Subject: ubject: ubject: Subject: Re: Subject: Vera

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Vera,

I would hate to see 256 pounds fall on your 26 pound Hannah! I

understand where you are coming from! Still looking for the

superglue. LOL!!

Lots of love and gentle hugs,

Belinda

> Belinda:

> At sometime we all feel sorry for ourself. I've done it more then

once and

> I'm sure i'll do it again. So if you feel like it at all, well we

understand.

>

> Doctor said the same thing about Fred's head " It's a good thing

it's hard,

> but not to be to hardheaded , it could hurt him "

> Thing is with Hannah here and him not using his walker the way he

used, if he

> falls, he takes a chance on falling on her. 256 lbs falling on a 26

lb baby

> could really hurt her. This last time he fell and she got scared

was because

> he just missed falling on her. I just want things to be safe.

That's all.

> Doctor's requested the things, so they must feel that it's best for

him to

> use them, so why not use them? I can't believe he enjoy's hitting

his head or

> falling all the time. I know I wouldn't.

> If you do find a huge tube of super glue make sure it's this BIG of

it won't

> be enough. Not when it's Fred .

> Hey! Timo was up late last night also, or then it could of been

early in the

> morning or maybe it could of been during the day. Oh! I don't know

when it

> was. He'd have to tell you. I know nothing about his time... )

>

> Take Care & hugs

> Vera

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>

> Subject: ubject: ubject: Subject: Re: Subject: Vera

>

>

> Vera,

> I guess in some aspects we have to be thankful that Fred does have

a

> hard head. Is it the fact that he doesn't want to be in a

wheelchair

> and wants to walk? I am sure this worries you and also might scare

> Hannah to think her grandfather might be hurt. I know that I can be

> stubborn also and since I haven't got to that stage yet I do not

know

> how I will be. I know I was suppose to hire an OT and get a

> wheelchair ordered but haven't yet. I guess I am trying to put it

off

> as long as possible also. I guess since I don't get out much as it

is

> I think if I get in a wheelchair I won't ever go anywhere except

for

> the doctor and hopefully I can still go to church. I hate to ask

> anyone to take me anywhere and my husband works and has to run the

> kids so much that I am stuck at home. Ok, now I am off my poor

little

> ole me! LOL Sorry, I was really sounded sorry for myself and

actually

> I don't. Please don't take it that way because I have plenty to do

> around here. I have my yard, my computer, my friends online, my

books

> I want to read and they are piling up with all the people giving

them

> to me. I need to read to keep my brain active. I call it my brain

> exercise. I also go to church and watch my home and garden channel.

I

> am fortunate actually. See if we just start thinking we have alot

to

> be thankful for! Your answer to was I up. Yes, I was up but I had

> only been up for an hour. I had a bad dream of a man beating his

> wife. LOL the dreams I have, I wonder where they come from. When I

> went back to sleep the dreams were gone. Thankfully! LOL! Well

Vera,

> I am praying for you as well as the rest. Hope you have a wonderful

> day today and if I can find a huge tube of super glue I will send

it

> to you!

> God bless,

> Belinda