Re: - WARNING - adult in nature

[Guest guest]

Cool. I suppose I will see you in about another two

weeks or so. I hope you are doing fine. Can't wait

to see you.

Pam Marsh

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> Pam...when I'm back in the office, we'll take a

> little lunch time trip over to the store. It's a

> great place.

>

> Robynn

>

> Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote:

> Uncle Timmy, in another post you mentioned someting

> about someone asking you to write a book. I think I

> asked you, Francisco and Robynn about writing a

> book.

> I am waiting and you know it will be a best seller.

> I

> always enjoy reading what you post.

>

> Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I don't

> have

> any issues in the bedroom, I would like to hear more

> about that store " good vibrations " or whatever the

> name is because I am always up for doing new things

> or

> adding just a little more spice to things.

>

> thanks again.

>

> Pam Marsh

>

> --- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote:

>

> > This is fantastic advise, Eleanor, thank you for

> > your honesty and

> > openness! This can be a very scary topic, for the

> > notoriously

> > fragile male ego, but as a male of a certain age

> > (47), having had

> > diabetes for a decade (completely normal post-op),

> > and having

> > experienced the libido killing effects of Prozac,

> I

> > wholeheartedly

> > endorse each of your suggestions! (Two words:

> oral

> > fixation -

> > LOL!) Oh, don't pretend to be so shocked. I'm a

> > lot of things, but

> > shy isn't one of them!

> >

> > Like obesity, sex is a complex and fascinating

> > topic. To use an apt

> > analogy, it's like a buffet. No one is going to

> > like everything on

> > the menu, but everyone can find something to

> > satisfy. As our food

> > tastes may change post-op, so may our sexual

> > appetites, with age,

> > health, and experience/experimentation.

> >

> > Sex (like food) can mean many things to many

> people.

> > It's a primal

> > biological drive, of course. We must perpetuate

> the

> > species, but at

> > the other end of the spectrum, it's the ultimate

> > physical expression

> > of love between two people. In between are all

> the

> > recreational

> > applications - it just feels so damned good, and

> > (again like food)

> > it releases pleasure chemicals in the brain, and

> the

> > emotional

> > aspects. Sex creates an emotional bond between

> > partners.

> >

> > Just another scenic drive along the journey!

> >

> > Uncle Timmy -236

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > > Hi ,

> > >

> > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband

> > for decades. What

> > I did

> > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > >

> > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation,

> and

> > I truly hope it

> > does

> > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free to

> > reject

> > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

> > diminished because

> > of his

> > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either

> > helping you with

> > either

> > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you

> > play with them?

> > This may

> > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for

> your

> > libido issues

> > to be

> > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend

> > Good Vibrations on

> > San

> > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic

> > literature.

> > >

> > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> suggestions.

> > You do need to

> > take

> > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your

> > sexuality. Like I

> > said,

> > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean

> it

> > to.

> > >

> > > Eleanor

> > >

> > > --

> > > Eleanor Oster

> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > San , CA

> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > Goal 140-150?

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

Cool. I suppose I will see you in about another two

weeks or so. I hope you are doing fine. Can't wait

to see you.

Pam Marsh

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> Pam...when I'm back in the office, we'll take a

> little lunch time trip over to the store. It's a

> great place.

>

> Robynn

>

> Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote:

> Uncle Timmy, in another post you mentioned someting

> about someone asking you to write a book. I think I

> asked you, Francisco and Robynn about writing a

> book.

> I am waiting and you know it will be a best seller.

> I

> always enjoy reading what you post.

>

> Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I don't

> have

> any issues in the bedroom, I would like to hear more

> about that store " good vibrations " or whatever the

> name is because I am always up for doing new things

> or

> adding just a little more spice to things.

>

> thanks again.

>

> Pam Marsh

>

> --- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote:

>

> > This is fantastic advise, Eleanor, thank you for

> > your honesty and

> > openness! This can be a very scary topic, for the

> > notoriously

> > fragile male ego, but as a male of a certain age

> > (47), having had

> > diabetes for a decade (completely normal post-op),

> > and having

> > experienced the libido killing effects of Prozac,

> I

> > wholeheartedly

> > endorse each of your suggestions! (Two words:

> oral

> > fixation -

> > LOL!) Oh, don't pretend to be so shocked. I'm a

> > lot of things, but

> > shy isn't one of them!

> >

> > Like obesity, sex is a complex and fascinating

> > topic. To use an apt

> > analogy, it's like a buffet. No one is going to

> > like everything on

> > the menu, but everyone can find something to

> > satisfy. As our food

> > tastes may change post-op, so may our sexual

> > appetites, with age,

> > health, and experience/experimentation.

> >

> > Sex (like food) can mean many things to many

> people.

> > It's a primal

> > biological drive, of course. We must perpetuate

> the

> > species, but at

> > the other end of the spectrum, it's the ultimate

> > physical expression

> > of love between two people. In between are all

> the

> > recreational

> > applications - it just feels so damned good, and

> > (again like food)

> > it releases pleasure chemicals in the brain, and

> the

> > emotional

> > aspects. Sex creates an emotional bond between

> > partners.

> >

> > Just another scenic drive along the journey!

> >

> > Uncle Timmy -236

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > > Hi ,

> > >

> > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband

> > for decades. What

> > I did

> > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > >

> > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation,

> and

> > I truly hope it

> > does

> > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free to

> > reject

> > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

> > diminished because

> > of his

> > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either

> > helping you with

> > either

> > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you

> > play with them?

> > This may

> > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for

> your

> > libido issues

> > to be

> > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend

> > Good Vibrations on

> > San

> > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic

> > literature.

> > >

> > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> suggestions.

> > You do need to

> > take

> > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your

> > sexuality. Like I

> > said,

> > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean

> it

> > to.

> > >

> > > Eleanor

> > >

> > > --

> > > Eleanor Oster

> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > San , CA

> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > Goal 140-150?

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

Cool. I suppose I will see you in about another two

weeks or so. I hope you are doing fine. Can't wait

to see you.

Pam Marsh

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> Pam...when I'm back in the office, we'll take a

> little lunch time trip over to the store. It's a

> great place.

>

> Robynn

>

> Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote:

> Uncle Timmy, in another post you mentioned someting

> about someone asking you to write a book. I think I

> asked you, Francisco and Robynn about writing a

> book.

> I am waiting and you know it will be a best seller.

> I

> always enjoy reading what you post.

>

> Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I don't

> have

> any issues in the bedroom, I would like to hear more

> about that store " good vibrations " or whatever the

> name is because I am always up for doing new things

> or

> adding just a little more spice to things.

>

> thanks again.

>

> Pam Marsh

>

> --- Uncle Timmy n01un0@...> wrote:

>

> > This is fantastic advise, Eleanor, thank you for

> > your honesty and

> > openness! This can be a very scary topic, for the

> > notoriously

> > fragile male ego, but as a male of a certain age

> > (47), having had

> > diabetes for a decade (completely normal post-op),

> > and having

> > experienced the libido killing effects of Prozac,

> I

> > wholeheartedly

> > endorse each of your suggestions! (Two words:

> oral

> > fixation -

> > LOL!) Oh, don't pretend to be so shocked. I'm a

> > lot of things, but

> > shy isn't one of them!

> >

> > Like obesity, sex is a complex and fascinating

> > topic. To use an apt

> > analogy, it's like a buffet. No one is going to

> > like everything on

> > the menu, but everyone can find something to

> > satisfy. As our food

> > tastes may change post-op, so may our sexual

> > appetites, with age,

> > health, and experience/experimentation.

> >

> > Sex (like food) can mean many things to many

> people.

> > It's a primal

> > biological drive, of course. We must perpetuate

> the

> > species, but at

> > the other end of the spectrum, it's the ultimate

> > physical expression

> > of love between two people. In between are all

> the

> > recreational

> > applications - it just feels so damned good, and

> > (again like food)

> > it releases pleasure chemicals in the brain, and

> the

> > emotional

> > aspects. Sex creates an emotional bond between

> > partners.

> >

> > Just another scenic drive along the journey!

> >

> > Uncle Timmy -236

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > > Hi ,

> > >

> > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband

> > for decades. What

> > I did

> > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > >

> > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation,

> and

> > I truly hope it

> > does

> > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free to

> > reject

> > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

> > diminished because

> > of his

> > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either

> > helping you with

> > either

> > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you

> > play with them?

> > This may

> > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for

> your

> > libido issues

> > to be

> > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend

> > Good Vibrations on

> > San

> > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic

> > literature.

> > >

> > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> suggestions.

> > You do need to

> > take

> > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your

> > sexuality. Like I

> > said,

> > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean

> it

> > to.

> > >

> > > Eleanor

> > >

> > > --

> > > Eleanor Oster

> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > San , CA

> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > Goal 140-150?

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not sure

where they went as I have moved and you know how stuff

gets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing my

husband, he might have thrown it away. I can be a

little over agressive for my dear husband-lol. One

thing about, he aint complaining-lol

Pam Marsh

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> Tee hee....

>

> onebigscot@...> wrote:Question: Is it

> wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone on

>

> this board...even though the " professee " is happily

> married to someone

> off this board?

>

> Just curious... ; )

>

>

>

>

>

> > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and

> ankle straps...and

> the blindfold...but only when combined with

> feathers, and soft sweet

> things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always

> nice. LaWanda, in

> a way, you always get that to some degree, don't

> you? That would be

> pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN

> along with the cuffs

> etc.. Nada.

> >

>

>

>

>

>

> ---------------------------------

>

[Guest guest]

Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not sure

where they went as I have moved and you know how stuff

gets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing my

husband, he might have thrown it away. I can be a

little over agressive for my dear husband-lol. One

thing about, he aint complaining-lol

Pam Marsh

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> Tee hee....

>

> onebigscot@...> wrote:Question: Is it

> wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone on

>

> this board...even though the " professee " is happily

> married to someone

> off this board?

>

> Just curious... ; )

>

>

>

>

>

> > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and

> ankle straps...and

> the blindfold...but only when combined with

> feathers, and soft sweet

> things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always

> nice. LaWanda, in

> a way, you always get that to some degree, don't

> you? That would be

> pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN

> along with the cuffs

> etc.. Nada.

> >

>

>

>

>

>

> ---------------------------------

>

[Guest guest]

Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not sure

where they went as I have moved and you know how stuff

gets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing my

husband, he might have thrown it away. I can be a

little over agressive for my dear husband-lol. One

thing about, he aint complaining-lol

Pam Marsh

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> Tee hee....

>

> onebigscot@...> wrote:Question: Is it

> wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone on

>

> this board...even though the " professee " is happily

> married to someone

> off this board?

>

> Just curious... ; )

>

>

>

>

>

> > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and

> ankle straps...and

> the blindfold...but only when combined with

> feathers, and soft sweet

> things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always

> nice. LaWanda, in

> a way, you always get that to some degree, don't

> you? That would be

> pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN

> along with the cuffs

> etc.. Nada.

> >

>

>

>

>

>

> ---------------------------------

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you .

Pam Marsh

--- onebigscot@...> wrote:

> Well, the " Bullet " part is kinda egg-shaped...and

> smooth. It is

> about two inches long and not quite an inch across.

> There is a wire

> that comes out from one end, leading to the control

> box which also

> holds a 9v battery.

>

> There are 3 or 4 vibration settings...slow, fast and

> a pulse.

> My " end user " prefers the slow, but sometimes

> responds well when I

> crank up the speed near the end of the adventure.

>

> They are inexpensive, easy to use and always

> provides a positive

> result. They can be used by yourself, or easily

> incorporated into a

> shared experience.

>

>

> Have fun!

>

>

>

>

>

> >

> > > Oh...and for those of you heading to a Passion

> > > Party...I recommend

> > > getting a Silver Bullet. Such a bundle of joy

> > > wrapped up in a small

> > > package! ; )

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________

> > Yahoo! Mail Mobile

> > Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your

> mobile phone.

> > http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Thank you .

Pam Marsh

--- onebigscot@...> wrote:

> Well, the " Bullet " part is kinda egg-shaped...and

> smooth. It is

> about two inches long and not quite an inch across.

> There is a wire

> that comes out from one end, leading to the control

> box which also

> holds a 9v battery.

>

> There are 3 or 4 vibration settings...slow, fast and

> a pulse.

> My " end user " prefers the slow, but sometimes

> responds well when I

> crank up the speed near the end of the adventure.

>

> They are inexpensive, easy to use and always

> provides a positive

> result. They can be used by yourself, or easily

> incorporated into a

> shared experience.

>

>

> Have fun!

>

>

>

>

>

> >

> > > Oh...and for those of you heading to a Passion

> > > Party...I recommend

> > > getting a Silver Bullet. Such a bundle of joy

> > > wrapped up in a small

> > > package! ; )

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________

> > Yahoo! Mail Mobile

> > Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your

> mobile phone.

> > http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail

>

>

>

__________________________________

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[Guest guest]

Thank you .

Pam Marsh

--- onebigscot@...> wrote:

> Well, the " Bullet " part is kinda egg-shaped...and

> smooth. It is

> about two inches long and not quite an inch across.

> There is a wire

> that comes out from one end, leading to the control

> box which also

> holds a 9v battery.

>

> There are 3 or 4 vibration settings...slow, fast and

> a pulse.

> My " end user " prefers the slow, but sometimes

> responds well when I

> crank up the speed near the end of the adventure.

>

> They are inexpensive, easy to use and always

> provides a positive

> result. They can be used by yourself, or easily

> incorporated into a

> shared experience.

>

>

> Have fun!

>

>

>

>

>

> >

> > > Oh...and for those of you heading to a Passion

> > > Party...I recommend

> > > getting a Silver Bullet. Such a bundle of joy

> > > wrapped up in a small

> > > package! ; )

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________

> > Yahoo! Mail Mobile

> > Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your

> mobile phone.

> > http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail

>

>

>

__________________________________

Discover Yahoo!

Find restaurants, movies, travel and more fun for the weekend. Check it out!

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[Guest guest]

A whip! Aha!! I knew your military background had to manifest somehow!!!

RobynnPamela A Marsh wrote:

Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not surewhere they went as I have moved and you know how stuffgets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing myhusband, he might have thrown it away. I can be alittle over agressive for my dear husband-lol. Onething about, he aint complaining-lolPam Marsh--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> Tee hee....> > wrote:Question: Is it> wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone on> > this board...even though the "professee" is happily> married to someone > off this board?> > Just curious... ; )> > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and> ankle straps...and > the blindfold...but only when combined with> feathers, and soft sweet > things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always> nice. LaWanda, in > a way, you always get that to some degree, don't> you? That would be > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN> along with the cuffs > etc.. Nada. > >> > > > > > --------------------------------->

[Guest guest]

A whip! Aha!! I knew your military background had to manifest somehow!!!

RobynnPamela A Marsh wrote:

Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not surewhere they went as I have moved and you know how stuffgets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing myhusband, he might have thrown it away. I can be alittle over agressive for my dear husband-lol. Onething about, he aint complaining-lolPam Marsh--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> Tee hee....> > wrote:Question: Is it> wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone on> > this board...even though the "professee" is happily> married to someone > off this board?> > Just curious... ; )> > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and> ankle straps...and > the blindfold...but only when combined with> feathers, and soft sweet > things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always> nice. LaWanda, in > a way, you always get that to some degree, don't> you? That would be > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN> along with the cuffs > etc.. Nada. > >> > > > > > --------------------------------->

[Guest guest]

A whip! Aha!! I knew your military background had to manifest somehow!!!

RobynnPamela A Marsh wrote:

Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not surewhere they went as I have moved and you know how stuffgets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing myhusband, he might have thrown it away. I can be alittle over agressive for my dear husband-lol. Onething about, he aint complaining-lolPam Marsh--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> Tee hee....> > wrote:Question: Is it> wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone on> > this board...even though the "professee" is happily> married to someone > off this board?> > Just curious... ; )> > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and> ankle straps...and > the blindfold...but only when combined with> feathers, and soft sweet > things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always> nice. LaWanda, in > a way, you always get that to some degree, don't> you? That would be > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN> along with the cuffs > etc.. Nada. > >> > > > > > --------------------------------->

[Guest guest]

Hubby and I bought one of those for a drive up to Fort Bragg from Ripon. It was

great for a long drive by ourselves.

Kristie

>

>

> Date: 2005/06/14 Tue AM 08:17:06 PDT

> To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients

> Subject: Re: - WARNING -

adult in nature

>

>

Well, the " Bullet " part is kinda egg-shaped...and smooth. It is

about two inches long and not quite an inch across. There is a wire

that comes out from one end, leading to the control box which also

holds a 9v battery.

There are 3 or 4 vibration settings...slow, fast and a pulse.

My " end user " prefers the slow, but sometimes responds well when I

crank up the speed near the end of the adventure.

They are inexpensive, easy to use and always provides a positive

result. They can be used by yourself, or easily incorporated into a

shared experience.

Have fun!

>

> > Oh...and for those of you heading to a Passion

> > Party...I recommend

> > getting a Silver Bullet. Such a bundle of joy

> > wrapped up in a small

> > package! ; )

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

>

> __________________________________

> Yahoo! Mail Mobile

> Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone.

> http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail

[Guest guest]

Hubby and I bought one of those for a drive up to Fort Bragg from Ripon. It was

great for a long drive by ourselves.

Kristie

>

>

> Date: 2005/06/14 Tue AM 08:17:06 PDT

> To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients

> Subject: Re: - WARNING -

adult in nature

>

>

Well, the " Bullet " part is kinda egg-shaped...and smooth. It is

about two inches long and not quite an inch across. There is a wire

that comes out from one end, leading to the control box which also

holds a 9v battery.

There are 3 or 4 vibration settings...slow, fast and a pulse.

My " end user " prefers the slow, but sometimes responds well when I

crank up the speed near the end of the adventure.

They are inexpensive, easy to use and always provides a positive

result. They can be used by yourself, or easily incorporated into a

shared experience.

Have fun!

>

> > Oh...and for those of you heading to a Passion

> > Party...I recommend

> > getting a Silver Bullet. Such a bundle of joy

> > wrapped up in a small

> > package! ; )

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

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Pam,

The butterfly, I have always said I was going to by me one of those, with a

wireless remote. LOL

KRistie

>

>

> Date: 2005/06/14 Tue AM 08:24:44 PDT

> To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients

> Subject: Re: Re: - WARNING

- adult in nature

>

>

Well, I thought I would just chime right on in here

and say that Kamsutra has these nice little products

for couples. The one thing I really like is this

product called " The Painter's Box " . I have not used

it since surgery and not so sure I can since it is

four different flavors of chocolate that you are

suppose to use to sort of paint the chocolate onto the

body and then enjoy nibbling or licking it off. Not

sure if that would cause dumping or not. I also found

this cute little thingie that you can strap on (stay

with me people) and it stimulates you. I mean you

could be at work or whereever and be a pleasurized all

day long (yeah baby!!!). They come in all sorts of

colors.

The one thing I said I would purchase was the book

called Karmasutra (spelling). I watched the movie so

I am sure the book has to be so much more better.

Pam Marsh

--- LaWanda Ezell wrote:

> I knew we'd get around to the drugs sooner or later!

> Lol. I suppose I do

> get some of it, but really I am very much on guard

> still and don't like, or

> really don't know how to deal with, things that

> touch me unless I'm

> expecting it. This is probably due to my childhood

> and the abuse I

> suffered. Also I am not totally blind, and I have

> enough vision to see

> some things. Of course I suppose someone could

> sneak their hand over with

> something soft in it, and I might not see, just

> depends where I'm

> looking. LaWanda At 11:38 PM 6/13/05, you wrote:

> >I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and

> ankle straps...and the

> >blindfold...but only when combined with feathers,

> and soft sweet

> >things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always

> nice. LaWanda, in a

> >way, you always get that to some degree, don't you?

> That would be pretty

> >cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN along

> with the cuffs etc.. Nada.

> >

> >Oh jeez...I'm putting this on a public board with

> TWO known co-workers

> >lurking out there!? What has become of me? Oh

> yes...pain killer. That's

> >it. Pain killer.

> >

> >LaWanda Ezell wrote:

> >No they just have fun too! My husband and I took

> some on our honeymoon

> >just to amuse ourselves. LaWanda At 09:20 PM

> 6/13/05, you wrote:

> > >My ex and I had a great " toy box. " Unfortunatly,

> she got custody of

> > >it in the divorce and I got the cat. (LOL!) BTW,

> " real " men are not

> > >intimidated by toys!

> > >

> > >UNcle Timmy -236

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > > > > Hi ,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous

> husband for decades.

> > >What

> > > > >I did

> > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> basically closed the

> > > > >door on

> > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)

> recommendation, and I truly

> > >hope it

> > > > >does

> > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> marriage, feel free

> > >to

> > > > >reject

> > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's

> libido is diminished

> > >because

> > > > >of his

> > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with

> either helping you with

> > > > >either

> > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you

> while you play with them?

> > > > >This may

> > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way

> for your libido

> > >issues

> > > > >to be

> > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly

> recommend Good

> > >Vibrations on

> > > > >San

> > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and

> erotic literature.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> suggestions. You do need

> > >to

> > > > >take

> > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including

> your sexuality.

> > >Like I

> > > > >said,

> > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't

> mean it to.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Eleanor

> > > > > >

> > > > > > --

> > > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > > San , CA

> > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond

> (CA)

> > > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

[Guest guest]

Pam,

The butterfly, I have always said I was going to by me one of those, with a

wireless remote. LOL

KRistie

>

>

> Date: 2005/06/14 Tue AM 08:24:44 PDT

> To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients

> Subject: Re: Re: - WARNING

- adult in nature

>

>

Well, I thought I would just chime right on in here

and say that Kamsutra has these nice little products

for couples. The one thing I really like is this

product called " The Painter's Box " . I have not used

it since surgery and not so sure I can since it is

four different flavors of chocolate that you are

suppose to use to sort of paint the chocolate onto the

body and then enjoy nibbling or licking it off. Not

sure if that would cause dumping or not. I also found

this cute little thingie that you can strap on (stay

with me people) and it stimulates you. I mean you

could be at work or whereever and be a pleasurized all

day long (yeah baby!!!). They come in all sorts of

colors.

The one thing I said I would purchase was the book

called Karmasutra (spelling). I watched the movie so

I am sure the book has to be so much more better.

Pam Marsh

--- LaWanda Ezell wrote:

> I knew we'd get around to the drugs sooner or later!

> Lol. I suppose I do

> get some of it, but really I am very much on guard

> still and don't like, or

> really don't know how to deal with, things that

> touch me unless I'm

> expecting it. This is probably due to my childhood

> and the abuse I

> suffered. Also I am not totally blind, and I have

> enough vision to see

> some things. Of course I suppose someone could

> sneak their hand over with

> something soft in it, and I might not see, just

> depends where I'm

> looking. LaWanda At 11:38 PM 6/13/05, you wrote:

> >I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and

> ankle straps...and the

> >blindfold...but only when combined with feathers,

> and soft sweet

> >things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always

> nice. LaWanda, in a

> >way, you always get that to some degree, don't you?

> That would be pretty

> >cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN along

> with the cuffs etc.. Nada.

> >

> >Oh jeez...I'm putting this on a public board with

> TWO known co-workers

> >lurking out there!? What has become of me? Oh

> yes...pain killer. That's

> >it. Pain killer.

> >

> >LaWanda Ezell wrote:

> >No they just have fun too! My husband and I took

> some on our honeymoon

> >just to amuse ourselves. LaWanda At 09:20 PM

> 6/13/05, you wrote:

> > >My ex and I had a great " toy box. " Unfortunatly,

> she got custody of

> > >it in the divorce and I got the cat. (LOL!) BTW,

> " real " men are not

> > >intimidated by toys!

> > >

> > >UNcle Timmy -236

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > > > > Hi ,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous

> husband for decades.

> > >What

> > > > >I did

> > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> basically closed the

> > > > >door on

> > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)

> recommendation, and I truly

> > >hope it

> > > > >does

> > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> marriage, feel free

> > >to

> > > > >reject

> > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's

> libido is diminished

> > >because

> > > > >of his

> > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with

> either helping you with

> > > > >either

> > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you

> while you play with them?

> > > > >This may

> > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way

> for your libido

> > >issues

> > > > >to be

> > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly

> recommend Good

> > >Vibrations on

> > > > >San

> > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and

> erotic literature.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> suggestions. You do need

> > >to

> > > > >take

> > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including

> your sexuality.

> > >Like I

> > > > >said,

> > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't

> mean it to.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Eleanor

> > > > > >

> > > > > > --

> > > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > > San , CA

> > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond

> (CA)

> > > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

[Guest guest]

Pam,

The butterfly, I have always said I was going to by me one of those, with a

wireless remote. LOL

KRistie

>

>

> Date: 2005/06/14 Tue AM 08:24:44 PDT

> To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients

> Subject: Re: Re: - WARNING

- adult in nature

>

>

Well, I thought I would just chime right on in here

and say that Kamsutra has these nice little products

for couples. The one thing I really like is this

product called " The Painter's Box " . I have not used

it since surgery and not so sure I can since it is

four different flavors of chocolate that you are

suppose to use to sort of paint the chocolate onto the

body and then enjoy nibbling or licking it off. Not

sure if that would cause dumping or not. I also found

this cute little thingie that you can strap on (stay

with me people) and it stimulates you. I mean you

could be at work or whereever and be a pleasurized all

day long (yeah baby!!!). They come in all sorts of

colors.

The one thing I said I would purchase was the book

called Karmasutra (spelling). I watched the movie so

I am sure the book has to be so much more better.

Pam Marsh

--- LaWanda Ezell wrote:

> I knew we'd get around to the drugs sooner or later!

> Lol. I suppose I do

> get some of it, but really I am very much on guard

> still and don't like, or

> really don't know how to deal with, things that

> touch me unless I'm

> expecting it. This is probably due to my childhood

> and the abuse I

> suffered. Also I am not totally blind, and I have

> enough vision to see

> some things. Of course I suppose someone could

> sneak their hand over with

> something soft in it, and I might not see, just

> depends where I'm

> looking. LaWanda At 11:38 PM 6/13/05, you wrote:

> >I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and

> ankle straps...and the

> >blindfold...but only when combined with feathers,

> and soft sweet

> >things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always

> nice. LaWanda, in a

> >way, you always get that to some degree, don't you?

> That would be pretty

> >cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN along

> with the cuffs etc.. Nada.

> >

> >Oh jeez...I'm putting this on a public board with

> TWO known co-workers

> >lurking out there!? What has become of me? Oh

> yes...pain killer. That's

> >it. Pain killer.

> >

> >LaWanda Ezell wrote:

> >No they just have fun too! My husband and I took

> some on our honeymoon

> >just to amuse ourselves. LaWanda At 09:20 PM

> 6/13/05, you wrote:

> > >My ex and I had a great " toy box. " Unfortunatly,

> she got custody of

> > >it in the divorce and I got the cat. (LOL!) BTW,

> " real " men are not

> > >intimidated by toys!

> > >

> > >UNcle Timmy -236

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > > > > Hi ,

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous

> husband for decades.

> > >What

> > > > >I did

> > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> basically closed the

> > > > >door on

> > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)

> recommendation, and I truly

> > >hope it

> > > > >does

> > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> marriage, feel free

> > >to

> > > > >reject

> > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's

> libido is diminished

> > >because

> > > > >of his

> > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with

> either helping you with

> > > > >either

> > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you

> while you play with them?

> > > > >This may

> > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way

> for your libido

> > >issues

> > > > >to be

> > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly

> recommend Good

> > >Vibrations on

> > > > >San

> > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and

> erotic literature.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> suggestions. You do need

> > >to

> > > > >take

> > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including

> your sexuality.

> > >Like I

> > > > >said,

> > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't

> mean it to.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > Eleanor

> > > > > >

> > > > > > --

> > > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > > San , CA

> > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond

> (CA)

> > > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > >

[Guest guest]

ROBYNN!!! YOu are a nut and I love it!!

Huggles

> > > > > Hi ,

> > > > >

> > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for

decades.

> >What

> > > >I did

> > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed

the

> > > >door on

> > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > >

> > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly

> >hope it

> > > >does

> > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel

free

> >to

> > > >reject

> > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished

> >because

> > > >of his

> > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you

with

> > > >either

> > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with

them?

> > > >This may

> > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido

> >issues

> > > >to be

> > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good

> >Vibrations on

> > > >San

> > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature.

> > > > >

> > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do

need

> >to

> > > >take

> > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality.

> >Like I

> > > >said,

> > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to.

> > > > >

> > > > > Eleanor

> > > > >

> > > > > --

> > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > San , CA

> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

[Guest guest]

ROBYNN!!! YOu are a nut and I love it!!

Huggles

> > > > > Hi ,

> > > > >

> > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for

decades.

> >What

> > > >I did

> > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed

the

> > > >door on

> > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > >

> > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly

> >hope it

> > > >does

> > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel

free

> >to

> > > >reject

> > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished

> >because

> > > >of his

> > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you

with

> > > >either

> > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with

them?

> > > >This may

> > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido

> >issues

> > > >to be

> > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good

> >Vibrations on

> > > >San

> > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature.

> > > > >

> > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do

need

> >to

> > > >take

> > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality.

> >Like I

> > > >said,

> > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to.

> > > > >

> > > > > Eleanor

> > > > >

> > > > > --

> > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > San , CA

> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

[Guest guest]

ROBYNN!!! YOu are a nut and I love it!!

Huggles

> > > > > Hi ,

> > > > >

> > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for

decades.

> >What

> > > >I did

> > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed

the

> > > >door on

> > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > >

> > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly

> >hope it

> > > >does

> > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel

free

> >to

> > > >reject

> > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished

> >because

> > > >of his

> > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you

with

> > > >either

> > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with

them?

> > > >This may

> > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido

> >issues

> > > >to be

> > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good

> >Vibrations on

> > > >San

> > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature.

> > > > >

> > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do

need

> >to

> > > >take

> > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality.

> >Like I

> > > >said,

> > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to.

> > > > >

> > > > > Eleanor

> > > > >

> > > > > --

> > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > San , CA

> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

[Guest guest]

LOL Profess away!!!!

Huggles

> > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and ankle

straps...and

> the blindfold...but only when combined with feathers, and soft

sweet

> things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always nice.

LaWanda, in

> a way, you always get that to some degree, don't you? That would

be

> pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN along with the

cuffs

> etc.. Nada.

> >

[Guest guest]

LOL Profess away!!!!

Huggles

> > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and ankle

straps...and

> the blindfold...but only when combined with feathers, and soft

sweet

> things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always nice.

LaWanda, in

> a way, you always get that to some degree, don't you? That would

be

> pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN along with the

cuffs

> etc.. Nada.

> >

[Guest guest]

LOL Profess away!!!!

Huggles

> > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and ankle

straps...and

> the blindfold...but only when combined with feathers, and soft

sweet

> things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always nice.

LaWanda, in

> a way, you always get that to some degree, don't you? That would

be

> pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN along with the

cuffs

> etc.. Nada.

> >

[Guest guest]

I am up for a group outing to the vibrations store!!!

I get paid on Monday!!!

LOL

Huggles

> > > Hi ,

> > >

> > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband

> > for decades. What

> > I did

> > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > >

> > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and

> > I truly hope it

> > does

> > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free to

> > reject

> > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

> > diminished because

> > of his

> > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either

> > helping you with

> > either

> > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you

> > play with them?

> > This may

> > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your

> > libido issues

> > to be

> > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend

> > Good Vibrations on

> > San

> > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic

> > literature.

> > >

> > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions.

> > You do need to

> > take

> > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your

> > sexuality. Like I

> > said,

> > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it

> > to.

> > >

> > > Eleanor

> > >

> > > --

> > > Eleanor Oster

> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > San , CA

> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > Goal 140-150?

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

I am up for a group outing to the vibrations store!!!

I get paid on Monday!!!

LOL

Huggles

> > > Hi ,

> > >

> > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband

> > for decades. What

> > I did

> > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > >

> > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and

> > I truly hope it

> > does

> > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free to

> > reject

> > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

> > diminished because

> > of his

> > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either

> > helping you with

> > either

> > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you

> > play with them?

> > This may

> > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your

> > libido issues

> > to be

> > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend

> > Good Vibrations on

> > San

> > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic

> > literature.

> > >

> > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions.

> > You do need to

> > take

> > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your

> > sexuality. Like I

> > said,

> > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it

> > to.

> > >

> > > Eleanor

> > >

> > > --

> > > Eleanor Oster

> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > San , CA

> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > Goal 140-150?

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>