Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Good girl. Let's hope that your hubby's libido will return!!! Kisses, Robynn Diane Duenas wrote: Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this August!!! Thanks for listeningHuggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Good girl. Let's hope that your hubby's libido will return!!! Kisses, Robynn Diane Duenas wrote: Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this August!!! Thanks for listeningHuggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Good girl. Let's hope that your hubby's libido will return!!! Kisses, Robynn Diane Duenas wrote: Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this August!!! Thanks for listeningHuggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Your welcome brenda, i am sure its frustrating probabally both ways. You have a lot of years there in your marriage, i guess if he is open to talking about things and you can talk about some of it maybe that could help, I guess with his health condition certain medications probabally make it hard for him to perform, but do they ever offer him things like viagra or some of the other newer medications, i guess it gets so complicated once you take one thing it can counter act another........................... The mind can really wander at a speed we can not emmotionally handle thats for sure at least for me sometimes. Thinking good thoughts for you hey its 99 here a camosile top we be good right now lol ! Colleen Diane Duenas wrote: Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this August!!! Thanks for listeningHuggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Your welcome brenda, i am sure its frustrating probabally both ways. You have a lot of years there in your marriage, i guess if he is open to talking about things and you can talk about some of it maybe that could help, I guess with his health condition certain medications probabally make it hard for him to perform, but do they ever offer him things like viagra or some of the other newer medications, i guess it gets so complicated once you take one thing it can counter act another........................... The mind can really wander at a speed we can not emmotionally handle thats for sure at least for me sometimes. Thinking good thoughts for you hey its 99 here a camosile top we be good right now lol ! Colleen Diane Duenas wrote: Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this August!!! Thanks for listeningHuggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Your welcome brenda, i am sure its frustrating probabally both ways. You have a lot of years there in your marriage, i guess if he is open to talking about things and you can talk about some of it maybe that could help, I guess with his health condition certain medications probabally make it hard for him to perform, but do they ever offer him things like viagra or some of the other newer medications, i guess it gets so complicated once you take one thing it can counter act another........................... The mind can really wander at a speed we can not emmotionally handle thats for sure at least for me sometimes. Thinking good thoughts for you hey its 99 here a camosile top we be good right now lol ! Colleen Diane Duenas wrote: Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this August!!! Thanks for listeningHuggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 We tried the viagra thing and he wound up in the hospital!!! He isnt much of a talker, but Im kinda forcing the issue. Its gonna be ok....just a bump in the road! Huggles > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Viagra is a very bad thing for heart patients. i can't even believe that the doctor would prescribe it. I work in the hospital and I have seen people come through the ER with complications, very serious complications. Laurie __________________________________ Yahoo! Mail Mobile Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Viagra is a very bad thing for heart patients. i can't even believe that the doctor would prescribe it. I work in the hospital and I have seen people come through the ER with complications, very serious complications. Laurie __________________________________ Yahoo! Mail Mobile Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 Viagra is a very bad thing for heart patients. i can't even believe that the doctor would prescribe it. I work in the hospital and I have seen people come through the ER with complications, very serious complications. Laurie __________________________________ Yahoo! Mail Mobile Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I was surprised too and he had only taken half of one!! > Viagra is a very bad thing for heart patients. i > can't even believe that the doctor would prescribe it. > I work in the hospital and I have seen people come > through the ER with complications, very serious > complications. > Laurie > > > > > __________________________________ > Yahoo! Mail Mobile > Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. > http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I was surprised too and he had only taken half of one!! > Viagra is a very bad thing for heart patients. i > can't even believe that the doctor would prescribe it. > I work in the hospital and I have seen people come > through the ER with complications, very serious > complications. > Laurie > > > > > __________________________________ > Yahoo! Mail Mobile > Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. > http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I was surprised too and he had only taken half of one!! > Viagra is a very bad thing for heart patients. i > can't even believe that the doctor would prescribe it. > I work in the hospital and I have seen people come > through the ER with complications, very serious > complications. > Laurie > > > > > __________________________________ > Yahoo! Mail Mobile > Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. > http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 --sounds like my marriage. I'll be married to my DH 25 years this August. We never were really active, never into sports or anything, just a little more mobile when we first got married. And we were always active in the bedroom, even when my weight got so high we had to find ways to adapt around my fat. (sorry if this is too much info) But, now that I've lost over 160 pounds and I can walk so much more, my hubby's legs have developed problems. Even though he finally quit smoking, his legs are giving him problems. They hurt some days if he walks too much. We were in the store last weekend, and I mentioned that I felt bad that now that I could walk and walk, but he couldn't any more. That made him feel bad. :-( Life is so funny that way. He knows I love him anyways. I'll find a way to adapt and stay getting healthier and show him how much I still love him. --Sandi > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 --sounds like my marriage. I'll be married to my DH 25 years this August. We never were really active, never into sports or anything, just a little more mobile when we first got married. And we were always active in the bedroom, even when my weight got so high we had to find ways to adapt around my fat. (sorry if this is too much info) But, now that I've lost over 160 pounds and I can walk so much more, my hubby's legs have developed problems. Even though he finally quit smoking, his legs are giving him problems. They hurt some days if he walks too much. We were in the store last weekend, and I mentioned that I felt bad that now that I could walk and walk, but he couldn't any more. That made him feel bad. :-( Life is so funny that way. He knows I love him anyways. I'll find a way to adapt and stay getting healthier and show him how much I still love him. --Sandi > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 --sounds like my marriage. I'll be married to my DH 25 years this August. We never were really active, never into sports or anything, just a little more mobile when we first got married. And we were always active in the bedroom, even when my weight got so high we had to find ways to adapt around my fat. (sorry if this is too much info) But, now that I've lost over 160 pounds and I can walk so much more, my hubby's legs have developed problems. Even though he finally quit smoking, his legs are giving him problems. They hurt some days if he walks too much. We were in the store last weekend, and I mentioned that I felt bad that now that I could walk and walk, but he couldn't any more. That made him feel bad. :-( Life is so funny that way. He knows I love him anyways. I'll find a way to adapt and stay getting healthier and show him how much I still love him. --Sandi > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 , I am glad you were honest with your husband and I am sure he respects you more (not that he did not already) because you were open and honest and you came to him with it instead of to someone else. I have never believed that the grass was greener on the other side. There is always was dried up grass and dead roots and weeds too often we can't see it because of the fence. This is just a test for you all and I will be prayerful about your situation. Take care hon and my hat is off to you for handling the situation the way you did. Pam Marsh --- Diane Duenas brendadiane64@...> wrote: > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its > just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while > and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its > really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who > has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But > lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly > grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just > when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new > body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled > up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I > knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away > from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he > had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our > marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 , I am glad you were honest with your husband and I am sure he respects you more (not that he did not already) because you were open and honest and you came to him with it instead of to someone else. I have never believed that the grass was greener on the other side. There is always was dried up grass and dead roots and weeds too often we can't see it because of the fence. This is just a test for you all and I will be prayerful about your situation. Take care hon and my hat is off to you for handling the situation the way you did. Pam Marsh --- Diane Duenas brendadiane64@...> wrote: > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its > just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while > and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its > really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who > has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But > lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly > grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just > when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new > body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled > up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I > knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away > from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he > had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our > marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 , I am glad you were honest with your husband and I am sure he respects you more (not that he did not already) because you were open and honest and you came to him with it instead of to someone else. I have never believed that the grass was greener on the other side. There is always was dried up grass and dead roots and weeds too often we can't see it because of the fence. This is just a test for you all and I will be prayerful about your situation. Take care hon and my hat is off to you for handling the situation the way you did. Pam Marsh --- Diane Duenas brendadiane64@...> wrote: > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its > just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while > and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its > really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who > has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But > lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly > grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just > when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new > body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled > up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I > knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away > from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he > had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our > marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 , Remember you are allowed to take the first step in your sexual relationship with your husbands. You may be hesitant at first but do a strip tease or (don't be shocked at me) but watch a dirty movie together. It can do wonders. > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 , Remember you are allowed to take the first step in your sexual relationship with your husbands. You may be hesitant at first but do a strip tease or (don't be shocked at me) but watch a dirty movie together. It can do wonders. > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my changes > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years this > August!!! > > Thanks for listening > > Huggles > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Oh I do it would just be nice if he did for a change!!! Huggles > > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my > changes > > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years > this > > August!!! > > > > Thanks for listening > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Oh I do it would just be nice if he did for a change!!! Huggles > > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my > changes > > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years > this > > August!!! > > > > Thanks for listening > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Oh I do it would just be nice if he did for a change!!! Huggles > > Thank you so much for your heartfelt responses. Its just something > > thats been swirling around in my head for a while and I wanted to > > see if anyone else was feeling like that too. Its really hard > > because I do have the best hubby in the world who has never ever > > done anything wrong. Im actually very spoiled. But lately I have > > been wondering what it would be like.....exactly grass is greener > > syndrome. Especially with his health problems, just when I get my > > libido back his is gone!!! Just when I have a new body...his isnt > > cooperating. He is trying and Im trying....I crawled up in the > > recliner with him last night and told him that I knew all my > changes > > were freaking him out but that I wasnt moving away from him, that I > > wanted to grab his hand and take him with me but he had to let me > > lead him. I am willing to fight for our marriage...its 24 years > this > > August!!! > > > > Thanks for listening > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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