Re: duodenalswitch/support groups

May 18, 2001

In a message dated 5/18/01 4:22:23 AM, duodenalswitch writes:

<< Another Stupid question is this

How Important do you feel a Support Group is in the recovery of this type of

surgeries.

>>

: Aloha back to you! This is a really good question, I think but

not so easy to answer. I think it depends on one's recovery experience and

also what kind of support is available personally. I mean, if someone has

told relatives/friends and they are supportive and caring and one's recovery

was pretty remarkable (without complications or problems) such as I have

experienced, a support group may not be as crucial. However, if one has had

complications, etc. and difficulties I think a support group becomes rather

essential to getting through the experience.

I am in no way saying only those who have had difficulties post-op should

attend support groups or would want to. I'm just saying that the

importance of one really varies and can be applicable to a person's

particular needs/desires.

It is also important that one feel comfortable in a warm, nuturing

environment when attending a support group. I did not find that at Mt. Sinai

but am really open to and excited about attending the NYU group starting next

month! I think that one must have a feeling of confidence when sharing

personal information (especially of an emotional nature or dealing with

emotional changes related to the surgery) and finding a support group in

which one can express oneself, listen and be listened to is crucial.

Online support is not to be underrated, either. I mean, developing

friendships from this and other lists, sending private e-mails, exchanging

phone numbers, getting to know each other is also an excellent method of

support and can provide more intimacy and friendship than the general list

posting alone.

Welcome!

All the best,

lap DS with gallbladder removal

Dr. Gagner/Dr. Quinn assisting/Mt. Sinai/NYC

January 25, 2001

almost 4 months post-op and still feelin' fab!

pre-op: 307 lbs/ bmi 45 (5'9 " )

now: 265 lbs (still counting down!)

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