- WARNING - adult in nature

June 13, 2005

Hi ,

I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades. What I did

not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the door on

my sexuality for more than a decade.

OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly hope it does

not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free to reject

it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished because of his

health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with either

hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them? This may

seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido issues to be

addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good Vibrations on San

Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature.

Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need to take

care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality. Like I said,

I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to.

Eleanor

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Eleanor Oster

eleanor@... (personal address)

San , CA

Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

~5'9 " tall

05/09/2003 319 Orientation

07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

Goal 140-150?

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