was for the best but I'm still upset. I guess I will go cry some more and >take a nap. When my pity party is over I will be back. >Thanks for listening to me whine. > >Still waiting >Janet Armour > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Bids starting at $7 for thousands of products - uBid.com >http://click.egroups.com/1/3027/2/_/453517/_/957976976/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > >This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com >Please visit our web site at http://clos.net >Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2000 Report Share Posted May 11, 2000 In a message dated 5/10/00 5:04:29 PM Eastern Daylight Time, armr69@... writes: << He will get his MGB next week. I wanted to be first. Anybody have any cheese to go with my whine? Thanks everyone for your support. It means sooooooo much to me. I love you all! >> Janet, I am so sorry about your setback, and your cold! You go ahead and whine all you want, you've had a major let down and you're entitled. I know you know Dr. R, is just being cautious, but I also know how much it must hurt. A couple of bright spots...maybe a stretch, but something to maybe bring a smile to your beautiful face... May 29th is a really terrific day! It's my anniversary, the day I began a new life with my husband and stepchildren. So for you it will also be a good day for a new beginning. When we all had dinner the Sat. before my surgery, Steve (Parsons) commented that the wives go first because they are the guinea pigs (or something to that effect). Based on that, your hubby will make history by going first! Okay, okay, I know...don't quit my day job to become a comedienne! But, it's always worth a try to bring a smile to a friend's face! {{HUGS}} Claire Redhead in FL MGB 4/10/00 Dr. Rutledge (http:/clos.net) " He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it until the day of Christ Jesus. " - Phil. 1:6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2000 Report Share Posted May 11, 2000 Janet, I love you, How long will you have to wait? I hope not long? Maybe when you feel better? Please get better soon! IM sad for you. trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2000 Report Share Posted May 11, 2000 Janet, I love you, How long will you have to wait? I hope not long? Maybe when you feel better? Please get better soon! IM sad for you. trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2000 Report Share Posted May 11, 2000 Janet, I love you, How long will you have to wait? I hope not long? Maybe when you feel better? Please get better soon! IM sad for you. trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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