Guest guest Posted April 5, 2002 Report Share Posted April 5, 2002 , You can write letters like this one anytime you want. It gave my wife ( the care giver) and me (the Patient) a blessing. Your description of our family is most eloquent and right on. You wrote " > As far as the value of this support site, I have much appreciated > reading the posts of all of the wonderful people here at the support > group. My sister came on here once, and then never returned. She > probably found it depressing, as she is easily depressed at the > thought of her condition, and it is difficult for her to sit at her > computer now. I find this support to be good, however, and I have > been happy to meet many wonderful people through this site. I feel > mountains of love, and faith in the goodness of God's people, here, > amongst all of you. You are people who know how to turn the burden > of catastrophic and disabling conditions, into a blessing " . I believe we have some of the most compassionate and understanding people on earth. God Bless You and your sister, Judy and Jim Stark MSA-age when disgnosed-1st onset of symptoms > My sister started having symptoms in 1999, at the age of 51. When > she was 52, she was diagnosed with Orthostatic Hypotension, and was > told to increase the amount of salt in her diet. At the age of 53, > she had to stop working, because she was fainting so much, and she > had also developed cardiac arythmia. During the same year, she was > diagnosed with MSA by Dr. Low, at the Mayo Clinic, after 3 days of > tests. > > My sister is now 54, and Dr. Low has ordered her into her local > hospice program. She has little will left to fight her symptoms, > which include (among other things) pain, inability to walk more than > a few feet at a time, frequent infections, difficulty speaking and > swallowing, alternating diarrhea or constipation. I think that the > pain is the hardest part for her right now, although I don't read > much mention of pain as a symptom of the MSA patients here on the > support site, so I am not sure why she is feeling it. The doctors > mention the possibility of " neuropathy, " in regards to the pain. > > My sister lives in a remote area of New Mexico, and it is difficult > or impossible for her to travel, due to her inability to remain > upright for any substantial amount of time. She has an appointment > with Dr. Low in June, but heaven knows if she will be able to travel > at that time, because she is already so weak. We have learned that > even after being at her worst, she may be able to rebound somewhat, > at least for awhile. > > At this time, we are praying for comfort and peace, for my sister, > and if this means that she will not be with us much longer, then so > be it. We don't want her to continue to live with the pain as she > feels it now. She does not want to burden any of us, as she is less > and less able to care for herself. > > As far as the value of this support site, I have much appreciated > reading the posts of all of the wonderful people here at the support > group. My sister came on here once, and then never returned. She > probably found it depressing, as she is easily depressed at the > thought of her condition, and it is difficult for her to sit at her > computer now. I find this support to be good, however, and I have > been happy to meet many wonderful people through this site. I feel > mountains of love, and faith in the goodness of God's people, here, > amongst all of you. You are people who know how to turn the burden > of catastrophic and disabling conditions, into a blessing. > > As J. Fox says of his own experience with PD, he finally > knows what a blessing his life is - how fortunate he has been, that > through his diagnosis, he has become more grounded and he appreciates > all that he has in his life, that many people never have in their > entire lifetimes. He has many good fortunes, including having had > the time to sort through all of his feelings - and he has had his ups > and downs through it all. > > For whatever reasons, some of us have conditions that we cannot > control, and some of us need more help just to be able to do normal > daily functions. The more independent our personalities are, the > more difficult it can be for us to rely on others to care for us. > It's not always easy for the needy one to accept dependence on others. > > The physically needy may not understand what gifts they are to the > more able-bodied. Caregiving is God's work, and the caregiver has a > place with God's angels, for the remainder of eternity. Just being > able to lighten someone else's burden, is a gift. I can see that > many of you, here in this group, realize how blessed you are, by your > experiences, and by your ability to see good when others are still in > the dark. > > As for the cause of my sister's condition - everything started > happening to her, after the fires at the Los Alamos nuclear reactor > plant. When the fires were burning, she, and everyone else in her > area, breathed in the ash from the fires, as it was in the air, > everywhere. There was no way to escape it. No one is saying for > sure, but it is speculated that environmental factors may be a > contributing factor in the development of MSA. > > Oh boy... I just wanted to answer a few simple questions, and here I > am, rambling on...... Sorry for the epistle. For me, writing is > good therapy. I hope that this helps in determining ages of onset of > symptoms, and diagnosis of MSA patients. Peace to everyone > here....... - (pistachio53) > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > shydrager-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2002 Report Share Posted April 5, 2002 > , > > You can write letters like this one anytime you want. It gave my wife ( the > care giver) and me (the Patient) a blessing. > > Your description of our family is most eloquent and right on. > > You wrote " > As far as the value of this support site, I have much > appreciated > > reading the posts of all of the wonderful people here at the support > > group. My sister came on here once, and then never returned. She > > probably found it depressing, as she is easily depressed at the > > thought of her condition, and it is difficult for her to sit at her > > computer now. I find this support to be good, however, and I have > > been happy to meet many wonderful people through this site. I feel > > mountains of love, and faith in the goodness of God's people, here, > > amongst all of you. You are people who know how to turn the burden > > of catastrophic and disabling conditions, into a blessing " . > > I believe we have some of the most compassionate and understanding people on > earth. > > God Bless You and your sister, > Judy and Jim Stark > > > > MSA-age when disgnosed-1st onset of symptoms > > > > My sister started having symptoms in 1999, at the age of 51. When > > she was 52, she was diagnosed with Orthostatic Hypotension, and was > > told to increase the amount of salt in her diet. At the age of 53, > > she had to stop working, because she was fainting so much, and she > > had also developed cardiac arythmia. During the same year, she was > > diagnosed with MSA by Dr. Low, at the Mayo Clinic, after 3 days of > > tests. > > > > My sister is now 54, and Dr. Low has ordered her into her local > > hospice program. She has little will left to fight her symptoms, > > which include (among other things) pain, inability to walk more than > > a few feet at a time, frequent infections, difficulty speaking and > > swallowing, alternating diarrhea or constipation. I think that the > > pain is the hardest part for her right now, although I don't read > > much mention of pain as a symptom of the MSA patients here on the > > support site, so I am not sure why she is feeling it. The doctors > > mention the possibility of " neuropathy, " in regards to the pain. > > > > My sister lives in a remote area of New Mexico, and it is difficult > > or impossible for her to travel, due to her inability to remain > > upright for any substantial amount of time. She has an appointment > > with Dr. Low in June, but heaven knows if she will be able to travel > > at that time, because she is already so weak. We have learned that > > even after being at her worst, she may be able to rebound somewhat, > > at least for awhile. > > > > At this time, we are praying for comfort and peace, for my sister, > > and if this means that she will not be with us much longer, then so > > be it. We don't want her to continue to live with the pain as she > > feels it now. She does not want to burden any of us, as she is less > > and less able to care for herself. > > > > As far as the value of this support site, I have much appreciated > > reading the posts of all of the wonderful people here at the support > > group. My sister came on here once, and then never returned. She > > probably found it depressing, as she is easily depressed at the > > thought of her condition, and it is difficult for her to sit at her > > computer now. I find this support to be good, however, and I have > > been happy to meet many wonderful people through this site. I feel > > mountains of love, and faith in the goodness of God's people, here, > > amongst all of you. You are people who know how to turn the burden > > of catastrophic and disabling conditions, into a blessing. > > > > As J. Fox says of his own experience with PD, he finally > > knows what a blessing his life is - how fortunate he has been, that > > through his diagnosis, he has become more grounded and he appreciates > > all that he has in his life, that many people never have in their > > entire lifetimes. He has many good fortunes, including having had > > the time to sort through all of his feelings - and he has had his ups > > and downs through it all. > > > > For whatever reasons, some of us have conditions that we cannot > > control, and some of us need more help just to be able to do normal > > daily functions. The more independent our personalities are, the > > more difficult it can be for us to rely on others to care for us. > > It's not always easy for the needy one to accept dependence on others. > > > > The physically needy may not understand what gifts they are to the > > more able-bodied. Caregiving is God's work, and the caregiver has a > > place with God's angels, for the remainder of eternity. Just being > > able to lighten someone else's burden, is a gift. I can see that > > many of you, here in this group, realize how blessed you are, by your > > experiences, and by your ability to see good when others are still in > > the dark. > > > > As for the cause of my sister's condition - everything started > > happening to her, after the fires at the Los Alamos nuclear reactor > > plant. When the fires were burning, she, and everyone else in her > > area, breathed in the ash from the fires, as it was in the air, > > everywhere. There was no way to escape it. No one is saying for > > sure, but it is speculated that environmental factors may be a > > contributing factor in the development of MSA. > > > > Oh boy... I just wanted to answer a few simple questions, and here I > > am, rambling on...... Sorry for the epistle. For me, writing is > > good therapy. I hope that this helps in determining ages of onset of > > symptoms, and diagnosis of MSA patients. Peace to everyone > > here....... - (pistachio53) > > > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > > > shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2002 Report Share Posted April 5, 2002 Thank you, Jim, for being so understanding. - (pistachio53) > , > > You can write letters like this one anytime you want. It gave my wife ( the > care giver) and me (the Patient) a blessing. > > Your description of our family is most eloquent and right on. > > You wrote " > As far as the value of this support site, I have much > appreciated > > reading the posts of all of the wonderful people here at the support > > group. My sister came on here once, and then never returned. She > > probably found it depressing, as she is easily depressed at the > > thought of her condition, and it is difficult for her to sit at her > > computer now. I find this support to be good, however, and I have > > been happy to meet many wonderful people through this site. I feel > > mountains of love, and faith in the goodness of God's people, here, > > amongst all of you. You are people who know how to turn the burden > > of catastrophic and disabling conditions, into a blessing " . > > I believe we have some of the most compassionate and understanding people on > earth. > > God Bless You and your sister, > Judy and Jim Stark > > > > MSA-age when disgnosed-1st onset of symptoms > > > > My sister started having symptoms in 1999, at the age of 51. When > > she was 52, she was diagnosed with Orthostatic Hypotension, and was > > told to increase the amount of salt in her diet. At the age of 53, > > she had to stop working, because she was fainting so much, and she > > had also developed cardiac arythmia. During the same year, she was > > diagnosed with MSA by Dr. Low, at the Mayo Clinic, after 3 days of > > tests. > > > > My sister is now 54, and Dr. Low has ordered her into her local > > hospice program. She has little will left to fight her symptoms, > > which include (among other things) pain, inability to walk more than > > a few feet at a time, frequent infections, difficulty speaking and > > swallowing, alternating diarrhea or constipation. I think that the > > pain is the hardest part for her right now, although I don't read > > much mention of pain as a symptom of the MSA patients here on the > > support site, so I am not sure why she is feeling it. The doctors > > mention the possibility of " neuropathy, " in regards to the pain. > > > > My sister lives in a remote area of New Mexico, and it is difficult > > or impossible for her to travel, due to her inability to remain > > upright for any substantial amount of time. She has an appointment > > with Dr. Low in June, but heaven knows if she will be able to travel > > at that time, because she is already so weak. We have learned that > > even after being at her worst, she may be able to rebound somewhat, > > at least for awhile. > > > > At this time, we are praying for comfort and peace, for my sister, > > and if this means that she will not be with us much longer, then so > > be it. We don't want her to continue to live with the pain as she > > feels it now. She does not want to burden any of us, as she is less > > and less able to care for herself. > > > > As far as the value of this support site, I have much appreciated > > reading the posts of all of the wonderful people here at the support > > group. My sister came on here once, and then never returned. She > > probably found it depressing, as she is easily depressed at the > > thought of her condition, and it is difficult for her to sit at her > > computer now. I find this support to be good, however, and I have > > been happy to meet many wonderful people through this site. I feel > > mountains of love, and faith in the goodness of God's people, here, > > amongst all of you. You are people who know how to turn the burden > > of catastrophic and disabling conditions, into a blessing. > > > > As J. Fox says of his own experience with PD, he finally > > knows what a blessing his life is - how fortunate he has been, that > > through his diagnosis, he has become more grounded and he appreciates > > all that he has in his life, that many people never have in their > > entire lifetimes. He has many good fortunes, including having had > > the time to sort through all of his feelings - and he has had his ups > > and downs through it all. > > > > For whatever reasons, some of us have conditions that we cannot > > control, and some of us need more help just to be able to do normal > > daily functions. The more independent our personalities are, the > > more difficult it can be for us to rely on others to care for us. > > It's not always easy for the needy one to accept dependence on others. > > > > The physically needy may not understand what gifts they are to the > > more able-bodied. Caregiving is God's work, and the caregiver has a > > place with God's angels, for the remainder of eternity. Just being > > able to lighten someone else's burden, is a gift. I can see that > > many of you, here in this group, realize how blessed you are, by your > > experiences, and by your ability to see good when others are still in > > the dark. > > > > As for the cause of my sister's condition - everything started > > happening to her, after the fires at the Los Alamos nuclear reactor > > plant. When the fires were burning, she, and everyone else in her > > area, breathed in the ash from the fires, as it was in the air, > > everywhere. There was no way to escape it. No one is saying for > > sure, but it is speculated that environmental factors may be a > > contributing factor in the development of MSA. > > > > Oh boy... I just wanted to answer a few simple questions, and here I > > am, rambling on...... Sorry for the epistle. For me, writing is > > good therapy. I hope that this helps in determining ages of onset of > > symptoms, and diagnosis of MSA patients. Peace to everyone > > here....... - (pistachio53) > > > > > > If you do not wish to belong to shydrager, you may > > unsubscribe by sending a blank email to > > > > shydrager-unsubscribe@y... > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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