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Hi Cathy,

Actually I didn't discuss it much with anyone but my husband, who goes in on Tuesday and I should follow right after.

I actually liked not talking to many people, I went to class, learned the truth, and now after the fact, I will be well informed about truth rather than fiction, paranoia, whatever. I also know that things happen, if I get a cold it is postponed, by not mentioning it, nobody is traeting me like a science project.It is nobody's freakin business how much I eat, what I eat, or if I dump. They didn't ask to weigh my food before surgury, it's none of their business afterwards either. I realise that sound grouchy, but in reality I am by far one of the most outgoing people in the world. But my friends will be my friends, and co workers will be coworkers..... nothing should change. One guy at work did have surgury about one year ago, I did chat with him, after assuring him that he was my friend before, would still be regardless and if I ever get too "ask-y" my feeling would not be hurt if he told me so. He was the brunt of insensitive co workers who would ask in the midst of a crowd "so

how much have you lost? What did you weigh? How much more do you need to lose? Do you throw up?" I decided right then and there not to say anything before or after to people like that..... I won't be rude, but it's none of their business. That way I won't listen to everyone's horror stories about botched surguries, urban legends or what I shuld have tried first.

That is my two cents about it.

Best wishes on your future!

Sue in Palmdale.

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Hi Cathy,

Actually I didn't discuss it much with anyone but my husband, who goes in on Tuesday and I should follow right after.

I actually liked not talking to many people, I went to class, learned the truth, and now after the fact, I will be well informed about truth rather than fiction, paranoia, whatever. I also know that things happen, if I get a cold it is postponed, by not mentioning it, nobody is traeting me like a science project.It is nobody's freakin business how much I eat, what I eat, or if I dump. They didn't ask to weigh my food before surgury, it's none of their business afterwards either. I realise that sound grouchy, but in reality I am by far one of the most outgoing people in the world. But my friends will be my friends, and co workers will be coworkers..... nothing should change. One guy at work did have surgury about one year ago, I did chat with him, after assuring him that he was my friend before, would still be regardless and if I ever get too "ask-y" my feeling would not be hurt if he told me so. He was the brunt of insensitive co workers who would ask in the midst of a crowd "so

how much have you lost? What did you weigh? How much more do you need to lose? Do you throw up?" I decided right then and there not to say anything before or after to people like that..... I won't be rude, but it's none of their business. That way I won't listen to everyone's horror stories about botched surguries, urban legends or what I shuld have tried first.

That is my two cents about it.

Best wishes on your future!

Sue in Palmdale.

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Hi Cathy,

Actually I didn't discuss it much with anyone but my husband, who goes in on Tuesday and I should follow right after.

I actually liked not talking to many people, I went to class, learned the truth, and now after the fact, I will be well informed about truth rather than fiction, paranoia, whatever. I also know that things happen, if I get a cold it is postponed, by not mentioning it, nobody is traeting me like a science project.It is nobody's freakin business how much I eat, what I eat, or if I dump. They didn't ask to weigh my food before surgury, it's none of their business afterwards either. I realise that sound grouchy, but in reality I am by far one of the most outgoing people in the world. But my friends will be my friends, and co workers will be coworkers..... nothing should change. One guy at work did have surgury about one year ago, I did chat with him, after assuring him that he was my friend before, would still be regardless and if I ever get too "ask-y" my feeling would not be hurt if he told me so. He was the brunt of insensitive co workers who would ask in the midst of a crowd "so

how much have you lost? What did you weigh? How much more do you need to lose? Do you throw up?" I decided right then and there not to say anything before or after to people like that..... I won't be rude, but it's none of their business. That way I won't listen to everyone's horror stories about botched surguries, urban legends or what I shuld have tried first.

That is my two cents about it.

Best wishes on your future!

Sue in Palmdale.

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Hi Pam,

First of all, if you are planning on RIDING , and you don't have

tickets, forget it. They've been sold out for months. If you do have

tickets, don't worry too much about the walk from the parking lot. There

is a little shuttle train that goes from the parking area to the depot.

How old is your son? There are a fair number of activities that you can

sit and watch him on, such as one of those bouncy houses, a hay bale

maze, etc.

Depending on how limited you are, take a cane. This will encourage

people to let you sit down when you need to, etc. If you have one with

the attached seat that folds down, so much the better. Enjoy!

flo boss wrote:

>Eleanor, I will be taking my son to in Roaring

>Camp next week-end, and am very nervous as I do not

>ambulate well. About how far are the trains from the

>parking lot? Is there alot of walking involved?

>

--

Eleanor Oster

eleanor@... (personal address)

www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

San , CA

Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

~5'9 " tall

05/09/2003 319 Orientation

07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

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Hi Pam,

First of all, if you are planning on RIDING , and you don't have

tickets, forget it. They've been sold out for months. If you do have

tickets, don't worry too much about the walk from the parking lot. There

is a little shuttle train that goes from the parking area to the depot.

How old is your son? There are a fair number of activities that you can

sit and watch him on, such as one of those bouncy houses, a hay bale

maze, etc.

Depending on how limited you are, take a cane. This will encourage

people to let you sit down when you need to, etc. If you have one with

the attached seat that folds down, so much the better. Enjoy!

flo boss wrote:

>Eleanor, I will be taking my son to in Roaring

>Camp next week-end, and am very nervous as I do not

>ambulate well. About how far are the trains from the

>parking lot? Is there alot of walking involved?

>

--

Eleanor Oster

eleanor@... (personal address)

www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

San , CA

Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

~5'9 " tall

05/09/2003 319 Orientation

07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

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Thanks for the info, Eleanor. We have had tickets for

a few months now. And I don't have a cane,

unfortunately, so I am a little scared...

Pam

--- Eleanor Oster wls@...> wrote:

> Hi Pam,

>

> First of all, if you are planning on RIDING ,

> and you don't have

> tickets, forget it. They've been sold out for

> months. If you do have

> tickets, don't worry too much about the walk from

> the parking lot. There

> is a little shuttle train that goes from the parking

> area to the depot.

> How old is your son? There are a fair number of

> activities that you can

> sit and watch him on, such as one of those bouncy

> houses, a hay bale

> maze, etc.

>

> Depending on how limited you are, take a cane. This

> will encourage

> people to let you sit down when you need to, etc. If

> you have one with

> the attached seat that folds down, so much the

> better. Enjoy!

>

> flo boss wrote:

>

> >Eleanor, I will be taking my son to in

> Roaring

> >Camp next week-end, and am very nervous as I do not

> >ambulate well. About how far are the trains from

> the

> >parking lot? Is there alot of walking involved?

> >

> --

>

> Eleanor Oster

> eleanor@... (personal address)

> www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> San , CA

> Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> ~5'9 " tall

> 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

>

>

____________________________________________________

Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page

http://www.yahoo.com/r/hs

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Thanks for the info, Eleanor. We have had tickets for

a few months now. And I don't have a cane,

unfortunately, so I am a little scared...

Pam

--- Eleanor Oster wls@...> wrote:

> Hi Pam,

>

> First of all, if you are planning on RIDING ,

> and you don't have

> tickets, forget it. They've been sold out for

> months. If you do have

> tickets, don't worry too much about the walk from

> the parking lot. There

> is a little shuttle train that goes from the parking

> area to the depot.

> How old is your son? There are a fair number of

> activities that you can

> sit and watch him on, such as one of those bouncy

> houses, a hay bale

> maze, etc.

>

> Depending on how limited you are, take a cane. This

> will encourage

> people to let you sit down when you need to, etc. If

> you have one with

> the attached seat that folds down, so much the

> better. Enjoy!

>

> flo boss wrote:

>

> >Eleanor, I will be taking my son to in

> Roaring

> >Camp next week-end, and am very nervous as I do not

> >ambulate well. About how far are the trains from

> the

> >parking lot? Is there alot of walking involved?

> >

> --

>

> Eleanor Oster

> eleanor@... (personal address)

> www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> San , CA

> Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> ~5'9 " tall

> 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

>

>

____________________________________________________

Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page

http://www.yahoo.com/r/hs

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Thanks for the info, Eleanor. We have had tickets for

a few months now. And I don't have a cane,

unfortunately, so I am a little scared...

Pam

--- Eleanor Oster wls@...> wrote:

> Hi Pam,

>

> First of all, if you are planning on RIDING ,

> and you don't have

> tickets, forget it. They've been sold out for

> months. If you do have

> tickets, don't worry too much about the walk from

> the parking lot. There

> is a little shuttle train that goes from the parking

> area to the depot.

> How old is your son? There are a fair number of

> activities that you can

> sit and watch him on, such as one of those bouncy

> houses, a hay bale

> maze, etc.

>

> Depending on how limited you are, take a cane. This

> will encourage

> people to let you sit down when you need to, etc. If

> you have one with

> the attached seat that folds down, so much the

> better. Enjoy!

>

> flo boss wrote:

>

> >Eleanor, I will be taking my son to in

> Roaring

> >Camp next week-end, and am very nervous as I do not

> >ambulate well. About how far are the trains from

> the

> >parking lot? Is there alot of walking involved?

> >

> --

>

> Eleanor Oster

> eleanor@... (personal address)

> www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> San , CA

> Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> ~5'9 " tall

> 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> Current 150-155 Goal until plastics?

>

>

____________________________________________________

Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page

http://www.yahoo.com/r/hs

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