As Promised Grieving With God

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#2113 Wings Over The Mountains of Life

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Grieving With God

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Cont. from issue http://www.mountainwings.com/past/2112.htm

One of the hardest things to accept is that life as we know it

does not go on.

Relationships are often difficult to establish and maintain. And

on rare, wonderful occasions, some just fall into place so

easily and run so smoothly from both ends.

Losing one we're close to, feels unfair and so sad. Those we

just fell in love with from the start, that were there for us

whatever our circumstances, whatever our pain, no matter how we

lost our humor, those we could wrap our arms around and receive

comfort from, we find it impossible to release them to death.

Once we relax in knowing they are there, will never reject us,

will always return our love and affection, how can we plan a

future without them?

How can the memories be enough when our hearts seem to slow, yet

pound so loudly in our throats, when our joy is crushed, when

our eyes cloud and will never view things the same again?

How should we behave? Why should we just walk back into life as

though nothing ever happened? How can we ever be expected to

smile again? How can we let go?

Amazingly enough, long before we were conceived, long before we

participated in life, God had a plan........a perfect plan.

He foresaw the need for this life to have a beginning as well as

an end. He created and thoroughly understood the complexities of

relating to others. He gave us the ability to love and draw

close. He knew the path our lives would take and how deeply we

would feel pain. He left nothing out.

He built within us the abilities to grieve without dying, to let

go without forgetting, to cope without quitting, to continue to

love those who have gone on, yet grow to love others more

strongly and even to add new love to our hearts.

He even gave us time......time to grieve.....time to heal and

time to grow from our new understanding.

Beyond our awesome creation, He knows exactly when we suffer

loss and how hard it is for us.

We are among those He just fell in love with from the start, He

is there for us no matter what our circumstances, what our pain,

no matter how we've lost our humor, He wants to wrap us in His

arms and receive comfort from Him.

We can relax in knowing He has always been there, will never

reject us, will always return our love and affection, and will

help us plan our future.

He will rejoice with us in our memories and restore our joy and

make our hearts pound loudly in our throats in anticipation of a

glad future.

We should not walk the same roads over again. He devised that

when our eyes have clouded with tears we should never view

things the same way again. We could grow bitter from sadness, or

we can grow and learn compassion. We should never behave as

though nothing ever happened. We should fondly remember that

knowing, then missing someone has changed us, that we were

blessed with the company of angels while they were here.

This amazingly perfect plan that God has, of which He mapped out

every possible outcome, leads us always back into His very

capable, loving arms.

It's not that He wants us to suffer, not that He wants us to

cry, not that He wants us to lose those we love dearly. God just

wants us to remember that while we were happily on our journey

with our loved one, He was happy too.

He leads us to know that after losing our loved one, when we

return to life more lonely, He steps up closer to us and not

only understands our loneliness, but helps us hold our head up.

When emptiness invades your sleep, He offers what no other

friend can..... serenity as deep as the emptiness and hope as

promising as the sunrise.

He is the one friend that cannot and will not die, and will

never leave our side.

He is the almighty creator who gave you forever your friend or

relative.

By Carla J.

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