Aaargh! They just don't get it!!!

[Guest guest]

Vicki,

You just keep on doing what you are doing and know that you and your kids

will benefit...and if hubby doesn't " get it " then its his problem.....I know

so many couples that have these sort of problems that happen after WLS...some

make it and others don't. Its often said that WLS makes good marriages better

and not so good marriages worse....

I am so thankful that my hubby is one of the " good " ones...I am celebrating

my 22 anniversary next month and hubby has been with me thru thick and

thin...(literally and figuratively !!) He loved me when I was big and adores

me now that I am thin....He always found me attractive...I love him very much

but my problem is that his credibility is shot !!!!

He complements me constantly...but I am a size 4-6 now....He complemented and

thought I was sexy & desirable when I was a size 22-24....so how can I

believe him now......

Actually this is not a serious problem...just a minor laughing issue we

conatantly talk about...but do any of you feel the same way??? I take

complements more seriously from friends and strangers then from my

hubby....after all if he complemented me when I was fat how do I believe him

now???? I think he feels a bit offended that I don't take his comments

seriously....

I actually feel a bit guilty complaining about this issue when actually he is

a wonderfully supportive man and I hope we have many more happy years

ahead....

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((¸¸.·´ ..·´ .· -:¦:- Bonnie -:¦:-

-:¦:- ((¸¸.·´*

12/15/99 Lap RNY

Dr. Andrei

228/115

-113 lbs @ goal

11/19/01 Extended Abdominoplasty

3/29/02 Brachioplasty (bat-wing-ectomy)

The doctor shall remain nameless cause

I was less then thrilled with the results...

7/31/02 Breast Lift, Thigh Tuck

& revision of Tummy Tuck & Arms

By Dr. Zachary Gerut , NY

A wonderful plastic surgeon !!!