Guest guest Posted May 20, 2001 Report Share Posted May 20, 2001 janice, deb has been censored. i frankly feel that is utter bullshit. i don't know who made this decision, but let it be said that i am against it. she was sharing her feelings and experience, just like we all do, and she got crap in return for it. she has had devastating complications and deserved our support and instead she was punished for speaking out. it makes me sick. it makes me sick to hear people talking about what a great source of support this list is when it cut off at the knees someone in most need of caring and understanding. i know there is a lot of that here too, but it's all sour in my mouth after this. deb should be invited back and given an apology. i'm not sure i want to stay involved with this list after the way she was treated. erika preop dr herron waiting for negative h pylori result > ...PS---- SO has anyone heard from Deb ? > (Ciar...lately...) or is she no longer comfortable > posting here ... I miss her.....jmho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2001 Report Share Posted May 21, 2001 > > janice, deb has been censored. WTF?????? That's not FAIR.. just because she was HONEST? Was this a yahoo decision or otherwise?? MELANIE??? Anyone?? Siiigh.. Was this what happened to Barbara Henson, too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2001 Report Share Posted May 21, 2001 Jen, You can do a search of the archives in this list. Search for the term Ciar1. Begin with message 82401 Jan 27, 2001, go on to message 82939 on Feb 1, and continue to message 84945 Feb 22, 2001. This should get you started on what has happened to Deb and what she has posted about her experiences on the DS list. I cannot speak for Deb and only she knows the depth of her own feelings of betrayal and loss, but I believe what was even more devastating to her than the terrible complications she was left with, was her gradually dawning awareness that she had been decieved and lied to by her surgeon about what was done in the O.R. and why it was done. Joy Frost Age: 48 Open DS with Welker Date: 2-5-01 Weight at time of surgery: 255 lbs BMI: 47 Weight as of 5-6-01: 225 lbs BMI: 41.2 (-30 lbs) http://www.duodenalswitch.com/Patients/Joy/joy.html > > > > janice, deb has been censored. i frankly feel that > > is utter bullshit. i don't know who made this > > decision, but let it be said that i am against it. > > she was sharing her feelings and experience, just > > like we all do, and she got crap in return for it. > > she has had devastating complications and deserved > > our support and instead she was punished for > > speaking out. it makes me sick. it makes me sick > > to hear people talking about what a great source of > > support this list is when it cut off at the knees > > someone in most need of caring and understanding. i > > know there is a lot of that here too, but it's all > > sour in my mouth after this. > > > > deb should be invited back and given an apology. > > i'm not sure i want to stay involved with this list > > after the way she was treated. > > > > erika > > preop > > dr herron > > waiting for negative h pylori result > > > > > > > > > ...PS---- SO has anyone heard from Deb ? > > > (Ciar...lately...) or is she no longer comfortable > > > posting here ... I miss her.....jmho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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