Re: >>>>>>>>Sorry to all<<<< Vera, a seperate message at the end for u

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I am so sorry that I said I would leave this group. I have grown to

love so many of you and want everyone to have the right to say

whatever they need to say. That to me is what a support group is for.

We also have the right to agree or disagree, that is also called

democracy. I do think people are old enough to make their own

decisions and know to talk to their doctors before they do anything

first. We are here to give our opinion when it is asked and be

supportive BUT only your doctor has the final say. There are some of

us who might not care for another on this site but quite honestly I

believe if you don't care for that person you have that right also

but pettiness and insults do not belong in a support group. I will

say it again EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO THEIR OWN OPINION. When people

are given a diagnoses of a terminal illness we have to be uplifting

for them because I tell you the truth it is a whole lot easier to be

depressed and we have to do the same for the families of someone who

has the terminal illness. If we all felt the same way about

everything it would be boring. If our personalities were all the same

it would be pretty boring. We should never feel like if we say our

opinion that we would be ridiculed for it and I don't care who it is.

I could understand if we were talking to children but we aren't. I am

not saying anything else about this. I am done with it. I do have

alot of love for all of you. I do not dislike anyone on this list and

I do not want to see anyone on this list hurt for any reason. Maybe I

am the stupid one who sits here and say CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG!

Watch out I might just start singing. Have you ever heard someone

with speech problems sing? Believe me, it is not a pretty picture!

hehe Thank God the bible says make a joyful sound unto the Lord so

that mean I get to sing regardless. I promise not to get voice on

here! hehe Well, everyone have a good evening. I am going to sit and

watch my new grandchildren swim in the pool.

Lots of love and gentle hugs,

Belinda

Vera,

You are sunshine to me also, sweety!

Love ya bunches,

Belinda

> [unable to display image]Belinda: I know there are times when it

looks like the world is against us.

> I've had those times more then I'd like to say. Then other day's

the sun

> comes out and everything is just great. You've made many of my

days just

> beautiful when I wanted to cry, by just being here and saying hi.

Please

> don't feel that you shouldn't be here. It would hurt so many of us

that look

> forward to hearing from you each day.

>

> Hugs Vera