Re: a seperate message at the end

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No you'r getting the idea. You can have an opinion always, as long as you

are with us and we are with you. Your opinion is important, even if it

" only " helps us understand what makes you feel unhappy. I'm sure that after

you get it off your chest, it will not feel so bad.

Aussie Bill

Re: >>>>>>>>Sorry to all<<<< Vera, a seperate message at the

end for u

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> I am so sorry that I said I would leave this group. I have grown to

> love so many of you and want everyone to have the right to say

> whatever they need to say. That to me is what a support group is for.

> We also have the right to agree or disagree, that is also called

> democracy. I do think people are old enough to make their own

> decisions and know to talk to their doctors before they do anything

> first. We are here to give our opinion when it is asked and be

> supportive BUT only your doctor has the final say. There are some of

> us who might not care for another on this site but quite honestly I

> believe if you don't care for that person you have that right also

> but pettiness and insults do not belong in a support group. I will

> say it again EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO THEIR OWN OPINION. When people

> are given a diagnoses of a terminal illness we have to be uplifting

> for them because I tell you the truth it is a whole lot easier to be

> depressed and we have to do the same for the families of someone who

> has the terminal illness. If we all felt the same way about

> everything it would be boring. If our personalities were all the same

> it would be pretty boring. We should never feel like if we say our

> opinion that we would be ridiculed for it and I don't care who it is.

> I could understand if we were talking to children but we aren't. I am

> not saying anything else about this. I am done with it. I do have

> alot of love for all of you. I do not dislike anyone on this list and

> I do not want to see anyone on this list hurt for any reason. Maybe I

> am the stupid one who sits here and say CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG!

> Watch out I might just start singing. Have you ever heard someone

> with speech problems sing? Believe me, it is not a pretty picture!

> hehe Thank God the bible says make a joyful sound unto the Lord so

> that mean I get to sing regardless. I promise not to get voice on

> here! hehe Well, everyone have a good evening. I am going to sit and

> watch my new grandchildren swim in the pool.

> Lots of love and gentle hugs,

> Belinda

>

> Vera,

> You are sunshine to me also, sweety!

> Love ya bunches,

> Belinda

>

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> > [unable to display image]Belinda: I know there are times when it

> looks like the world is against us.

> > I've had those times more then I'd like to say. Then other day's

> the sun

> > comes out and everything is just great. You've made many of my

> days just

> > beautiful when I wanted to cry, by just being here and saying hi.

> Please

> > don't feel that you shouldn't be here. It would hurt so many of us

> that look

> > forward to hearing from you each day.

> >

> > Hugs Vera

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