Subject: ubject: ubject: Subject: Re: Subject: Vera

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Belinda:

At sometime we all feel sorry for ourself. I've done it more then once and I'm sure i'll do it again. So if you feel like it at all, well we understand.

Doctor said the same thing about Fred's head "It's a good thing it's hard, but not to be to hardheaded , it could hurt him"

Thing is with Hannah here and him not using his walker the way he used, if he falls, he takes a chance on falling on her. 256 lbs falling on a 26 lb baby could really hurt her. This last time he fell and she got scared was because he just missed falling on her. I just want things to be safe. That's all. Doctor's requested the things, so they must feel that it's best for him to use them, so why not use them? I can't believe he enjoy's hitting his head or falling all the time. I know I wouldn't.

If you do find a huge tube of super glue make sure it's this BIG of it won't be enough. Not when it's Fred .

Hey! Timo was up late last night also, or then it could of been early in the morning or maybe it could of been during the day. Oh! I don't know when it was. He'd have to tell you. I know nothing about his time... )

Take Care & hugs

Vera

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Subject: ubject: ubject: Subject: Re: Subject: Vera

Vera,

I guess in some aspects we have to be thankful that Fred does have a

hard head. Is it the fact that he doesn't want to be in a wheelchair

and wants to walk? I am sure this worries you and also might scare

Hannah to think her grandfather might be hurt. I know that I can be

stubborn also and since I haven't got to that stage yet I do not know

how I will be. I know I was suppose to hire an OT and get a

wheelchair ordered but haven't yet. I guess I am trying to put it off

as long as possible also. I guess since I don't get out much as it is

I think if I get in a wheelchair I won't ever go anywhere except for

the doctor and hopefully I can still go to church. I hate to ask

anyone to take me anywhere and my husband works and has to run the

kids so much that I am stuck at home. Ok, now I am off my poor little

ole me! LOL Sorry, I was really sounded sorry for myself and actually

I don't. Please don't take it that way because I have plenty to do

around here. I have my yard, my computer, my friends online, my books

I want to read and they are piling up with all the people giving them

to me. I need to read to keep my brain active. I call it my brain

exercise. I also go to church and watch my home and garden channel. I

am fortunate actually. See if we just start thinking we have alot to

be thankful for! Your answer to was I up. Yes, I was up but I had

only been up for an hour. I had a bad dream of a man beating his

wife. LOL the dreams I have, I wonder where they come from. When I

went back to sleep the dreams were gone. Thankfully! LOL! Well Vera,

I am praying for you as well as the rest. Hope you have a wonderful

day today and if I can find a huge tube of super glue I will send it

to you!

God bless,

Belinda