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Hi Pamela,

Have you written a letter yet? I find that having it in writing

always does more than a phone call. Write everything in the letter

that you wrote in the e-mail. You'll get a check. Good luck,

-- In duodenalswitch@y..., " PJ Elmlund " wrote:

> Hi all!

>

> I have a situation I am not sure how to handle. I had a meeting

with

> Dr. Rabkin back on Dec.13, 2000. My insurance said they would not

> cover this initital visit because Dr. Rabkin was not

participating.

> Therefore I paid the $240 fee. As it worked out, I was not happy

with

> my visit and decided to talk to Dr. Keshishian before making the

> final decision regarding surgery. Dr. K was my choice and I have

> been very satisfied with my treatment from Dr. K and his staff.

>

> In the meantime, my insurance changed their minds and paid Dr.

Rabkin

> for my initial consultation. I have made multiple requests for

> reimbursement and have gotten some outrageous replies -- that is

when

> I have been able to speak to anyone at all. The insurance check was

> cashed by Dr. Rabkin's office on March 15th -- I have a copy of the

> check. The following is a few of the conversations I have had and

> these don't included the several calls between each conversation

> trying to get someone to return my calls.

>

> 3/15/01 Talked to Receptionist (day check was deposited by Dr.

> Rabkin's office) and was told that a refund must be approved by the

> Office Manager and she did not know when she would be in the office

> to do this.

>

> 4/9/01 Talked to Delphine, patient coordinator -- explained the

> situation and of course she was mortified and promised to have the

> situation corrected immediately.

>

> 4/18/01 Talked to Receptionist -- Dr. Rabkin was out of the office

> and was not expected to return for at least two weeks and no

> financial transactions could be finalized without his okay. Would

> check with Accounts Payable and return call to let me know if the

> refund had been processed. ----- Never heard back.

>

> 4/26 & 27/01 Called multiple times and each call was answered by

Dr.

> Rabkin's service. They did not know if anyone was in the office

> because they never talk to anyone personally -- all messages are

> faxed to the office from the service. No return calls were placed

by

> Dr. Rabkin's staff.

>

> At this point, I feel like my only recourse is to file a small

claims

> suit. I have also been advised to contact the Better Business

Bureau

> and the Medical Board. I hate the thought of getting into this

mess,

> but I don't know how else to get any results. Can anyone who knows

> Dr. Rabkin and his staff shed any light on what is happening up

> there? Does anyone have any other suggestions?

>

> Thanks for any help. . . . .Pamela (USCMBA95)

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Hi Pamela,

Have you written a letter yet? I find that having it in writing

always does more than a phone call. Write everything in the letter

that you wrote in the e-mail. You'll get a check. Good luck,

-- In duodenalswitch@y..., " PJ Elmlund " wrote:

> Hi all!

>

> I have a situation I am not sure how to handle. I had a meeting

with

> Dr. Rabkin back on Dec.13, 2000. My insurance said they would not

> cover this initital visit because Dr. Rabkin was not

participating.

> Therefore I paid the $240 fee. As it worked out, I was not happy

with

> my visit and decided to talk to Dr. Keshishian before making the

> final decision regarding surgery. Dr. K was my choice and I have

> been very satisfied with my treatment from Dr. K and his staff.

>

> In the meantime, my insurance changed their minds and paid Dr.

Rabkin

> for my initial consultation. I have made multiple requests for

> reimbursement and have gotten some outrageous replies -- that is

when

> I have been able to speak to anyone at all. The insurance check was

> cashed by Dr. Rabkin's office on March 15th -- I have a copy of the

> check. The following is a few of the conversations I have had and

> these don't included the several calls between each conversation

> trying to get someone to return my calls.

>

> 3/15/01 Talked to Receptionist (day check was deposited by Dr.

> Rabkin's office) and was told that a refund must be approved by the

> Office Manager and she did not know when she would be in the office

> to do this.

>

> 4/9/01 Talked to Delphine, patient coordinator -- explained the

> situation and of course she was mortified and promised to have the

> situation corrected immediately.

>

> 4/18/01 Talked to Receptionist -- Dr. Rabkin was out of the office

> and was not expected to return for at least two weeks and no

> financial transactions could be finalized without his okay. Would

> check with Accounts Payable and return call to let me know if the

> refund had been processed. ----- Never heard back.

>

> 4/26 & 27/01 Called multiple times and each call was answered by

Dr.

> Rabkin's service. They did not know if anyone was in the office

> because they never talk to anyone personally -- all messages are

> faxed to the office from the service. No return calls were placed

by

> Dr. Rabkin's staff.

>

> At this point, I feel like my only recourse is to file a small

claims

> suit. I have also been advised to contact the Better Business

Bureau

> and the Medical Board. I hate the thought of getting into this

mess,

> but I don't know how else to get any results. Can anyone who knows

> Dr. Rabkin and his staff shed any light on what is happening up

> there? Does anyone have any other suggestions?

>

> Thanks for any help. . . . .Pamela (USCMBA95)

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Hi Pamela,

Have you written a letter yet? I find that having it in writing

always does more than a phone call. Write everything in the letter

that you wrote in the e-mail. You'll get a check. Good luck,

-- In duodenalswitch@y..., " PJ Elmlund " wrote:

> Hi all!

>

> I have a situation I am not sure how to handle. I had a meeting

with

> Dr. Rabkin back on Dec.13, 2000. My insurance said they would not

> cover this initital visit because Dr. Rabkin was not

participating.

> Therefore I paid the $240 fee. As it worked out, I was not happy

with

> my visit and decided to talk to Dr. Keshishian before making the

> final decision regarding surgery. Dr. K was my choice and I have

> been very satisfied with my treatment from Dr. K and his staff.

>

> In the meantime, my insurance changed their minds and paid Dr.

Rabkin

> for my initial consultation. I have made multiple requests for

> reimbursement and have gotten some outrageous replies -- that is

when

> I have been able to speak to anyone at all. The insurance check was

> cashed by Dr. Rabkin's office on March 15th -- I have a copy of the

> check. The following is a few of the conversations I have had and

> these don't included the several calls between each conversation

> trying to get someone to return my calls.

>

> 3/15/01 Talked to Receptionist (day check was deposited by Dr.

> Rabkin's office) and was told that a refund must be approved by the

> Office Manager and she did not know when she would be in the office

> to do this.

>

> 4/9/01 Talked to Delphine, patient coordinator -- explained the

> situation and of course she was mortified and promised to have the

> situation corrected immediately.

>

> 4/18/01 Talked to Receptionist -- Dr. Rabkin was out of the office

> and was not expected to return for at least two weeks and no

> financial transactions could be finalized without his okay. Would

> check with Accounts Payable and return call to let me know if the

> refund had been processed. ----- Never heard back.

>

> 4/26 & 27/01 Called multiple times and each call was answered by

Dr.

> Rabkin's service. They did not know if anyone was in the office

> because they never talk to anyone personally -- all messages are

> faxed to the office from the service. No return calls were placed

by

> Dr. Rabkin's staff.

>

> At this point, I feel like my only recourse is to file a small

claims

> suit. I have also been advised to contact the Better Business

Bureau

> and the Medical Board. I hate the thought of getting into this

mess,

> but I don't know how else to get any results. Can anyone who knows

> Dr. Rabkin and his staff shed any light on what is happening up

> there? Does anyone have any other suggestions?

>

> Thanks for any help. . . . .Pamela (USCMBA95)

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Don't forget to include in the letter that if no

response is received within 10 business days you will

be notifying the BBB and the medical board. You might

also mention further legal action. (Be certain to

make a copy of anything you mail. Consider mailing it

certified mail.

I hope this helps.

Happy spring

B

--- leigh6x@... wrote:

> Hi Pamela,

>

> Have you written a letter yet? I find that having it

> in writing

> always does more than a phone call. Write everything

> in the letter

> that you wrote in the e-mail. You'll get a check.

> Good luck,

>

>

>

>

> -- In duodenalswitch@y..., " PJ Elmlund "

> wrote:

> > Hi all!

> >

> > I have a situation I am not sure how to handle. I

> had a meeting

> with

> > Dr. Rabkin back on Dec.13, 2000. My insurance said

> they would not

> > cover this initital visit because Dr. Rabkin was

> not

> participating.

> > Therefore I paid the $240 fee. As it worked out, I

> was not happy

> with

> > my visit and decided to talk to Dr. Keshishian

> before making the

> > final decision regarding surgery. Dr. K was my

> choice and I have

> > been very satisfied with my treatment from Dr. K

> and his staff.

> >

> > In the meantime, my insurance changed their minds

> and paid Dr.

> Rabkin

> > for my initial consultation. I have made multiple

> requests for

> > reimbursement and have gotten some outrageous

> replies -- that is

> when

> > I have been able to speak to anyone at all. The

> insurance check was

> > cashed by Dr. Rabkin's office on March 15th -- I

> have a copy of the

> > check. The following is a few of the

> conversations I have had and

> > these don't included the several calls between

> each conversation

> > trying to get someone to return my calls.

> >

> > 3/15/01 Talked to Receptionist (day check was

> deposited by Dr.

> > Rabkin's office) and was told that a refund must

> be approved by the

> > Office Manager and she did not know when she would

> be in the office

> > to do this.

> >

> > 4/9/01 Talked to Delphine, patient coordinator --

> explained the

> > situation and of course she was mortified and

> promised to have the

> > situation corrected immediately.

> >

> > 4/18/01 Talked to Receptionist -- Dr. Rabkin was

> out of the office

> > and was not expected to return for at least two

> weeks and no

> > financial transactions could be finalized without

> his okay. Would

> > check with Accounts Payable and return call to let

> me know if the

> > refund had been processed. ----- Never heard back.

> >

> > 4/26 & 27/01 Called multiple times and each call

> was answered by

> Dr.

> > Rabkin's service. They did not know if anyone was

> in the office

> > because they never talk to anyone personally --

> all messages are

> > faxed to the office from the service. No return

> calls were placed

> by

> > Dr. Rabkin's staff.

> >

> > At this point, I feel like my only recourse is to

> file a small

> claims

> > suit. I have also been advised to contact the

> Better Business

> Bureau

> > and the Medical Board. I hate the thought of

> getting into this

> mess,

> > but I don't know how else to get any results. Can

> anyone who knows

> > Dr. Rabkin and his staff shed any light on what is

> happening up

> > there? Does anyone have any other suggestions?

> >

> > Thanks for any help. . . . .Pamela (USCMBA95)

>

>

>

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>

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Don't forget to include in the letter that if no

response is received within 10 business days you will

be notifying the BBB and the medical board. You might

also mention further legal action. (Be certain to

make a copy of anything you mail. Consider mailing it

certified mail.

I hope this helps.

Happy spring

B

--- leigh6x@... wrote:

> Hi Pamela,

>

> Have you written a letter yet? I find that having it

> in writing

> always does more than a phone call. Write everything

> in the letter

> that you wrote in the e-mail. You'll get a check.

> Good luck,

>

>

>

>

> -- In duodenalswitch@y..., " PJ Elmlund "

> wrote:

> > Hi all!

> >

> > I have a situation I am not sure how to handle. I

> had a meeting

> with

> > Dr. Rabkin back on Dec.13, 2000. My insurance said

> they would not

> > cover this initital visit because Dr. Rabkin was

> not

> participating.

> > Therefore I paid the $240 fee. As it worked out, I

> was not happy

> with

> > my visit and decided to talk to Dr. Keshishian

> before making the

> > final decision regarding surgery. Dr. K was my

> choice and I have

> > been very satisfied with my treatment from Dr. K

> and his staff.

> >

> > In the meantime, my insurance changed their minds

> and paid Dr.

> Rabkin

> > for my initial consultation. I have made multiple

> requests for

> > reimbursement and have gotten some outrageous

> replies -- that is

> when

> > I have been able to speak to anyone at all. The

> insurance check was

> > cashed by Dr. Rabkin's office on March 15th -- I

> have a copy of the

> > check. The following is a few of the

> conversations I have had and

> > these don't included the several calls between

> each conversation

> > trying to get someone to return my calls.

> >

> > 3/15/01 Talked to Receptionist (day check was

> deposited by Dr.

> > Rabkin's office) and was told that a refund must

> be approved by the

> > Office Manager and she did not know when she would

> be in the office

> > to do this.

> >

> > 4/9/01 Talked to Delphine, patient coordinator --

> explained the

> > situation and of course she was mortified and

> promised to have the

> > situation corrected immediately.

> >

> > 4/18/01 Talked to Receptionist -- Dr. Rabkin was

> out of the office

> > and was not expected to return for at least two

> weeks and no

> > financial transactions could be finalized without

> his okay. Would

> > check with Accounts Payable and return call to let

> me know if the

> > refund had been processed. ----- Never heard back.

> >

> > 4/26 & 27/01 Called multiple times and each call

> was answered by

> Dr.

> > Rabkin's service. They did not know if anyone was

> in the office

> > because they never talk to anyone personally --

> all messages are

> > faxed to the office from the service. No return

> calls were placed

> by

> > Dr. Rabkin's staff.

> >

> > At this point, I feel like my only recourse is to

> file a small

> claims

> > suit. I have also been advised to contact the

> Better Business

> Bureau

> > and the Medical Board. I hate the thought of

> getting into this

> mess,

> > but I don't know how else to get any results. Can

> anyone who knows

> > Dr. Rabkin and his staff shed any light on what is

> happening up

> > there? Does anyone have any other suggestions?

> >

> > Thanks for any help. . . . .Pamela (USCMBA95)

>

>

>

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>

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Pamela- Do you have a friend that is an attorney that could write a letter

for you. That might help. I would call the insurance commisioner and the

AMA and threaten to go to the papers. Just a few aggressive suggestions.

The nerve of some people. Good luck. Ellen(Pam

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Pamela- Do you have a friend that is an attorney that could write a letter

for you. That might help. I would call the insurance commisioner and the

AMA and threaten to go to the papers. Just a few aggressive suggestions.

The nerve of some people. Good luck. Ellen(Pam

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Pamela- Do you have a friend that is an attorney that could write a letter

for you. That might help. I would call the insurance commisioner and the

AMA and threaten to go to the papers. Just a few aggressive suggestions.

The nerve of some people. Good luck. Ellen(Pam

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  • 1 year later...

In a message dated 10/9/2002 4:22:05 AM Pacific Standard Time,

kristinafh@... writes:

> I don't even know where to begin

a - you've made a good start by baring your soul. You can join our

exclusive (not) club of people who have backslid a little, or a lot, and want

it to stop! I found that confessing here was a good impetus to move forward

on stopping my regain, and starting to lose it again! There, that's

the good news! You can stop the regain, and lose again.

But....you knew there had to be bad news, right? Despite my vow to never do

so, I have had to return to a " diet " mentality. I simply must consciously

control what I put in my mouth. I tried trusting to my body, which was

quickly overruled by my compulsively trained mind. No mystery as to how I

regained - I ate foods I shouldn't eat, and I ate too much. I think that's

pretty much true for most regain.

I am now moving onto week 3 (maybe week 4 - gads, the lack of food must be

numbing my mind) of my new eating style. I am counting calories and keeping

my intake between 1,500 and 2,000. My goal is 1,500 - but I give myself the

leeway to climb to 2,000 before I become weird about it. I have cut out

sugar, I make sure I get 3 protein shakes a day, and for the rest of that

whopping 1,000 calories, I eat what I want.

Is it working? Aaargh - I guess so! I don't like doing this, but in 3 weeks

have lost maybe 4 lbs, maybe 5. I am struggling to not let the scale control

my mood (some days I win, some days the scale wins). I am getting tired of

not binge eating when I want (even though I recognize I feel so much better

physically). It's just so hard. It is getting easier to not eat sugar, but

I still want it. It's just plain hard work. But honestly, if I can do this

- YOU can do this. We'll help you!

Kate

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Hi a and welcome,

I'm so glad you posted because there are so many people who blame themselves

when the surgery doesn't do what they expected. But, you may have a staple

line disruption and, if that's the case, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!!! Do you know

if your stomach is transected? If not, I'll bet dollars to donuts (excuse

the pun) it's that 'ole busted staple line. You need to have an upper GI to

tell. If that's not the case, you can always have it revised to a more

distal RNY or BPD/DS, if so desired. There are solutions, but unfortunately,

many do involve a second surgery. However, it is usually Oh so worth it.

Good luck,

in NJ

open RNY 8/99

staple line disruption

lap transection 8/00

306/164/whatever

coming soon (11/19/02) TT and butt lipo

************************************************

In a message dated 10/9/2002 1:37:40 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

Graduate-OSSG writes:

> Hi,

>

> WHEW! Posting to a huge mail list is quite an accomplishment for

> me. When it comes to publicly admitting my failures - well - not my

> favorite thing to do and certainly, not something that comes easily.

>

> I had WLS in 1999. I lost 80 pounds and even though I never made my

> goal, I was fine with where I was. I felt healthy and sort of fit.

>

> About a year ago, I started to gain. Yes, so I had a bazillion life-

> changing events (two deaths, one job change, one job elimination).

> In my mind, they're just all excuses. Back then tho, I was too

> embarrassed to get any help or to even reach out to anyone.

>

> Now, the gain is even worse. I was in denial but after having to go

> out and buy new clothes for the size up, I feel like it's only a

> matter of time before all of the weight is back.

>

> I don't even know where to begin and that's why I was hoping that

> someone could point me in the right direction.

>

> Thanks, a

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Have you had your mechanics checked ? That's always first thing. You didn't

say which surgery you had.... proximal RNY?

Could Use Some Advice

> Hi,

>

> WHEW! Posting to a huge mail list is quite an accomplishment for

> me. When it comes to publicly admitting my failures - well - not my

> favorite thing to do and certainly, not something that comes easily.

>

> I had WLS in 1999. I lost 80 pounds and even though I never made my

> goal, I was fine with where I was. I felt healthy and sort of fit.

>

> About a year ago, I started to gain. Yes, so I had a bazillion life-

> changing events (two deaths, one job change, one job elimination).

> In my mind, they're just all excuses. Back then tho, I was too

> embarrassed to get any help or to even reach out to anyone.

>

> Now, the gain is even worse. I was in denial but after having to go

> out and buy new clothes for the size up, I feel like it's only a

> matter of time before all of the weight is back.

>

> I don't even know where to begin and that's why I was hoping that

> someone could point me in the right direction.

>

> Thanks, a

>

>

>

> Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG

>

> Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe

>

>

>

>

>

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