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[Guest guest]

Welcome to the group!

My name is and I am a SAHM to 6 boys and a soon to be Grandma in March.

I have hypothyroidism.mitral valve prolapse,menieres disease,and a few other misc. illnesses.Some still undiagnosed.

I am glad that you joined us! I look forward to getting to know you.

-- 's Introduction

My name's and I live in the Portland Metro Area of Oregon with

my husband, one year old son and two pets -- a dog and cat, both of

which lack serious brain power.

I'm on disability for a variety of medical issues including an inner

ear / vestibular / balance disorder and panic / anxiety disorder

without agoraphobia. My issues make it difficult for me to not only

work but have any type of socialization or life outside our living

quarters. Due to this, I spend a great deal of time on the computer -

- about 90 percent of my weekly socialization comes from computer

related activities -- and being a Mother. I try and occupy myself

with as many things as possible to keep me from going stir-crazy.

Currently, I'm looking at trying to put together an activity club /

group for the children and younger adults in the community. I am

also involved in web design and have a site dedicated to those with

chronic illness and disease as well as those who care for them.

Besides all of the above, I read, primarily fantasy, science

fiction, computer related material and arts and crafts things; I

write, not only for my website but romance related material and

fantasy inspired "stuff"; I love playing board games; am interested

in a variety of shows, movies and music, and making my son laugh.

I love to talk, as you can probably imagine, and love to help

whenever and where ever I can.

I am looking for any information regarding LEGAL and DOABLE work at

home "things" -- I hate being on disability but I can't hold down a

job in the outside world -- as well as people to connect with.

PDX, OR

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[Guest guest]

I am sorry I can't help you, but welcome and good luck! Christin

's Introduction

>

>

>

> My name's and I live in the Portland Metro Area of Oregon with

> my husband, one year old son and two pets -- a dog and cat, both of

> which lack serious brain power.

>

> I'm on disability for a variety of medical issues including an inner

> ear / vestibular / balance disorder and panic / anxiety disorder

> without agoraphobia. My issues make it difficult for me to not only

> work but have any type of socialization or life outside our living

> quarters. Due to this, I spend a great deal of time on the computer -

> - about 90 percent of my weekly socialization comes from computer

> related activities -- and being a Mother. I try and occupy myself

> with as many things as possible to keep me from going stir-crazy.

>

> Currently, I'm looking at trying to put together an activity club /

> group for the children and younger adults in the community. I am

> also involved in web design and have a site dedicated to those with

> chronic illness and disease as well as those who care for them.

>

> Besides all of the above, I read, primarily fantasy, science

> fiction, computer related material and arts and crafts things; I

> write, not only for my website but romance related material and

> fantasy inspired " stuff " ; I love playing board games; am interested

> in a variety of shows, movies and music, and making my son laugh.

>

> I love to talk, as you can probably imagine, and love to help

> whenever and where ever I can.

>

> I am looking for any information regarding LEGAL and DOABLE work at

> home " things " -- I hate being on disability but I can't hold down a

> job in the outside world -- as well as people to connect with.

>

>

> PDX, OR

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

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> The Being Sick Community

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>

> Message Archives-/messages

>

> Chat:- Scheduled Chats at

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>

> Bookmarks:-

> Add a website URL you have found useful.

> /links

>

> Personal Complaints or problems:-

> Please contact a moderator

> email: -owner

>

> Subscription Details:-

> 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you receive.

> 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to

> browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email.

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> This group is not intended to diagnose or treat illnesses. No one on this

> group is qualified to diagnose medical conditions. If you feel you need

> medical attention, seek the advice of a qualified physician.

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> When nothing is sure, everything is possible.

>

> --- Margaret Drabble

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[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Welcome to the list. I haven't heard from you for some time. We worked for OMS

at

the same time. I hope to see more from you on the list.

Owen Donnelly

[Guest guest]

I recently joined your support group as I want to solidify my decision not to

reconstruct with implants. I have learned a lot by reading many of your

archived messages. I would encourage some of you who have gone through breast

cancer and explanted to please join

breastcancer2/ which is a breast cancer

support group. I think your experiences could help women make more informed

decisions.

Here's my story...

I support each woman's right to search for her own answers and make her own

choice.

In August, 2007, I was homeschooling my two sons (7 and 14). My husband's job

had him working an unpredictable schedule. My extended family was living 2-3

days drive away.

When I found the lump on the left underarm area and also small lumps going from

there to the nipple, I had a strong feeling that side was heading for a

mastectomy. After I had the largest lump biopsied, the surgeon said he

recommended that I have a modified radical on that side as he highly suspected

the nodes would be effected too.

I have a history of severe sciatica pain due to back issues. It is actually

not an issue for me right now, but from 1999-2003 I was in screaming pain 24/7.

With DD breasts, I wanted to avoid being unbalanced and the possibility of

back/leg pain from that imbalance...

I researched the archives of BreastCancer2 as well as many sites online and

realized I also had cancer phobia and didn't want to worry about future

mammograms, lump biopsies, etc. I asked group members to chime in an tell me

what they would do if they had it to do over again. I loved that a lot of 20

year survivors said they were happy with their bilateral choice. Many said

their mothers had long happy lives after their bilateral surgeries though they

were not always happy with the prostheses available at the time.

I felt certain I wanted one surgery only and would rather have both removed and

minimize my time recovering.

I wanted to minimize the trauma to my family life.

I felt I was heading for chemo and didn't want to deal with recovering from any

reconstruction at the same time.

I wanted to be able to feel for lumps in the future.

The good news is; the 2 years since my surgery have been free of back/sciatica

pain. And, there was a lump found in the breast we all thought was clear. I'm

glad it's gone. Everything healed well and I am pain free.

The not-so-good news is that the mastectomy surgeon felt I might possibly want

reconstruction somewhere in the future and surprised me by leaving my chest with

lots of loose skin (no nipples) but " pockets " that had held all the DD breast

tissue. (I regret not bringing in photos or insisting on seeing photos of what I

wanted...a flat chest.) My chest is not a pretty sight, nor even a neutral sight

when bare. It's pretty darn revolting. Maybe years from now I'll have the

excess skin removed.

13 lymph nodes were removed. Two showed cancer. I ended up with quite a few

months of lymph edema (huge uncomfortable swelling of the left arm and hand)

before I found a way to control it.

I was very concerned that any additional surgery or reconstruction would make

the lymph edema flare again. I don't want any added pressure in there.

I went flat at home and often in public for many months. Other months tried

various $$$ prostheses, but they are quite heavy or hot by the end of the day.

I now am happy using lightweight forms I found at Joanne's Fabric...who would

have thought. They are cheap and very light weight. I have sewn them into my

favorite high-necked swimming suits and a few bras. They stay in place

comfortably.

It's been a big adjustment to my wardrobe as all the sexy scoop- necked and

V-necked things I acquired over YEARS have been replaced by jewel necked items.

God bless second hand stores :-)

Some husbands are supportive. Some struggle with the change. I won't share

which it is in our house.

Mostly, I am very happy with my decision as I know in my heart it was right for

me.

Hugs,

M.

[Guest guest]

Hi !

Thanks for sharing your important message! Welcome to our group. I am so very

sorry to read of your struggles with breast cancer. It is devasting..I can only

imagine. It sounds like you have been the victor though...a very incredible

fight you can be proud of winning.

I'm glad to hear that our group has helped you remain firm in your decision not

to get implants. You are a smart woman...let me just congratulate you on your

very intelligent decision.

It sounds like you found the right answer for you! Those lightweight pads sound

perfect. I love cheap solutions!

I hope that some of our group members who have struggled with implants and

cancer will join the group that you suggested. It is a tragedy to go

through breast cancer; it is a needless tragedy to go through the suffering of

illness from breast implants after cancer.

Thanks again for sharing your story with us. I am hoping that you are in a

supportive, loving relationship still after going through your battles. We need

our men to be the knights and heros they were meant to be...life is just hard.

God bless,

Patty

>

> I recently joined your support group as I want to solidify my decision not to

reconstruct with implants. I have learned a lot by reading many of your

archived messages. I would encourage some of you who have gone through breast

cancer and explanted to please join

> breastcancer2/ which is a breast cancer

support group. I think your experiences could help women make more informed

decisions.

>

> Here's my story...

>

> I support each woman's right to search for her own answers and make her own

choice.

>

> In August, 2007, I was homeschooling my two sons (7 and 14). My husband's job

had him working an unpredictable schedule. My extended family was living 2-3

days drive away.

> When I found the lump on the left underarm area and also small lumps going

from there to the nipple, I had a strong feeling that side was heading for a

mastectomy. After I had the largest lump biopsied, the surgeon said he

recommended that I have a modified radical on that side as he highly suspected

the nodes would be effected too.

> I have a history of severe sciatica pain due to back issues. It is actually

not an issue for me right now, but from 1999-2003 I was in screaming pain 24/7.

With DD breasts, I wanted to avoid being unbalanced and the possibility of

back/leg pain from that imbalance...

>

> I researched the archives of BreastCancer2 as well as many sites online and

realized I also had cancer phobia and didn't want to worry about future

mammograms, lump biopsies, etc. I asked group members to chime in an tell me

what they would do if they had it to do over again. I loved that a lot of 20

year survivors said they were happy with their bilateral choice. Many said

their mothers had long happy lives after their bilateral surgeries though they

were not always happy with the prostheses available at the time.

> I felt certain I wanted one surgery only and would rather have both removed

and minimize my time recovering.

> I wanted to minimize the trauma to my family life.

> I felt I was heading for chemo and didn't want to deal with recovering from

any reconstruction at the same time.

> I wanted to be able to feel for lumps in the future.

>

> The good news is; the 2 years since my surgery have been free of

back/sciatica pain. And, there was a lump found in the breast we all thought was

clear. I'm glad it's gone. Everything healed well and I am pain free.

>

> The not-so-good news is that the mastectomy surgeon felt I might possibly

want reconstruction somewhere in the future and surprised me by leaving my chest

with lots of loose skin (no nipples) but " pockets " that had held all the DD

breast tissue. (I regret not bringing in photos or insisting on seeing photos of

what I wanted...a flat chest.) My chest is not a pretty sight, nor even a

neutral sight when bare. It's pretty darn revolting. Maybe years from now I'll

have the excess skin removed.

> 13 lymph nodes were removed. Two showed cancer. I ended up with quite a few

months of lymph edema (huge uncomfortable swelling of the left arm and hand)

before I found a way to control it.

> I was very concerned that any additional surgery or reconstruction would make

the lymph edema flare again. I don't want any added pressure in there.

>

> I went flat at home and often in public for many months. Other months tried

various $$$ prostheses, but they are quite heavy or hot by the end of the day.

> I now am happy using lightweight forms I found at Joanne's Fabric...who would

have thought. They are cheap and very light weight. I have sewn them into my

favorite high-necked swimming suits and a few bras. They stay in place

comfortably.

>

> It's been a big adjustment to my wardrobe as all the sexy scoop- necked and

V-necked things I acquired over YEARS have been replaced by jewel necked items.

God bless second hand stores :-)

>

> Some husbands are supportive. Some struggle with the change. I won't share

which it is in our house.

>

> Mostly, I am very happy with my decision as I know in my heart it was right

for me.

>

> Hugs,

> M.

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you for the welcome, Patty.

I do hope some of the list members from the Saline Support group pop in to share

their stories at the BC2 group.

The topic of implants comes up almost daily. They are all so hopeful and seem

to listen only to their plastic surgeons.

M.

>

> >

> > I recently joined your support group as I want to solidify my decision not

to reconstruct with implants. I have learned a lot by reading many of your

archived messages. I would encourage some of you who have gone through breast

cancer and explanted to please join

> > breastcancer2/ which is a breast

cancer support group. I think your experiences could help women make more

informed decisions.

[Guest guest]

I love the name "rosary acres"!

Darlene

To: RawDairy Sent: Fri, November 5, 2010 10:23:07 PMSubject: 's Introduction

Hi All,My family and I have been drinking raw goats milk for a while from our dairy goats. We have just started drinking raw cows milk from a local dairy and are hooked!We have a small farm in PA and have dairy goats, horses and chickens. We are looking for a family cow...preferably a Jersey.We are also very interested in the Westin Price Foundation.Thanks for listening!

[Guest guest]



Depending on where you are in PA , we have threeJersey Holstein crosses, that are short and used to families. Two would be suitable for a family milker, easy to milk by hand or machine and stand very nicely. One has a calf on her and if you bought both calf and cow you could "take vacations" if you needed and separate the calf if you wanted milk.

If interested email

goatmilk@...

Rhonda in town, NY

's Introduction

Hi All,My family and I have been drinking raw goats milk for a while from our dairy goats. We have just started drinking raw cows milk from a local dairy and are hooked!We have a small farm in PA and have dairy goats, horses and chickens. We are looking for a family cow...preferably a Jersey.We are also very interested in the Westin Price Foundation.Thanks for listening!

[Guest guest]



Depending on where you are in PA , we have threeJersey Holstein crosses, that are short and used to families. Two would be suitable for a family milker, easy to milk by hand or machine and stand very nicely. One has a calf on her and if you bought both calf and cow you could "take vacations" if you needed and separate the calf if you wanted milk.

If interested email

goatmilk@...

Rhonda in town, NY

's Introduction

Hi All,My family and I have been drinking raw goats milk for a while from our dairy goats. We have just started drinking raw cows milk from a local dairy and are hooked!We have a small farm in PA and have dairy goats, horses and chickens. We are looking for a family cow...preferably a Jersey.We are also very interested in the Westin Price Foundation.Thanks for listening!

[Guest guest]



Depending on where you are in PA , we have threeJersey Holstein crosses, that are short and used to families. Two would be suitable for a family milker, easy to milk by hand or machine and stand very nicely. One has a calf on her and if you bought both calf and cow you could "take vacations" if you needed and separate the calf if you wanted milk.

If interested email

goatmilk@...

Rhonda in town, NY

's Introduction

Hi All,My family and I have been drinking raw goats milk for a while from our dairy goats. We have just started drinking raw cows milk from a local dairy and are hooked!We have a small farm in PA and have dairy goats, horses and chickens. We are looking for a family cow...preferably a Jersey.We are also very interested in the Westin Price Foundation.Thanks for listening!