I can't suppress this feeling (long) part three

[Guest guest]

part three

Here’s the real deal. If there is anything out of order in Mr. Happy’s

enirons, it affects your mate. You can tell the mate till the cows come home

that it is not her, is not anythig about her, and she will want to believe

you, but won’t truly believe you deep in her heart. If she loves you, she

wants you. If she loves you, she wants to give you pleasure. if you are

always worried and fantasizing, not in a good way, about unscrewing Mr Happy

and throwing him against the wall hoping he will turn into a prince, you are

not being with her. You are being with your worries. She feels this, and is

bereft. She is sad because you are sad. She is anxious because you are

anxious. If she loves you, she cannot be separate and walled off from what

you worry about. This is why we say a guy takes best care of his mate when

he takes decent care of himself, for he then lifts away all her extra

worries and sadness—This allows her happiness in his happiness to shine

through.

So that’s the real deal for now Big Guy. I want to thank you for listening to

me, and want you to know that there are lots of people in this world who

notice what you go through everyday, and who want you to do your best and be

your best. There are so many things you are doing well and doing right. Just

make sure not to leave yourself out. What is a great guy? A great guy is a

guy who does what’s good for him even if his wife, mother, kids, father, boss

or any other soul, living or dead, would vehemently agree.

Hang in there, and be on your way now; there are lots of people rooting for

you.

THE GRANDMOTHER OF THE WORLD