Guest guest Posted March 6, 2002 Report Share Posted March 6, 2002 Belinda: I'm sure no one here looks at you as a whiner. Weather you have MSA or one of the other PD + illness, you have a right to know what they think it is and try to treat it to where you feel the best that you can. I know my husband wanted to know what was wrong with him and it took us over a year before a doctor did dx him. That's the one thing that is sad knowning that you don't feel well, but not getting answers. None of us know for sure if it's MSA or one of the other PD+ illness, but it's nice to know it could be and go from there to see what works or doesn't work. I know I'm scared and it's my husband that is sick. I wonder if I can keep him at home (which I'd like to) but I really don't think that I will get any help from family and friends. I haven't so far. So it looks like it will be just me to deal with Fred''s illness. I fine that I get disappointed when I think of all that I have done for my friends and family. Gone out of my way to help and then fine that their not there when I can use it. If it wasn't for this family here, I would be very lost. I can understand how you must feel. So don't worry about whining, to us it's just being worried and scared. From: "belnorest" <Belindastime@a...> Date: Mon Mar 4, 2002 5:24 am Subject: Hi everyone I do not know if most of you know that I have not been diagnosed yet. I am hoping to get an appointment at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital. I spoke with my brother last night and there seems to be some confusion there who would be more knowledgable to help me. It has been very challenging to me and my family to say the least. I have been asked why does it matter if you haven't been diagnosed yet if they can only treat the symptoms. This may be so, but I still want to know what is wrong with me. One doctor told me he thinks I have Spinocellerebra ataxia. I go to another doctor who said he thinks I have Parkinson's Plus and maybe some ataxia. I have read alot about MSA and feel that I have alot of the symptoms of MSA. I feel like I have to be the one who finds out about it as much as I can because I know no one else who will do it for me.(family and close friends). My husband is wonderful when it comes to working, cooking, laundry, child care, taxi driver but when it comes to constant caregiving I dont know how he will be. I know that there are times that nursing homes are necessary and I dont have any hard feelings for someone who uses them but I am terrified of being put in one. I hear nothing but horror stories of the nursing homes around us. I have read everyones post and seen the trials that everyone has gone through. I am afraid without a diagnose that when I need equipment for something I won't be able to get it. I hope that pouring my heart out to you all that you won't see me as being a whiner because I am not. I am trying to be very realistic in which my family for generations has always had trouble facing what they do not want to face as well as my husband and his family. If anyone knows of a doctor who can help me in or around Georgia please let me know. I am on a HMO and have to go to providers that are listed in my book which also narrows the field for me. If you can help me please let me know and if not all prayers are always appreciated. Love and God Bless, Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2002 Report Share Posted March 6, 2002 Belinda: I'm sure no one here looks at you as a whiner. Weather you have MSA or one of the other PD + illness, you have a right to know what they think it is and try to treat it to where you feel the best that you can. I know my husband wanted to know what was wrong with him and it took us over a year before a doctor did dx him. That's the one thing that is sad knowning that you don't feel well, but not getting answers. None of us know for sure if it's MSA or one of the other PD+ illness, but it's nice to know it could be and go from there to see what works or doesn't work. I know I'm scared and it's my husband that is sick. I wonder if I can keep him at home (which I'd like to) but I really don't think that I will get any help from family and friends. I haven't so far. So it looks like it will be just me to deal with Fred''s illness. I fine that I get disappointed when I think of all that I have done for my friends and family. Gone out of my way to help and then fine that their not there when I can use it. If it wasn't for this family here, I would be very lost. I can understand how you must feel. So don't worry about whining, to us it's just being worried and scared. From: "belnorest" <Belindastime@a...> Date: Mon Mar 4, 2002 5:24 am Subject: Hi everyone I do not know if most of you know that I have not been diagnosed yet. I am hoping to get an appointment at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital. I spoke with my brother last night and there seems to be some confusion there who would be more knowledgable to help me. It has been very challenging to me and my family to say the least. I have been asked why does it matter if you haven't been diagnosed yet if they can only treat the symptoms. This may be so, but I still want to know what is wrong with me. One doctor told me he thinks I have Spinocellerebra ataxia. I go to another doctor who said he thinks I have Parkinson's Plus and maybe some ataxia. I have read alot about MSA and feel that I have alot of the symptoms of MSA. I feel like I have to be the one who finds out about it as much as I can because I know no one else who will do it for me.(family and close friends). My husband is wonderful when it comes to working, cooking, laundry, child care, taxi driver but when it comes to constant caregiving I dont know how he will be. I know that there are times that nursing homes are necessary and I dont have any hard feelings for someone who uses them but I am terrified of being put in one. I hear nothing but horror stories of the nursing homes around us. I have read everyones post and seen the trials that everyone has gone through. I am afraid without a diagnose that when I need equipment for something I won't be able to get it. I hope that pouring my heart out to you all that you won't see me as being a whiner because I am not. I am trying to be very realistic in which my family for generations has always had trouble facing what they do not want to face as well as my husband and his family. If anyone knows of a doctor who can help me in or around Georgia please let me know. I am on a HMO and have to go to providers that are listed in my book which also narrows the field for me. If you can help me please let me know and if not all prayers are always appreciated. Love and God Bless, Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2002 Report Share Posted March 6, 2002 Belinda: I'm sure no one here looks at you as a whiner. Weather you have MSA or one of the other PD + illness, you have a right to know what they think it is and try to treat it to where you feel the best that you can. I know my husband wanted to know what was wrong with him and it took us over a year before a doctor did dx him. That's the one thing that is sad knowning that you don't feel well, but not getting answers. None of us know for sure if it's MSA or one of the other PD+ illness, but it's nice to know it could be and go from there to see what works or doesn't work. I know I'm scared and it's my husband that is sick. I wonder if I can keep him at home (which I'd like to) but I really don't think that I will get any help from family and friends. I haven't so far. So it looks like it will be just me to deal with Fred''s illness. I fine that I get disappointed when I think of all that I have done for my friends and family. Gone out of my way to help and then fine that their not there when I can use it. If it wasn't for this family here, I would be very lost. I can understand how you must feel. So don't worry about whining, to us it's just being worried and scared. From: "belnorest" <Belindastime@a...> Date: Mon Mar 4, 2002 5:24 am Subject: Hi everyone I do not know if most of you know that I have not been diagnosed yet. I am hoping to get an appointment at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital. I spoke with my brother last night and there seems to be some confusion there who would be more knowledgable to help me. It has been very challenging to me and my family to say the least. I have been asked why does it matter if you haven't been diagnosed yet if they can only treat the symptoms. This may be so, but I still want to know what is wrong with me. One doctor told me he thinks I have Spinocellerebra ataxia. I go to another doctor who said he thinks I have Parkinson's Plus and maybe some ataxia. I have read alot about MSA and feel that I have alot of the symptoms of MSA. I feel like I have to be the one who finds out about it as much as I can because I know no one else who will do it for me.(family and close friends). My husband is wonderful when it comes to working, cooking, laundry, child care, taxi driver but when it comes to constant caregiving I dont know how he will be. I know that there are times that nursing homes are necessary and I dont have any hard feelings for someone who uses them but I am terrified of being put in one. I hear nothing but horror stories of the nursing homes around us. I have read everyones post and seen the trials that everyone has gone through. I am afraid without a diagnose that when I need equipment for something I won't be able to get it. I hope that pouring my heart out to you all that you won't see me as being a whiner because I am not. I am trying to be very realistic in which my family for generations has always had trouble facing what they do not want to face as well as my husband and his family. If anyone knows of a doctor who can help me in or around Georgia please let me know. I am on a HMO and have to go to providers that are listed in my book which also narrows the field for me. If you can help me please let me know and if not all prayers are always appreciated. Love and God Bless, Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 Vera, Thank you for your nice reply. I am going for an EMG today so we will see how that goes. I believe from you reply and others that I am not alone and I am so thankful to you and everyone else for your support. Vera, I know how it is to be there for people all those years and they not be there for you. I think in times like these is when you find out who your real friends are. I pray that in time some of them will come around for you. I hope that you can include me in your friendship. I don't know to much about this but I know how to listen. God Bless, Belinda > Belinda: > I'm sure no one here looks at you as a whiner. Weather you have MSA or one of > the other PD + illness, you have a right to know what they think it is and > try to treat it to where you feel the best that you can. I know my husband > wanted to know what was wrong with him and it took us over a year before a > doctor did dx him. That's the one thing that is sad knowning that you don't > feel well, but not getting answers. None of us know for sure if it's MSA or > one of the other PD+ illness, but it's nice to know it could be and go from > there to see what works or doesn't work. I know I'm scared and it's my > husband that is sick. I wonder if I can keep him at home (which I'd like to) > but I really don't think that I will get any help from family and friends. I > haven't so far. So it looks like it will be just me to deal with Fred''s > illness. I fine that I get disappointed when I think of all that I have done > for my friends and family. Gone out of my way to help and then fine that > their not there when I can use it. If it wasn't for this family here, I would > be very lost. I can understand how you must feel. So don't worry about > whining, to us it's just being worried and scared. > [unable to display image] > > > > From: " belnorest " <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/shydrager/post? protectID=023056235009078154169232031026124239136144066179209171188199 " >Belindastime@a...> > Date: Mon Mar 4, 2002 5:24 am > Subject: > > > Hi everyone > I do not know if most of you know that I have not been diagnosed yet. > I am hoping to get an appointment at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital. I > spoke with my brother last night and there seems to be some confusion > there who would be more knowledgable to help me. It has been very > challenging to me and my family to say the least. I have been asked > why does it matter if you haven't been diagnosed yet if they can only > treat the symptoms. This may be so, but I still want to know what is > wrong with me. One doctor told me he thinks I have Spinocellerebra > ataxia. I go to another doctor who said he thinks I have Parkinson's > Plus and maybe some ataxia. I have read alot about MSA and feel that > I have alot of the symptoms of MSA. I feel like I have to be the one > who finds out about it as much as I can because I know no one else > who will do it for me.(family and close friends). My husband is > wonderful when it comes to working, cooking, laundry, child care, > taxi driver but when it comes to constant caregiving I dont know how > he will be. I know that there are times that nursing homes are > necessary and I dont have any hard feelings for someone who uses them > but I am terrified of being put in one. I hear nothing but horror > stories of the nursing homes around us. I have read everyones post > and seen the trials that everyone has gone through. I am afraid > without a diagnose that when I need equipment for something I won't > be able to get it. I hope that pouring my heart out to you all that > you won't see me as being a whiner because I am not. I am trying to > be very realistic in which my family for generations has always had > trouble facing what they do not want to face as well as my husband > and his family. If anyone knows of a doctor who can help me in or > around Georgia please let me know. I am on a HMO and have to go to > providers that are listed in my book which also narrows the field for > me. If you can help me please let me know and if not all prayers are > always appreciated. > Love and God Bless, > Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 Vera, Thank you for your nice reply. I am going for an EMG today so we will see how that goes. I believe from you reply and others that I am not alone and I am so thankful to you and everyone else for your support. Vera, I know how it is to be there for people all those years and they not be there for you. I think in times like these is when you find out who your real friends are. I pray that in time some of them will come around for you. I hope that you can include me in your friendship. I don't know to much about this but I know how to listen. God Bless, Belinda > Belinda: > I'm sure no one here looks at you as a whiner. Weather you have MSA or one of > the other PD + illness, you have a right to know what they think it is and > try to treat it to where you feel the best that you can. I know my husband > wanted to know what was wrong with him and it took us over a year before a > doctor did dx him. That's the one thing that is sad knowning that you don't > feel well, but not getting answers. None of us know for sure if it's MSA or > one of the other PD+ illness, but it's nice to know it could be and go from > there to see what works or doesn't work. I know I'm scared and it's my > husband that is sick. I wonder if I can keep him at home (which I'd like to) > but I really don't think that I will get any help from family and friends. I > haven't so far. So it looks like it will be just me to deal with Fred''s > illness. I fine that I get disappointed when I think of all that I have done > for my friends and family. Gone out of my way to help and then fine that > their not there when I can use it. If it wasn't for this family here, I would > be very lost. I can understand how you must feel. So don't worry about > whining, to us it's just being worried and scared. > [unable to display image] > > > > From: " belnorest " <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/shydrager/post? protectID=023056235009078154169232031026124239136144066179209171188199 " >Belindastime@a...> > Date: Mon Mar 4, 2002 5:24 am > Subject: > > > Hi everyone > I do not know if most of you know that I have not been diagnosed yet. > I am hoping to get an appointment at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital. I > spoke with my brother last night and there seems to be some confusion > there who would be more knowledgable to help me. It has been very > challenging to me and my family to say the least. I have been asked > why does it matter if you haven't been diagnosed yet if they can only > treat the symptoms. This may be so, but I still want to know what is > wrong with me. One doctor told me he thinks I have Spinocellerebra > ataxia. I go to another doctor who said he thinks I have Parkinson's > Plus and maybe some ataxia. I have read alot about MSA and feel that > I have alot of the symptoms of MSA. I feel like I have to be the one > who finds out about it as much as I can because I know no one else > who will do it for me.(family and close friends). My husband is > wonderful when it comes to working, cooking, laundry, child care, > taxi driver but when it comes to constant caregiving I dont know how > he will be. I know that there are times that nursing homes are > necessary and I dont have any hard feelings for someone who uses them > but I am terrified of being put in one. I hear nothing but horror > stories of the nursing homes around us. I have read everyones post > and seen the trials that everyone has gone through. I am afraid > without a diagnose that when I need equipment for something I won't > be able to get it. I hope that pouring my heart out to you all that > you won't see me as being a whiner because I am not. I am trying to > be very realistic in which my family for generations has always had > trouble facing what they do not want to face as well as my husband > and his family. If anyone knows of a doctor who can help me in or > around Georgia please let me know. I am on a HMO and have to go to > providers that are listed in my book which also narrows the field for > me. If you can help me please let me know and if not all prayers are > always appreciated. > Love and God Bless, > Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 Vera, Thank you for your nice reply. I am going for an EMG today so we will see how that goes. I believe from you reply and others that I am not alone and I am so thankful to you and everyone else for your support. Vera, I know how it is to be there for people all those years and they not be there for you. I think in times like these is when you find out who your real friends are. I pray that in time some of them will come around for you. I hope that you can include me in your friendship. I don't know to much about this but I know how to listen. God Bless, Belinda > Belinda: > I'm sure no one here looks at you as a whiner. Weather you have MSA or one of > the other PD + illness, you have a right to know what they think it is and > try to treat it to where you feel the best that you can. I know my husband > wanted to know what was wrong with him and it took us over a year before a > doctor did dx him. That's the one thing that is sad knowning that you don't > feel well, but not getting answers. None of us know for sure if it's MSA or > one of the other PD+ illness, but it's nice to know it could be and go from > there to see what works or doesn't work. I know I'm scared and it's my > husband that is sick. I wonder if I can keep him at home (which I'd like to) > but I really don't think that I will get any help from family and friends. I > haven't so far. So it looks like it will be just me to deal with Fred''s > illness. I fine that I get disappointed when I think of all that I have done > for my friends and family. Gone out of my way to help and then fine that > their not there when I can use it. If it wasn't for this family here, I would > be very lost. I can understand how you must feel. So don't worry about > whining, to us it's just being worried and scared. > [unable to display image] > > > > From: " belnorest " <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/shydrager/post? protectID=023056235009078154169232031026124239136144066179209171188199 " >Belindastime@a...> > Date: Mon Mar 4, 2002 5:24 am > Subject: > > > Hi everyone > I do not know if most of you know that I have not been diagnosed yet. > I am hoping to get an appointment at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital. I > spoke with my brother last night and there seems to be some confusion > there who would be more knowledgable to help me. It has been very > challenging to me and my family to say the least. I have been asked > why does it matter if you haven't been diagnosed yet if they can only > treat the symptoms. This may be so, but I still want to know what is > wrong with me. One doctor told me he thinks I have Spinocellerebra > ataxia. I go to another doctor who said he thinks I have Parkinson's > Plus and maybe some ataxia. I have read alot about MSA and feel that > I have alot of the symptoms of MSA. I feel like I have to be the one > who finds out about it as much as I can because I know no one else > who will do it for me.(family and close friends). My husband is > wonderful when it comes to working, cooking, laundry, child care, > taxi driver but when it comes to constant caregiving I dont know how > he will be. I know that there are times that nursing homes are > necessary and I dont have any hard feelings for someone who uses them > but I am terrified of being put in one. I hear nothing but horror > stories of the nursing homes around us. I have read everyones post > and seen the trials that everyone has gone through. I am afraid > without a diagnose that when I need equipment for something I won't > be able to get it. I hope that pouring my heart out to you all that > you won't see me as being a whiner because I am not. I am trying to > be very realistic in which my family for generations has always had > trouble facing what they do not want to face as well as my husband > and his family. If anyone knows of a doctor who can help me in or > around Georgia please let me know. I am on a HMO and have to go to > providers that are listed in my book which also narrows the field for > me. If you can help me please let me know and if not all prayers are > always appreciated. > Love and God Bless, > Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 Belinda: Of course I look at you as a friend and I'm really glad that I do have your friendship. I've heard most of my life that most people are only out there for themself. I'd just say not everyone is like that, and there are some really good people out there also. Can't believe my luck I have found them all in one spot, here with this group. Who would of ever guess I'd be so blessed, but I am. Be waiting to hear what your test shows today and hope that you get some answer's soon. Just remember Belinda your not alone here, we all feel lost at times. It's scary not knowning ,that's the hardest part of all. Hugs Vera ************************* Subject: Re: RE:Belinda Vera, Thank you for your nice reply. I am going for an EMG today so we will see how that goes. I believe from you reply and others that I am not alone and I am so thankful to you and everyone else for your support. Vera, I know how it is to be there for people all those years and they not be there for you. I think in times like these is when you find out who your real friends are. I pray that in time some of them will come around for you. I hope that you can include me in your friendship. I don't know to much about this but I know how to listen. God Bless, Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 Belinda: Of course I look at you as a friend and I'm really glad that I do have your friendship. I've heard most of my life that most people are only out there for themself. I'd just say not everyone is like that, and there are some really good people out there also. Can't believe my luck I have found them all in one spot, here with this group. Who would of ever guess I'd be so blessed, but I am. Be waiting to hear what your test shows today and hope that you get some answer's soon. Just remember Belinda your not alone here, we all feel lost at times. It's scary not knowning ,that's the hardest part of all. Hugs Vera ************************* Subject: Re: RE:Belinda Vera, Thank you for your nice reply. I am going for an EMG today so we will see how that goes. I believe from you reply and others that I am not alone and I am so thankful to you and everyone else for your support. Vera, I know how it is to be there for people all those years and they not be there for you. I think in times like these is when you find out who your real friends are. I pray that in time some of them will come around for you. I hope that you can include me in your friendship. I don't know to much about this but I know how to listen. God Bless, Belinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2002 Report Share Posted March 26, 2002 Belinda: You asked >>>> The doctor wrote me a perscription today for a wheelchair. I don't have a clue where to go with it. I hope someone on here might be able to help me. The doctor put me on a new drug called Requip <<<< Each time that Fred's Neurologist has given Fred a perscripton for a wheel chair, We have taken it to his MD, who then put's it in for an Authorization. If it is ok'ed, we get an authorization in the mail with a phone # as to where to call to have them bring one out, or they call us to set it up. This maybe what you have to do. Take Care Vera Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 2002 Report Share Posted March 27, 2002 -Vera, Thank you! I will call my MD and find out. God Bless, Belinda -- In shydrager@y..., FVJAMES@a... wrote: > Belinda: > You asked >>>> > The doctor wrote me a perscription today for a wheelchair. I > don't have a clue where to go with it. I hope someone on here might > be able to help me. The doctor put me on a new drug called Requip <<<< > > Each time that Fred's Neurologist has given Fred a perscripton for a wheel > chair, We have taken it to his MD, who then put's it in for an Authorization. > If it is ok'ed, we get an authorization in the mail with a phone # as to > where to call to have them bring one out, or they call us to set it up. This > maybe what you have to do. > > Take Care > Vera Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2002 Report Share Posted May 28, 2002 Belinda: I know there are times when it looks like the world is against us. I've had those times more then I'd like to say. Then other day's the sun comes out and everything is just great. You've made many of my days just beautiful when I wanted to cry, by just being here and saying hi. Please don't feel that you shouldn't be here. It would hurt so many of us that look forward to hearing from you each day. Hugs Vera Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2002 Report Share Posted May 28, 2002 Belinda, I love reading your mails. You, along with others-rose included-help me smile when I am blue or the pain is worse than normal. Please stay rite where you are, you are very needed here wanda __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2002 Report Share Posted May 28, 2002 Belinda, I love reading your mails. You, along with others-rose included-help me smile when I am blue or the pain is worse than normal. Please stay rite where you are, you are very needed here wanda __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2002 Report Share Posted May 28, 2002 Belinda, I love reading your mails. You, along with others-rose included-help me smile when I am blue or the pain is worse than normal. Please stay rite where you are, you are very needed here wanda __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2002 Report Share Posted May 29, 2002 Belinda, Both of my computers broke within 24 hours of one another. I got the laptop back up and running but am just getting over the trip to DC. I spent the last 5 days in bed or on the couch in pain. I was also heartbroken 2 days after returning home to realize that I left my digital camera in DC with all of my pictures of the PAN forum and meetings with my representatives and the Udall dinner on it. called both hotels and offered a $200 reward but so far no luck. I keep telling myself, it is just a thing and it really doesn't matter but heck, silly as it may be, this one hurts. I did skim through the emails from the list but was overwhelmed by how many there were...over 300... Anyway, I don't know what Vera is talking about with regards to you leaving, but whatever it is, please don't. You took me under your wing and made me laugh when I couldn't see straight. I need your wisdom, humor, and compassion. If you need to, make a primal scream.... I'll hear you all the way here in N.C. but don't go away. Hugs and Warm Fuzzies, Deborah aka TenacitySend and receive Hotmail on your mobile device: Click Here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2002 Report Share Posted May 29, 2002 Thanks Belinda. We often have mixed feelings about these things, but it is hard to say no, isn't it. I guess I did not appreciate my Mum and Dad any where as much as I should have, as they were wounderful people, who did as much as they possibly could for me. I guess I should try to emulate their beliefs and actions, which were I feel a lot harder for them than it is for me. Aussie Bill Re: Belinda > Dear Bill, > I am sure that going somewhere 5 hours each way is very hard for you > especially doing it all during the weekend. I know it would be for me > also. I have found just driving 45 minutes to my inlaws house and > back has become hard for me. I think being a daughter myself we don't > always realize the hardships we put on our father's. Our father's > have always been there and it is hard for us to except that they > won't always be. I think we do as we get older but not as much when > we are younger. It would probably help both of you to sit down > together and explain things to her in a way she wouldn't feel you > were accusing her. The only reason I am saying that is because family > seems to wear their hearts on their sleeve at least they do in my > family and things said can be taken wrong very easily. I know that > you want to be there for all of your children but you have to take > care of yourself also. I still believe she would rather you be here > for her even if it was just to talk to then 6 feet under. We don't > know how much we can push our bodies so there is no reason to push to > hard. I am saying this out of love and concern, Bill. I hope you know > that. I have been praying for you as I do everyone on this support > group. Take care,my friend. > God bless, > Belinda > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi > > > > > > > > Help!! Can someone please tell me the time difference > to > > > > > Aussie. > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > cant remember what Bill said. I THINK he said 15 hours? > > > We are > > > > > > > > ahead. It is now Sunday 6.15 PM here. > > > > > > > > Thanks Love Aussie Anne > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > > > > > > > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2002 Report Share Posted May 29, 2002 Thanks Belinda. We often have mixed feelings about these things, but it is hard to say no, isn't it. I guess I did not appreciate my Mum and Dad any where as much as I should have, as they were wounderful people, who did as much as they possibly could for me. I guess I should try to emulate their beliefs and actions, which were I feel a lot harder for them than it is for me. Aussie Bill Re: Belinda > Dear Bill, > I am sure that going somewhere 5 hours each way is very hard for you > especially doing it all during the weekend. I know it would be for me > also. I have found just driving 45 minutes to my inlaws house and > back has become hard for me. I think being a daughter myself we don't > always realize the hardships we put on our father's. Our father's > have always been there and it is hard for us to except that they > won't always be. I think we do as we get older but not as much when > we are younger. It would probably help both of you to sit down > together and explain things to her in a way she wouldn't feel you > were accusing her. The only reason I am saying that is because family > seems to wear their hearts on their sleeve at least they do in my > family and things said can be taken wrong very easily. I know that > you want to be there for all of your children but you have to take > care of yourself also. I still believe she would rather you be here > for her even if it was just to talk to then 6 feet under. We don't > know how much we can push our bodies so there is no reason to push to > hard. I am saying this out of love and concern, Bill. I hope you know > that. I have been praying for you as I do everyone on this support > group. Take care,my friend. > God bless, > Belinda > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi > > > > > > > > Help!! Can someone please tell me the time difference > to > > > > > Aussie. > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > cant remember what Bill said. I THINK he said 15 hours? > > > We are > > > > > > > > ahead. It is now Sunday 6.15 PM here. > > > > > > > > Thanks Love Aussie Anne > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > > > > > > > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2002 Report Share Posted May 29, 2002 Thanks Belinda. We often have mixed feelings about these things, but it is hard to say no, isn't it. I guess I did not appreciate my Mum and Dad any where as much as I should have, as they were wounderful people, who did as much as they possibly could for me. I guess I should try to emulate their beliefs and actions, which were I feel a lot harder for them than it is for me. Aussie Bill Re: Belinda > Dear Bill, > I am sure that going somewhere 5 hours each way is very hard for you > especially doing it all during the weekend. I know it would be for me > also. I have found just driving 45 minutes to my inlaws house and > back has become hard for me. I think being a daughter myself we don't > always realize the hardships we put on our father's. Our father's > have always been there and it is hard for us to except that they > won't always be. I think we do as we get older but not as much when > we are younger. It would probably help both of you to sit down > together and explain things to her in a way she wouldn't feel you > were accusing her. The only reason I am saying that is because family > seems to wear their hearts on their sleeve at least they do in my > family and things said can be taken wrong very easily. I know that > you want to be there for all of your children but you have to take > care of yourself also. I still believe she would rather you be here > for her even if it was just to talk to then 6 feet under. We don't > know how much we can push our bodies so there is no reason to push to > hard. I am saying this out of love and concern, Bill. I hope you know > that. I have been praying for you as I do everyone on this support > group. Take care,my friend. > God bless, > Belinda > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi > > > > > > > > Help!! Can someone please tell me the time difference > to > > > > > Aussie. > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > cant remember what Bill said. I THINK he said 15 hours? > > > We are > > > > > > > > ahead. It is now Sunday 6.15 PM here. > > > > > > > > Thanks Love Aussie Anne > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > > > > > > > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > > > > > > > > > > > > > shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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