Subject: Subject: Re: Subject: Re: Motorized w/c >bELINDA

[Guest guest]

Dear Vera,

i don't understand kids sometimes. It does seem because Fred is sick

that they would want to spend as much time with him as possible. I

think they would also realize that when he is tired or feeling extra

bad that day that he can't help it if he isn't a bowl full of

cherries. I am that way. If I don't feel well then everyone better

leave me alone! I become a bear if they don't. It isn't something you

mean to do it just happens. I think most people are that way. I know

some people like to be babied but I think the majority doesn't. I

have a 23 yr old son. He has been married and divorced. When he was

married the girl didn't want him around us so he wasn't. It hurt

really bad. I was happy when they divorced. I know that isn't the way

it should be but I see him a lot more now. He is getting remarried to

a girl who has 2 boys age 5 and 10. She is 7 years older than he is.

I was worried about that at first but she seems to like us and he is

still coming around. She cooked dinner for all of us tonight and it

was real good. I think she will be ok. She has been good to me and I

am thankful she has not come between me and my son. What they say a

son is a son til he takes a wife, a daughter is a daughter all of her

life. I have 3 sons and 1 daughter. We will see because you never

know. We all get down sometimes and anyone that says he/she doesn't I

would not rely on them for being honest. You are entitled to get

down. With all that you are do I think you handle everything

remarkably well. Sending a lot of smiles to you because you make me

smile a lot.

God Bless,

Belinda

> Belinda:

> Sure Belinda I'll adopt you. I always have room in my heart for one

more

> grandkid. My daughter is planning to marry soon. Not sure when it

will be for

> sure, but her and called today and said that they want to

have a small

> wedding , they want Fred to see them get married and they can see

that the

> MSA is progressing , so they want to do it soon. asked me a

few weeks

> ago , would I want another grandchild someday. I tolded her I

always have

> room in my heart for one more grandchild. All she could say was I

love you

> mommie... I do have a sad spot in my life when it comes to some of

my

> grandkids. I have a son who has three little girls. They only live

a few

> miles away, but they wont come over with the kids. Heath my son

and his wife

> came over last June right after Fred got out of the hospital with

the

> pneumonia the first time, but didn't have the kids. Then I called

to tell

> them Fred was in the hosptial in September with pneumonia, that

time they

> didn't even call. Our son showed up about four weeks ago. Fred

wasn't here he

> was fishing, so he didn't get to see Heath. Heath said he would

come back the

> next week, but so far he hasn't came. His youngest is 3 year's old.

The last

> time we saw her was when she was 3 months old. I hear they don't

come around

> because of Fred's illness from what my daughter in law's mother

said. I think

> it's sad that they don't let the girls be apart of Fred's life, the

life he

> still has.

>

> Ok! enough of this. I picked myself up and now it's time to smile

again.

> Don't you think?

>

> Hugs Vera

>

> ******************************

> Subject: Subject: Re: Subject: Re: Motorized w/c >Sally>Vera

>

> Vera,

> It sounds like so much fun being your grandchild. Will you adopt

me?

> LOL

> Love ya,

> Belinda

>

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