Re: husbands, wives and lovers

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In a message dated 10/17/02 3:02:44 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

the3latours@... writes:

> Ofcourse maybe I am just old fashioned or very

> concervative in my beleifs, but I am what I am. I dont beleive in

> porn for married couples or strip bars, much for the same reason,

> although it seems harmless enough at first, it can lead to

> dissatisfaction with yourself or partner, or cause your partner to

> have self doubt.

Ahhh, here is my two cents...no slamming either...my spouse and I have been

together for 17 WONDERFUL years...porn is something we look forward to,

together...we both have a very healthy sexual appetite and I SAY " As long as

we BOTH agree with it, then let's do it " meaning, watching porn, flirting,

strip clubs, etc...different strokes for different folks...some couples are

in to " Swinging " , now, I always thought hubby and I were open to mostly

everything but THAT is not our style...we enjoy being together just the two

of us, but flirting and porn is not harmful in the least...my hubby always

says " He always comes home to me because he knows where his tube steak is

seasoned best " he he he...flirting is harmless fun UNLESS someone is looking

for outside action and if that is the case, flirting, titty bars or porn wont

matter...where there is a will there is a way and if someone wants

extracurricular activity they will find it regardless...old fashioned or new

aged, i NEVER judge someone else's choices unless they affect me

personally...their business, NOT MINE!!!!!

Alvie

April 2001 -126

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In a message dated 10/17/02 3:02:44 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

the3latours@... writes:

> Ofcourse maybe I am just old fashioned or very

> concervative in my beleifs, but I am what I am. I dont beleive in

> porn for married couples or strip bars, much for the same reason,

> although it seems harmless enough at first, it can lead to

> dissatisfaction with yourself or partner, or cause your partner to

> have self doubt.

Ahhh, here is my two cents...no slamming either...my spouse and I have been

together for 17 WONDERFUL years...porn is something we look forward to,

together...we both have a very healthy sexual appetite and I SAY " As long as

we BOTH agree with it, then let's do it " meaning, watching porn, flirting,

strip clubs, etc...different strokes for different folks...some couples are

in to " Swinging " , now, I always thought hubby and I were open to mostly

everything but THAT is not our style...we enjoy being together just the two

of us, but flirting and porn is not harmful in the least...my hubby always

says " He always comes home to me because he knows where his tube steak is

seasoned best " he he he...flirting is harmless fun UNLESS someone is looking

for outside action and if that is the case, flirting, titty bars or porn wont

matter...where there is a will there is a way and if someone wants

extracurricular activity they will find it regardless...old fashioned or new

aged, i NEVER judge someone else's choices unless they affect me

personally...their business, NOT MINE!!!!!

Alvie

April 2001 -126

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 10/17/02 3:02:44 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

the3latours@... writes:

> Ofcourse maybe I am just old fashioned or very

> concervative in my beleifs, but I am what I am. I dont beleive in

> porn for married couples or strip bars, much for the same reason,

> although it seems harmless enough at first, it can lead to

> dissatisfaction with yourself or partner, or cause your partner to

> have self doubt.

Ahhh, here is my two cents...no slamming either...my spouse and I have been

together for 17 WONDERFUL years...porn is something we look forward to,

together...we both have a very healthy sexual appetite and I SAY " As long as

we BOTH agree with it, then let's do it " meaning, watching porn, flirting,

strip clubs, etc...different strokes for different folks...some couples are

in to " Swinging " , now, I always thought hubby and I were open to mostly

everything but THAT is not our style...we enjoy being together just the two

of us, but flirting and porn is not harmful in the least...my hubby always

says " He always comes home to me because he knows where his tube steak is

seasoned best " he he he...flirting is harmless fun UNLESS someone is looking

for outside action and if that is the case, flirting, titty bars or porn wont

matter...where there is a will there is a way and if someone wants

extracurricular activity they will find it regardless...old fashioned or new

aged, i NEVER judge someone else's choices unless they affect me

personally...their business, NOT MINE!!!!!

Alvie

April 2001 -126

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" i NEVER judge someone else's choices unless they affect me

personally...their business, NOT MINE!!!!! "

I have an issue when it affects ME, innocent flirting that gives me the

wrong impression is what I am sick of. Husbands that slink back to boink

their wives after getting a mental off on me irks me. Keep your dang dogs

on a leash. It also irks me when they actually want extra curricular

activity, at least I can say no to that. Its the fake out and the man that

pretends to be single or interested to get his jollies that's just as big a

jerk and his wife buys into it. He says its okay, what the hell does he

know, of course he says its okay its his game!

Personally, it'd be more humane for him to go to strip bars, and pick up

bars and ho's than to swoop on poor innocent women going about their own

business with their hearts open for mister right just to have some creep

that thinks he's Gods gift to all women play his stupid games. If you trust

him so much, let him go pay for a mental romp with someone whos a

professional. Its pretty unfair. Honestly, I think he's trolling, I dont

believe in innocent flirting. I'm not talking a look or a smile, I'm

talking about more serious stuff here.

I've about decided that single men dont act that way at all. I think there

are so many women out there climbing all over them they dont have to flirt

at all. I'm not taking a number, or settling for sloppy seconds. I'm doing

what I love to do and busy being happy that should be the biggest turn on of

all.