dan : just two cents re old wounds

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In a message dated 10/16/02 8:08:19 PM, Graduate-OSSG writes:

<< I'll never understand indifference. >>

Its not indifference. It's pain, and protection, and lack of healing. when

you are completley healed you can talk to anyone about anything. When people

are silent, it is likely becuase they do not want to in any way disturb the

protective armor they have put around their wound. It' not you. It's an

interior issue. I am always touched by how, when peope are much older or

really old, they speak with such affection and regret and love for their

ex-spouses.

no human is indiffferent, if they tell you they are, they are lying.

Indifference means to be unbiased. Peope are not unbiased. they are not

equipment or machinery. Even the most out of touch person still has a spirit

that feels and records everything, even if it is outside the person's

consciousness. I always laugh when journalists claim to be obejctive. you

cannot be objective and be human. But, you can be just, you can be fair, you c

an admit to your biases and do your best.

But obejctive, indifferent, no such thing in my opinion.

love,

cp