any help with a stubborn husband?

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hey girls- just having a bit of a battle at home and wondered if any of you have

had a similar experience....my husband is a traditional medicine die hard. He

does not " believe " in alternative medicine is what he told me, and it has caused

Many Many nasty arguments. in fact we have never argued until now, about this

subject. He says because i'm still sick, i need to go back to the medical

doctors because it might be something simple we're missing. well i appeased

him and he made me an appt last night, so we went, and after giving a Brief

description of what i'd gone thru the doc said, well i'd like you to write down

your entire story and fax it to me so i can bring it up at this month's

'complicated cases' and we can discuss where we'll go from there, but we'll get

to the bottom of this and fix you! " after i asked him if he'd heard of breast

implant illness or mold toxicitity, he replied, no, and then said to me, did you

just hear what i said a moment ago? i met you 10 minutes ago and don't know

your history and obviously the path you've been on isn't working for you, so

like i said, i'll discuss it with a group of doctors and we'll go from there.

then he asked what 3 symptoms i'd get rid of if i could.. and i replied, i just

want to find the root of the problem (again, feeling like i'm trying to appease

my husband but also feeling very attacked) but he asks again so i said, uhhh

heart palpitatioins, muscle weakness and anxiety, so he says, ok well i'll set

up a heart test for you to take, wouldn't you be happy if all you needed was an

electric shock to your heart and be healed? my mouth was on the floor. he

asked again, would you be happy if it was as simple as that?? as he clasped his

hands and smiled. i replied, " yep " and walked out the door....and guess

what, my husband and i are still fighting. the doctor even sait to me after

looking at my chart, 'wow, you have had the million dollare work up haven't

you? " i have enough of a battle right now and I begged him to let go of me

going thru a million more kaiser tests, and when i cry to him telling him i just

need his support on my journey, he gets angry and says " this is a marriage, i

get a say in your health too! " and it never ends...is there any advice? i

physically and mentally can't deal with this right now and he obviously doesn't

care...but on the other hand, he cares too much right? cause he's a man that

wants to FIX things....